is there really someone for everyone?? (35)
absolutely there is!!
sometimes its when you stop looking and give up, that the things/person we have been searching for, come and find us!!
you're still young!there isn't any real rush for you to settle down yet....
sometimes its when you stop looking and give up, that the things/person we have been searching for, come and find us!!
you're still young!there isn't any real rush for you to settle down yet....
ans.. yes there is but if your shy and she is shy ye might be passing each other every day and not nowing that ye are ment to be .. you will get the same advice from anyone here that being shy is a barrier to meeting people .. its the toughest thing that you will do but you have to loose the shyness first ...
djr2010: Do you believe there is really someone for everyone??
Yeah, sure, why not?! Youre only 28 dude, your life aint over just yet!
Maybe there is someone for you, maybe there isnt, its all about what you do to change that and being down hearted/defeatist about it isnt going to help, although I know we can all feel that way at times. Take it easy, enjoy life, do things you enjoy and you never know what'll happen 
I dont believe in the "someone for everyone" thing.
Some people simply dont meet anyone to share their lives with, doesnt mean they dont have happy lives.
Some people simply dont meet anyone to share their lives with, doesnt mean they dont have happy lives.
Definitely! I do believe there is someone for everyone. Im a great believer in fate and believe that things happen for a reason. You are still young and will find someone. You say your not into going clubbing but I would think that would be the worst way to meet someone. Thats me though. I dont think your missing out at all by not going to clubs. Someone may come along when you least expect it...its just a matter of not getting too hung up on the whole thing.
djr2010: Hey all,
just thought I'd post this here, I'm really beginning to wonder if I will ever find someone that I will be really happy with! I have been in a few relationships thay didn't work out and now I really just want to find someone whos company I enjoy and someone who I can share everything with (good and bad!!)
All my friends have settled down and at 28, I just want to find someone that I really connect with. I'm a nice guy, good job and treat people well but still find it difficult to meet people, I'm not into the club scene and would be quite shy.. so my question is.. Do you believe there is really someone for everyone??
just thought I'd post this here, I'm really beginning to wonder if I will ever find someone that I will be really happy with! I have been in a few relationships thay didn't work out and now I really just want to find someone whos company I enjoy and someone who I can share everything with (good and bad!!)
All my friends have settled down and at 28, I just want to find someone that I really connect with. I'm a nice guy, good job and treat people well but still find it difficult to meet people, I'm not into the club scene and would be quite shy.. so my question is.. Do you believe there is really someone for everyone??
Sure there is.
Maybe not just one, maybe a few. Maybe you'll not find 'the one' but find more than one (one at a time that is!)
Live in the moment, enjoy the person you're with at present, or going to be with, and don't think about the forever.
70Libra: Sure there is.
Maybe not just one, maybe a few. Maybe you'll not find 'the one' but find more than one (one at a time that is!)
Live in the moment, enjoy the person you're with at present, or going to be with, and don't think about the forever.
Maybe not just one, maybe a few. Maybe you'll not find 'the one' but find more than one (one at a time that is!)
Live in the moment, enjoy the person you're with at present, or going to be with, and don't think about the forever.
yep too much thinking and not enough enjoying the moment can make people very unhappy..
i also think there are several people out there for us all..
ok.. lots of lovely positive replies...
let me even things up a bit though..
WE"RE ALL GONNA DIE ALONE!!!!!
let me even things up a bit though..
WE"RE ALL GONNA DIE ALONE!!!!!
fitandfun79: ok.. lots of lovely positive replies...
let me even things up a bit though..WE"RE ALL GONNA DIE ALONE!!!!!
let me even things up a bit though..WE"RE ALL GONNA DIE ALONE!!!!!
Hopefully, I don't want to be bringing anyone else with me who isn't ready to go.
70Libra: Hopefully, I don't want to be bringing anyone else with me who isn't ready to go.
take my words literally why don't ya!!!
fitandfun79: take my words literally why don't ya!!!
Glatlol: I dont believe in the "someone for everyone" thing.
Some people simply dont meet anyone to share their lives with, doesnt mean they dont have happy lives.
Some people simply dont meet anyone to share their lives with, doesnt mean they dont have happy lives.
Fate plays a big part in the story of our lives...........IMO
I think there is someone for everyone but we may never get to meet the person. Everyone that comes into our lives brings something different, the problem is that something may not be what we want or need at that point in our lives Y
If we even get that someting magic once in our life time we are so lucky....... any more and you have the midus touch
Glatlol: I dont believe in the "someone for everyone" thing.
Some people simply dont meet anyone to share their lives with, doesnt mean they dont have happy lives.
Some people simply dont meet anyone to share their lives with, doesnt mean they dont have happy lives.
I agree
djr2010: Hey all,
just thought I'd post this here, I'm really beginning to wonder if I will ever find someone that I will be really happy with! I have been in a few relationships thay didn't work out and now I really just want to find someone whos company I enjoy and someone who I can share everything with (good and bad!!)
All my friends have settled down and at 28, I just want to find someone that I really connect with. I'm a nice guy, good job and treat people well but still find it difficult to meet people, I'm not into the club scene and would be quite shy.. so my question is.. Do you believe there is really someone for everyone??
just thought I'd post this here, I'm really beginning to wonder if I will ever find someone that I will be really happy with! I have been in a few relationships thay didn't work out and now I really just want to find someone whos company I enjoy and someone who I can share everything with (good and bad!!)
All my friends have settled down and at 28, I just want to find someone that I really connect with. I'm a nice guy, good job and treat people well but still find it difficult to meet people, I'm not into the club scene and would be quite shy.. so my question is.. Do you believe there is really someone for everyone??
I don't think there is one person for us. What we need/want when we are twenty can be completely different when we are thirty or fourty and people change.
I believe we make choices all the time and its about making the right choice (getting the balance right between both brains
)And just because your mates are settled doesnt mean anything. The grass on the other side can be astroturf. Maybe they are looking at you with envy. Enjoy what you have and dont be in a rush. It will happen when you least expect it.
vinny1967: I agree
I don't think there is one person for us. What we need/want when we are twenty can be completely different when we are thirty or fourty and people change.
I believe we make choices all the time and its about making the right choice (getting the balance right between both brains )
And just because your mates are settled doesnt mean anything. The grass on the other side can be astroturf. Maybe they are looking at you with envy. Enjoy what you have and dont be in a rush. It will happen when you least expect it.
I don't think there is one person for us. What we need/want when we are twenty can be completely different when we are thirty or fourty and people change.
I believe we make choices all the time and its about making the right choice (getting the balance right between both brains )
And just because your mates are settled doesnt mean anything. The grass on the other side can be astroturf. Maybe they are looking at you with envy. Enjoy what you have and dont be in a rush. It will happen when you least expect it.
what is it they say whats meant for you wont pass you by. as long as you are happy with how your life is theres nothing that says you need to have someone to share that with. if you arent happy then get out and do something about it, that said sometimes things do happen when you least expect it so all you can do is roll with it and see what happens
vinny1967: I agree
I don't think there is one person for us. What we need/want when we are twenty can be completely different when we are thirty or fourty and people change.
I believe we make choices all the time and its about making the right choice (getting the balance right between both brains )
And just because your mates are settled doesnt mean anything. The grass on the other side can be astroturf. Maybe they are looking at you with envy. Enjoy what you have and dont be in a rush. It will happen when you least expect it.
I don't think there is one person for us. What we need/want when we are twenty can be completely different when we are thirty or fourty and people change.
I believe we make choices all the time and its about making the right choice (getting the balance right between both brains )
And just because your mates are settled doesnt mean anything. The grass on the other side can be astroturf. Maybe they are looking at you with envy. Enjoy what you have and dont be in a rush. It will happen when you least expect it.
Errrrrrrrr, that man and i never had a relationship.........Yet
Envy51: Errrrrrrrr, that man and i never had a relationship.........Yet
As I was typing it I put in a capital E and changed it
salanky: what is it they say whats meant for you wont pass you by. as long as you are happy with how your life is theres nothing that says you need to have someone to share that with. if you arent happy then get out and do something about it, that said sometimes things do happen when you least expect it so all you can do is roll with it and see what happens
true..
i believe in whats ment for you wont pass you by..and you have plenty of time to enjoy what you have ..dont be in a rush to find THE ONE...have fun with THE ONE you are with at that moment in time..
salanky: what is it they say whats meant for you wont pass you by. as long as you are happy with how your life is theres nothing that says you need to have someone to share that with. if you arent happy then get out and do something about it, that said sometimes things do happen when you least expect it so all you can do is roll with it and see what happens
Hi Sal
I dont believe in that 'whats for you wont pass you' as I believe we are in control of our own destiny.
However its not as easy when it comes to finding a partner as the harder we look the less we succeed. You wimmin have a built in radar for us needy men
vinny1967: Hi Sal
I dont believe in that 'whats for you wont pass you' as I believe we are in control of our own destiny.
However its not as easy when it comes to finding a partner as the harder we look the less we succeed. You wimmin have a built in radar for us needy men
ah see you are figuring us out slowly I dont believe in that 'whats for you wont pass you' as I believe we are in control of our own destiny.
However its not as easy when it comes to finding a partner as the harder we look the less we succeed. You wimmin have a built in radar for us needy men
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just thought I'd post this here, I'm really beginning to wonder if I will ever find someone that I will be really happy with! I have been in a few relationships thay didn't work out and now I really just want to find someone whos company I enjoy and someone who I can share everything with (good and bad!!)
All my friends have settled down and at 28, I just want to find someone that I really connect with. I'm a nice guy, good job and treat people well but still find it difficult to meet people, I'm not into the club scene and would be quite shy.. so my question is.. Do you believe there is really someone for everyone??