Tinkerbell8613OPLexington, North Carolina USA2 posts
OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?
6 mo is not that long ,it takes that long to even get to know someone just through emails and talking on the phone and that might take up at least 3mo, be patience being in a hurry can lead you to make mistakes and choose unwisely
I`v had 4 dates 2 from here and 2 from other dating sites they did not work out like I thought they would some Im still friends with
so you can wait until someone comes along and he will be the right one for you or keep sifting through the frogs,,,,,,,,,,,I`m back to waiting no more frogs
Tinkerbell8613OPLexington, North Carolina USA2 posts
Thats the thing really, I've meet quite a few people, had some laughs and good times, just not from here, seems like this site really isnt working for me..
JeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)6,482 posts
Tinkerbell8613: Thats the thing really, I've meet quite a few people, had some laughs and good times, just not from here, seems like this site really isnt working for me..
Hang in there. Someone mentioned earlier I think....Try not to rush. Patience my dear friend.
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?
Nope, you're not the only one hun...lots of us have been here a lot longer and it's looking rather futile imo...being an international dating site, distance seems to be a huge issue for most peeps
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?
You must be doing something wrong. I get women emailing me all the time. They're usually in their 30's, beautiful and even provide their email addresses.
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?
As has been already suggested...have a little patience. I was on here for a little over 6 months and I met and have a wonderful relationship (over 20 months and going strong) with a beautiful and loving lady that I met right here on CS. I know we are not the norm but I am proof that this site works. Best of luck
I've had great luck here! You can check my test scores and find that out for yourself. As for finding a mate, yes, but I'm not telling who she is. That's OUR secret, and we plan to keep it that way. I wish you all the luck in the world, though. That means everyone, not just a few!
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?
You also need to get on some of the free American based sites. They have a lot more people on them. I've met 5 women in the past 2 years and chatted with others within 100 miles of me. I use at least 5 sites.
In response to: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?
I've been here for a month, I feel very lucky, and fortunate to have had the pleasure of chatting with very fine people here who would have not otherwise influenced the moments in my life. Haven't found a mate, but warmed my heart for sure. Don't give up sweetheart, it takes time
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Tinkerbell8613: OK, so i've been here at least 6 months, and I can honestly say I have prolly gotten maybe 2 decent messages, just wondering if I'm the only one who isn't having much luck here?
I've said this soooo many times, I've probably bored the regular poster's silly with it:
Try not to focus on finding a relationship.
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