Oct 10, 2011 3:48 PM CST It looks as though I am right again. Common ladies, dont tell me your not after the money first.
november70upington, cape town, pretoria, Western Cape South Africa3 Threads27 Posts
november70OPupington, cape town, pretoria, Western Cape South Africa27 posts
Dolphin, I said not too educated, not, not too intelligent. I just feel more comfortable with someone who is not snobbish and educated. And pretty, well, Im not the only one that likes pretty woman, Would you like to share a be with a huge fat man. No, I dont think so. Well, its the same for me. I mean, whats the point of having a girlfriend that your not attracted to. You might aswell be alone. At least Im not like most, who go for the money. No, I stay poor and try make the money myself. I guess its the hard way round, but Im not that person who goes for a partner with money.
november70: Dolphin, I said not too educated, not, not too intelligent. I just feel more comfortable with someone who is not snobbish and educated. And pretty, well, Im not the only one that likes pretty woman, Would you like to share a be with a huge fat man. No, I dont think so. Well, its the same for me. I mean, whats the point of having a girlfriend that your not attracted to. You might aswell be alone. At least Im not like most, who go for the money. No, I stay poor and try make the money myself. I guess its the hard way round, but Im not that person who goes for a partner with money.
Education, does not by all means make someone intelligent.....some academic people have fine minds but sometimes have no basic common sense intelligence....yes we need to be with someone who we can converse with, feel comfortable with and can relate to and I can understand that. Being comfortable with your own skin too, is just as important.....
Looks play a big part in chemistry and physical attraction.....some big girls are pretty.....you never mentioned size - just that she must be pretty.....would I want someone overweight? have dated a couple of big guys - South Africa is full of big guys.....if they were obese, then I guess not.....
We all have our own living to make, whatever the job....I am a single mum, have been for some years now with no financial help from the ex......I have a fairly good job, it pays the bills.....I dont look for money in a partner either......but believe a true partnership each support the other....whats mine is his and whats his is mine.....sharing....Poor? as long as you have a roof over your head, food in your stomach and somewhere to lay your head at night.....thats rich in many peoples eyes!
No need to be upset about all that money business. When you are fortunate enough to find a person that realizes that we all sit on the same porcelain pot and all end up dying some day, then you both can sit back and shake your heads and laugh at those poor souls that think that money can save them or make them something more than they really are. Go enjoy the simple things and let God take care of the rest.
Oct 10, 2011 4:25 PM CST It looks as though I am right again. Common ladies, dont tell me your not after the money first.
november70upington, cape town, pretoria, Western Cape South Africa3 Threads27 Posts
november70OPupington, cape town, pretoria, Western Cape South Africa27 posts
Yes Dolphin, I guess your one of the people with no ambition, but still manage to have the best jobs etc. You say you are happy with just a roof over your head, well ambitious people are never happy. OK, maybe we are not patient and dont know how to slowly gain wealth, and end up spending everything we have with risks and trying to get better in life. People dont like us in the work place, because we are dominant and a huge threat, so I guess they are full of tricks to take us out, which usually works unfortunately. Can I ask you something. Is your man a pisces. Cause from what Ive seen in life, pisces always spunges off virgo. Sorry, I guess that star sign is my biggest threat and enemy in life
november70: Hi, isnt it amazing, if I put that I earn mega loads of money and say I have a good job, I then receive lots of messages. But, if I put, that Im a domestic cleaner or something that doesnt require qualifications, I dont get one. They view me, then block me. Now how is that for you. Personality is the last criteria. You are judged by your cover within a minute or so, without even given a chance to get to know your true personality. No wonder all the players get the girls, then break their hearts later.
So sorry to burst your "Altruism" but I am looking for something even more rare. Morals and Integrity.
Oct 10, 2011 8:43 PM CST It looks as though I am right again. Common ladies, dont tell me your not after the money first.
november70upington, cape town, pretoria, Western Cape South Africa3 Threads27 Posts
november70OPupington, cape town, pretoria, Western Cape South Africa27 posts
What, cant get laid, Well, I think Ill get lucky in 2 days time, a girl I met here, is coming to visit me. No, I always get laid, but do not have a girlfriend as such.
november70: What, cant get laid, Well, I think Ill get lucky in 2 days time, a girl I met here, is coming to visit me. No, I always get laid, but do not have a girlfriend as such.
Just be careful you may get alot more then laid. You may get laid out.
november70: Hi, isnt it amazing, if I put that I earn mega loads of money and say I have a good job, I then receive lots of messages. But, if I put, that Im a domestic cleaner or something that doesnt require qualifications, I dont get one. They view me, then block me. Now how is that for you. Personality is the last criteria. You are judged by your cover within a minute or so, without even given a chance to get to know your true personality. No wonder all the players get the girls, then break their hearts later.
Actually...more or less, almost all of us are after money...
Having read the comments you have written,i would of thought whether you have money or not,that would be the least of your problems. Do you realise that your comments are insulting to the vast majority of decent women on here?
november70: Hi, isnt it amazing, if I put that I earn mega loads of money and say I have a good job, I then receive lots of messages. But, if I put, that Im a domestic cleaner or something that doesnt require qualifications, I dont get one. They view me, then block me. Now how is that for you. Personality is the last criteria. You are judged by your cover within a minute or so, without even given a chance to get to know your true personality. No wonder all the players get the girls, then break their hearts later.
Money isn't everything but it's up there with the oxygen
november70: Hi, isnt it amazing, if I put that I earn mega loads of money and say I have a good job, I then receive lots of messages. But, if I put, that Im a domestic cleaner or something that doesnt require qualifications, I dont get one. They view me, then block me. Now how is that for you. Personality is the last criteria. You are judged by your cover within a minute or so, without even given a chance to get to know your true personality. No wonder all the players get the girls, then break their hearts later.
So you're saying if I put on the money I make and it is a whole bunch I will get lots of gold diggers??? well,,why the heck would I do that?? sounds like you are sabotaging your self here. Sorry, can't help you. I think you're on your own.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Nikogas: So you're saying if I put on the money I make and it is a whole bunch I will get lots of gold diggers??? well,,why the heck would I do that?? sounds like you are sabotaging your self here. Sorry, can't help you. I think you're on your own.
Oct 11, 2011 3:12 AM CST It looks as though I am right again. Common ladies, dont tell me your not after the money first.
defmanWillagee, Western Australia Australia64 Posts
defmanWillagee, Western Australia Australia64 posts
geminiintheusa: Not really, but I am after a brainy guy...someone smart, intelligent...A guy with money that doesn't have what I'm looking for it's not good enough for me...Not all of us are the same...at the same time a guy with no money, would make me wonder...too...I mean, there are guys out there who don't know how to budget themselves therefore, why would I want to be with someone like that? Would you be with a woman that the only thing she knows how to do is waste your and her money? Personality, chemistry is very important to me..and about qualifications...I am looking for someone who has education, I don't want to be a teacher either...I expect to be able to communicate and understand each other well. I mean, I wouldn't be with a genius if I can't understand him, nor with someone who is not at my level either. Isn't like that for you? Then again, you got to remember that this is an international site, and some women are looking for something else...again, not all of us are the same...or have the same needs...
Yeah, makes sense. I only ever been with one woman and she soured me on most women, with her drug addictions, her constant need for money, it was a battle to hide the money for foods and especially bills, and I end up paying for foods for her kids, no other way. She had to learn the hard way, though, so that worked. Seven year with her, never again. I didnt' go back, becasue I know that "familiarity breeds contempt" even if she says she regrets everything she did, and broke my heart and so on and so forth, when she came back four times to beg me to go back to her. (sighs)... so I am ultra-wary of women and what they do in their lives, what they say and so on.
I know what I want, and one of them is not some greedy gold-digging bithces, thanks!
I want to asve up, as I always do, for my future kids, and future happiness with my love. But nope, 99% of women are bent out of shape, insane or worse, so why bother. I live my singlehood and I'm happy doing my thing and no more telling "her" what I'm doing and what for. Sheesh.
It would be nice to meet a woman who likes me for ME, not the image I am, but the inner me, my thoughts, etc... passions, etc. But no, women in today's workd are already corrupted by the games players, and polluted with drugs, diseases and all sorts of nasties I simply cannot bother with trying to "help" get well, and so on. I gave my energies, my life to my ex, and I won't bother again, not for just any "jilly come lately"... no, my energies are reserved for the rare high quality woman, that God spoke of, a rare gem, and they're around, so I'll wait and bide my time for her. I'll know her as soon as I sees her.
I am happy in my singlehood, saving myself for the right woman of a rare high quality gem. No worries.
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