Nice guy but hurt him. (19)
wave2ucork, Cork Ireland1 Threads 2 PostsWhat can u say to some1 after hurting them?Sorry dosent seem much.
Maybe its best just to leave it nd hope u get email from them.We were getting on good before,was just feeling bad on the nite nd took it out on him
Maybe its best just to leave it nd hope u get email from them.We were getting on good before,was just feeling bad on the nite nd took it out on him
wave2u: What can u say to some1 after hurting them?Sorry dosent seem much. Maybe its best just to leave it nd hope u get email from them.We were getting on good before,was just feeling bad on the nite and took it out on him
I never understand why some people lash out at those closest to them cause they are hurting. It never made sense to me. I reckon its because they want someone else to feel the pain they are hurting too, but why ?
Sometimes words aint enough Im afraid and actions speak louder. Keep trying to reach him and show him what he means to you. Hope it works out for you.
wave2u: What can u say to some1 after hurting them?Sorry dosent seem much. Maybe its best just to leave it nd hope u get email from them.We were getting on good before,was just feeling bad on the nite nd took it out on him
Well I think when we hurt someone we want them to tell us its OK and we are forgiven to make us feel better. Its a selfish reaction. You are better off leaving them alone to forget you and move on or you will just hurt them more.
wave2u: What can u say to some1 after hurting them?Sorry dosent seem much. Maybe its best just to leave it nd hope u get email from them.We were getting on good before,was just feeling bad on the nite nd took it out on him
........... It was the wrong thing to do , taking it out on him.......... let sleeping dogs lie, till he gets bk to you .Well I don't think you should give up on trying to mend things..thats if you think it can be mended!!!explain exactly what you have just said here to him & maybe he might need abit of time to think about it..if its meant to be then it will work out all you can do is explain how sorry you are..best of luck & fair play to admitting it..your half way there 
darkie23: Well I don't think you should give up on trying to mend things..thats if you think it can be mended!!!explain exactly what you have just said here to him & maybe he might need abit of time to think about it..if its meant to be then it will work out all you can do is explain how sorry you are..best of luck & fair play to admitting it..your half way there
Its worth making the effort at least as friendships/relationships have endured far worse.
Dont give up and be completely honest with him Wave.
wave2u: What can u say to some1 after hurting them?Sorry dosent seem much. Maybe its best just to leave it nd hope u get email from them.We were getting on good before,was just feeling bad on the nite nd took it out on him
Perhaps he was getting too close and that frightened you. I must say the love and good will on this thread is overpowering. No wonder nobody is hooking up.
Godsgift: Perhaps he was getting too close and that frightened you. I must say the love and good will on this thread is overpowering. No wonder nobody is hooking up.
With you on that GG
I wouldn't be in a rush here if I had a problem that I'd like advise on..we all do silly/stupid things but no point in making Wave feel worse than she already does..its called learning from your mistakes 
Godsgift: Perhaps he was getting too close and that frightened you. I must say the love and good will on this thread is overpowering. No wonder nobody is hooking up.
Couldnt have put it better meself K.
Wave is feeling bad enough without all the criticism she's getting from all the 'perfect' people on here.
I'm quite sure somewhere along the line the same said people have caused some sort of hurt or heartache...albeit unintentional.
As the saying goes...'let those without sin cast the 1st stone'...
Godsgift: Perhaps he was getting too close and that frightened you. I must say the love and good will on this thread is overpowering. No wonder nobody is hooking up.
Exactly!! Mount Everest hasn't a patch on this place and it's moral HIGH ground....you'd swear nobody made a mistake and hurt somebody in the process or took their bad mood out on somebody they shouldn't have
who are yous all trying to fool?? If the lad means anything to you then go and tell him that and explain what's going on in your head and why you hurt him...hope it all works out
mcattack: Exactly!! Mount Everest hasn't a patch on this place and it's moral HIGH ground....you'd swear nobody made a mistake and hurt somebody in the process or took their bad mood out on somebody they shouldn't have who are yous all trying to fool??
If the lad means anything to you then go and tell him that and explain what's going on in your head and why you hurt him...hope it all works out
If the lad means anything to you then go and tell him that and explain what's going on in your head and why you hurt him...hope it all works out
Has somebody hacked into McAttacks CS account??!!!!
As long as I've known him on this I've never heard such an empathetic reply!!
Is that really you Mc???!!!
Just kidding now Mc...dont lambaste me for this!
mcattack: Exactly!! Mount Everest hasn't a patch on this place and it's moral HIGH ground....you'd swear nobody made a mistake and hurt somebody in the process or took their bad mood out on somebody they shouldn't have who are yous all trying to fool??
If the lad means anything to you then go and tell him that and explain what's going on in your head and why you hurt him...hope it all works out
If the lad means anything to you then go and tell him that and explain what's going on in your head and why you hurt him...hope it all works out
just a case of people up on their high horses
wave2u: What can u say to some1 after hurting them?Sorry dosent seem much. Maybe its best just to leave it nd hope u get email from them.We were getting on good before,was just feeling bad on the nite nd took it out on him
Explain to him as you have here(plain speak)If he is interested he will understand and get back to you. Things should be fine.
Good luck
leakyboiler: Explain to him as you have here(plain speak)If he is interested he will understand and get back to you. Things should be fine.
Good luck
Good luck
Good advice. (for christ's sake fix that boiler will ya!)
learn from your mistakes 
everybody makes mistakes no point in sitting
around feeling bad for yourself
give him some space
everybody makes mistakes no point in sitting
around feeling bad for yourself
give him some space
wave2u: What can u say to some1 after hurting them?Sorry dosent seem much. Maybe its best just to leave it nd hope u get email from them.We were getting on good before,was just feeling bad on the nite nd took it out on him
Explain why you took it out on him, what going on in your head and what caused you to lash out on him.. and after that leave it go.. and if he's willing to accept your apology and explaination then happy out.. and if not.. its a lesson learned for you..!
good luck with it!
1FieryRedHead: Couldnt have put it better meself K.
Wave is feeling bad enough without all the criticism she's getting from all the 'perfect' people on here.
I'm quite sure somewhere along the line the same said people have caused some sort of hurt or heartache...albeit unintentional.
As the saying goes...'let those without sin cast the 1st stone'...
Wave is feeling bad enough without all the criticism she's getting from all the 'perfect' people on here.
I'm quite sure somewhere along the line the same said people have caused some sort of hurt or heartache...albeit unintentional.
As the saying goes...'let those without sin cast the 1st stone'...
Laralou: Or wouldn't have the guts to admit it.
yea theyd just carry on like nothing ever happened
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