Challenge (40)
tusiemcKildare, Ireland102 Threads 1 Polls 2,123 PostsHi All
I posted here a while ago about a guy I met while on hol's he is from England anyhows its just not going to work out:( which Im really sad about but anyway it just made me remember how much I miss being with someone, and Ive also realised I really havent made much of an effort to meet someone on here..so Ive set myself a challenge to have at least one date from here every month, what ye think
bad idea/ good idea?
I posted here a while ago about a guy I met while on hol's he is from England anyhows its just not going to work out:( which Im really sad about but anyway it just made me remember how much I miss being with someone, and Ive also realised I really havent made much of an effort to meet someone on here..so Ive set myself a challenge to have at least one date from here every month, what ye think bad idea/ good idea?
tusiemc: Hi All I posted here a while ago about a guy I met while on hol's he is from England anyhows its just not going to work out:( which Im really sad about but anyway it just made me remember how much I miss being with someone, and Ive also realised I really havent made much of an effort to meet someone on here..so Ive set myself a challenge to have at least one date from here every month, what ye think bad idea/ good idea?
when are we goin out
tusiemc: Hi All I posted here a while ago about a guy I met while on hol's he is from England anyhows its just not going to work out:( which Im really sad about but anyway it just made me remember how much I miss being with someone, and Ive also realised I really havent made much of an effort to meet someone on here..so Ive set myself a challenge to have at least one date from here every month, what ye think bad idea/ good idea?
maybe it would be better to just set a challenge to actually get to know someone then date, i think if you put a serious effort in you should find someone within a monthtusiemc: Hi All I posted here a while ago about a guy I met while on hol's he is from England anyhows its just not going to work out:( which Im really sad about but anyway it just made me remember how much I miss being with someone, and Ive also realised I really havent made much of an effort to meet someone on here..so Ive set myself a challenge to have at least one date from here every month, what ye think bad idea/ good idea?
For me, it would be a bad idea. You'll end up going on dates just for the sake of it, rather than with someone you are genuinely interested in meeting.
On the other side, one of those dates may just work out, but it wouldn't be a "challenge" I would undertake
chancer_mcgancer: when are we goin out
trust you
tusiemc: trust you
Glengirl: For me, it would be a bad idea. You'll end up going on dates just for the sake of it, rather than with someone you are genuinely interested in meeting.
On the other side, one of those dates may just work out, but it wouldn't be a "challenge" I would undertake
On the other side, one of those dates may just work out, but it wouldn't be a "challenge" I would undertake
Thats they way I would see it to, although since I am averaging about 1 date a year from here am not exactly an expert
jimbo79: maybe it would be better to just set a challenge to actually get to know someone then date, i think if you put a serious effort in you should find someone within a month
I think the problem is, all I do is chat to guys on here and never end up going on a date, Im not expecting to find someone within a month or 12 just want to get back out there again...
Glengirl: For me, it would be a bad idea. You'll end up going on dates just for the sake of it, rather than with someone you are genuinely interested in meeting.
On the other side, one of those dates may just work out, but it wouldn't be a "challenge" I would undertake
On the other side, one of those dates may just work out, but it wouldn't be a "challenge" I would undertake
yea I know what you mean GG but as I said to Jimbo Ive chatted to some really nice guys on here just never took the final step of meeting them, I think Im a bit of a chicken to tell you the truth..
Glatlol: Thats they way I would see it to, although since I am averaging about 1 date a year from here am not exactly an expert
Hi missus
I had this conversation with someone from here a while back. There were people chatting about going on dates and having dates lined up, and I just didn't get it. Sure, I'd love to meet someone, but not to the extent that I will meet up with anyone that asks me
tusiemc: yea I know what you mean GG but as I said to Jimbo Ive chatted to some really nice guys on here just never took the final step of meeting them, I think Im a bit of a chicken to tell you the truth..
Well, that's a different thing. If you're actually chatting to guys, getting on well, but not meeting them, it's time you did the asking!!
Good luck
tusiemc: I think the problem is, all I do is chat to guys on here and never end up going on a date, Im not expecting to find someone within a month or 12 just want to get back out there again...
well maybe limit your time talking, i will chat for a week max, if i haven't sorted out a date by then i move on
tusiemc: Hi All I posted here a while ago about a guy I met while on hol's he is from England anyhows its just not going to work out:( which Im really sad about but anyway it just made me remember how much I miss being with someone, and Ive also realised I really havent made much of an effort to meet someone on here..so Ive set myself a challenge to have at least one date from here every month, what ye think bad idea/ good idea?
Sorry but I'm accepting nothing less than a proposal of marriage.
Glengirl: Well, that's a different thing. If you're actually chatting to guys, getting on well, but not meeting them, it's time you did the asking!!
Good luck
Good luck
Godsgift: Sorry but I'm accepting nothing less than a proposal of marriage.
jeez the pressure
jimbo79: well maybe limit your time talking, i will chat for a week max, if i haven't sorted out a date by then i move on
U sure dont waste time Jimbotusiemc: Hi All I posted here a while ago about a guy I met while on hol's he is from England anyhows its just not going to work out:( which Im really sad about but anyway it just made me remember how much I miss being with someone, and Ive also realised I really havent made much of an effort to meet someone on here..so Ive set myself a challenge to have at least one date from here every month, what ye think bad idea/ good idea?
well it is a dating site
i'm pretty sure the idea behind this place is to go on dates!!tusiemc: U sure dont waste time Jimbo
no i don't when im lookingfitandfun79: well it is a dating site i'm pretty sure the idea behind this place is to go on dates!!
Been on two dates since i joined and nothing came out of them its like looking for a job sometimes and im not a pickey person im just hoping something might come outta the cork meet if not itll fun anywayz !!
fitandfun79: well it is a dating site i'm pretty sure the idea behind this place is to go on dates!!
haha thanks smartass
Im pretty sure your right but I just saying I havent made much of an effort before thats all...and judging by the forums Im not the only oneMore Threads
The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
The weird and the random facts around the world
wanting beyond need
your favorite topic?
s*xual skills
Would you hire this guy - for any job?
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
Democrats destroyed America
the way you look
Unions support Democrats!
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
2,515 Views
39 Comments
Created: Oct 2011
Last Viewed: 19 hrs ago
Last Commented: Jan 2012
0 Likes
Related Forums
- The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
- The weird and the random facts around the world
- wanting beyond need
- your favorite topic?
- s*xual skills
- Would you hire this guy - for any job?
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
- Democrats destroyed America
- the way you look
- Unions support Democrats!