No luck here. Am I the only one? ( Archived) (26)

Dec 12, 2011 6:41 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
Tinkerbell8613
Tinkerbell8613Tinkerbell8613Lexington, North Carolina USA1 Threads 2 Posts
OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?help
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Dec 12, 2011 6:49 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
6 mo is not that long ,it takes that long to even get to know someone just through emails and talking on the phone and that might take up at least 3mo,
be patience being in a hurry can lead you to make mistakes and choose unwisely

I`v had 4 dates 2 from here and 2 from other dating sites they did not work out like I thought they would some Im still friends with

so you can wait until someone comes along and he will be the right one for you
or keep sifting through the frogs,,,,,,,,,,,I`m back to waiting no more frogs
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Dec 12, 2011 6:51 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
I've not found my soul mate, which is cool, but I have made and met some really wonderful people. I'm so lucky. dancing
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Dec 12, 2011 6:54 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
Tinkerbell8613
Tinkerbell8613Tinkerbell8613Lexington, North Carolina USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Thats the thing really, I've meet quite a few people, had some laughs and good times, just not from here, seems like this site really isnt working for me..
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Dec 12, 2011 6:55 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Tinkerbell8613: Thats the thing really, I've meet quite a few people, had some laughs and good times, just not from here, seems like this site really isnt working for me..
hug Hang in there. Someone mentioned earlier I think....Try not to rush. Patience my dear friend.
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Dec 12, 2011 7:54 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
B38Q39
B38Q39B38Q39Ridgewood, New York USA26 Threads 147 Posts
No, you're not alone. I've been on here (and 3 other dating websites) for AT LEAST 2 years. I've sent messages and NO ONE EVER RESPONDS TO ME!
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Dec 12, 2011 8:02 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?


Nope, you're not the only one hun...lots of us have been here a lot longer and it's looking rather futile imo...being an international dating site, distance seems to be a huge issue for most peeps wine hug
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Dec 12, 2011 8:03 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?


You must be doing something wrong. I get women emailing me all the time. They're usually in their 30's, beautiful and even provide their email addresses. laugh
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Dec 12, 2011 8:06 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
keep your chin up...try try again...
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Dec 12, 2011 8:22 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
chinesesoul
chinesesoulchinesesoulshanghai, Shanghai China1 Threads 21 Posts
same ...
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Dec 12, 2011 8:25 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?


As has been already suggested...have a little patience. I was on here for a little over 6 months and I met and have a wonderful relationship (over 20 months and going strong) with a beautiful and loving lady that I met right here on CS. I know we are not the norm but I am proof that this site works. Best of luck cheers
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Dec 12, 2011 8:53 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
Possibly if you spend more time in the forums, You have a Better chance of being more exposed, to many more people...

and I have never seen you post in the forums before...

Yes it takes time, and Patients...

Best Wishes...comfort
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Dec 12, 2011 9:56 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
MzGoldielocks
MzGoldielocksMzGoldielocksGoldsboro, North Carolina USA43 Posts
you would think it wouldn't be so hard to find someone with all the single people around and about but it is.....


don't give up hon ... I know I won't
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Dec 12, 2011 10:02 PM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
Toolman329
Toolman329Toolman329Ka-Boing, Missouri USA2 Threads 11 Posts
I've had great luck here! You can check my test scores and find that out for yourself. As for finding a mate, yes, but I'm not telling who she is. That's OUR secret, and we plan to keep it that way. I wish you all the luck in the world, though. That means everyone, not just a few!
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Jan 5, 2012 4:00 AM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
wkw1957
wkw1957wkw1957Enterprise, Alabama USA6 Threads 47 Posts
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?


You also need to get on some of the free American based sites. They have a lot more people on them. I've met 5 women in the past 2 years and chatted with others within 100 miles of me. I use at least 5 sites.
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Jan 5, 2012 4:14 AM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
kjtoelken
kjtoelkenkjtoelkenSkidmore, Texas USA15 Posts
In response to: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?


I've been here for a month, I feel very lucky, and fortunate to have had the pleasure of chatting with very fine people here who would have not otherwise influenced the moments in my life. Haven't found a mate, but warmed my heart for sure. Don't give up sweetheart, it takes time
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Jan 5, 2012 4:31 AM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?


I've said this soooo many times, I've probably bored the regular poster's silly with it:

Try not to focus on finding a relationship.

Join in the fun with the facilities this site has to offer, learn new things, make friends and enjoy the journey!

Love might just find you along the way.
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Jan 5, 2012 4:46 AM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
Julia79_id
Julia79_idJulia79_idjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
cheer up dont give up..believe in love , applause
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Jan 5, 2012 5:10 AM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
mistravel
mistravelmistravelbangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 78 Posts
Do you believe in DESTINY ????

just you have some activities here

then you will catch someone's eyes then !!!!

good luck hun !!kiss kiss kiss heart wings heart wings heart wings wine
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Jan 5, 2012 5:37 AM CST No luck here. Am I the only one?
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
hug teddybear hang in there , be patience


best of luck comfort
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