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Why do women break mens hearts ( Locked) (42)

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Dec 26, 2011 8:38 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
galradsDublin, Ohio USA36,283 posts
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#22
Dec 26, 2011 8:44 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
ttmmm
ttmmmttmmmmullingar, Westmeath Ireland10 Threads 8 Polls 499 Posts
ttmmmmullingar, Westmeath Ireland499 posts
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#23
Dec 26, 2011 8:57 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
galradsDublin, Ohio USA36,283 posts
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#24
Dec 26, 2011 8:59 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
Wineman42
Wineman42Wineman42Bath, Ontario Canada11 Threads 563 Posts
Wineman42OPBath, Ontario Canada563 posts
ttmmm: so which are u??? gay....or just ignorant?? me thinks ur a


If I say what you are they will cut me from this site so grow up
A------e
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#25
Dec 26, 2011 9:03 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada8,017 posts
Wineman42: If I say what you are they will cut me from this site so grow up
A------e


hmmm.... 7 letters, starts with
A, ends with e....love crosswords...

Awesome?
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#26
Dec 26, 2011 9:03 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada18,576 posts
Wineman42: If I say what you are they will cut me from this site so grow up
A------e


There really is no point in starting an argument on the thread. I believe you were hurt and are venting here and believe it was the right thing to do at the time. Maybe just let this die a natural death dunno
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#27
Dec 26, 2011 9:12 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
Wineman42
Wineman42Wineman42Bath, Ontario Canada11 Threads 563 Posts
Wineman42OPBath, Ontario Canada563 posts
joyaepace: True of what? What are you thinking after just flirting with a woman? Get to know her better and then see whether or not she is true in her feelings.

Actually, I read about one study that learned that men, when facing very attractive women, are for some reason convinced that she is attracted to him too. And the more attractive the woman, the more convinced the man that she likes him. It had nothing to do with women, it all was in man's head!

4 months of e-mails and phone calls from her
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#28
Dec 26, 2011 9:43 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada771 posts
Wineman42: Seen many that flirt and make you believe they
are true then rip your heart out? WHY ????


Because we allow them to do it.
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#29
Dec 26, 2011 9:53 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
joyaepaceGalway, Ireland958 posts
Wineman42: 4 months of e-mails and phone calls from her


And then you met and it did not work? Ah, well, we all try and fail sometimes. Men, women, no difference. Therefore it is better not to have great expectations too early, especially when you have relationship over the internet. If we don't have great expectations, we can not be disappointed, right? But it is easier said than done, I understand that. comfort
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#30
Dec 26, 2011 9:53 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
paws4: Because we allow them to do it.


That pretty much sums it up, but without allowing someone the chance to, taking the risk, trying, then where does that leave you?

Sure it hurts, every time it happens, and you try again, or don't. The choice is up to each and every one of us, whether we go for what would make us happy, or just give up.

I know I'm not done yet.


Hiya Leo.
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#31
Dec 26, 2011 9:55 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
mnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh7,536 posts
Wineman42: Seen many that flirt and make you believe they
are true then rip your heart out? WHY ????


well..guess what..i have news for you, brother! men break heart of women too on a daily basis!peace
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#32
Dec 26, 2011 9:58 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
amahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA8,314 posts
Sorry to hear you are hurting. There is nothing to be said, at this time, that would not convince you that not all women are the same. I do hope though, that with time you will heal.handshake
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#33
Dec 26, 2011 10:10 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada771 posts
kidatheart: That pretty much sums it up, but without allowing someone the chance to, taking the risk, trying, then where does that leave you?

Sure it hurts, every time it happens, and you try again, or don't. The choice is up to each and every one of us, whether we go for what would make us happy, or just give up.

I know I'm not done yet. Hiya Leo.


When I say, we allow them to do it, it's not that we have much choice. We're hard wired that way.

And, hi to you my friend.
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#34
Dec 26, 2011 10:13 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada2,947 posts
Wineman42: Seen many that flirt and make you believe they
are true then rip your heart out? WHY ????
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#35
Dec 26, 2011 10:18 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada2,947 posts
Wineman42: These are people on this site
those who make fun of it must be gay



wait, others will be coming along in a minute,they get a kick out of making fun of other.people
I am leaving your thread, sorry I can't stand it
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#36
Dec 26, 2011 10:35 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada771 posts
Heart ache is existential. Don't judge.
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#37
Dec 26, 2011 10:36 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
langleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada8,202 posts
Wineman42: Seen many that flirt and make you believe they
are true then rip your heart out? WHY ????
We are the ones who are in control of our hearts and we allow others to break them when we have expectations of love when it perhaps is not there. Hence taking the time to get to know people is vital and guarding your heart before even contemplating that you have fallen in love with another (whether it be a man or a woman). Yes, its not always an easy lesson to learn, and I've had some major scars on my own heart, but what I've learned from the past is that I'm only hurt when I allow it to happen.

It sounds like you need to take less of a trusting attitude and get to know someone further over a longer period of time before allowing your heart to love. Love can indeed be wonderful - but its also about finding a worthy person to share it with.
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#38
Dec 26, 2011 11:01 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
langleygirl: We are the ones who are in control of our hearts and we allow others to break them when we have expectations of love when it perhaps is not there. Hence taking the time to get to know people is vital and guarding your heart before even contemplating that you have fallen in love with another (whether it be a man or a woman). Yes, its not always an easy lesson to learn, and I've had some major scars on my own heart, but what I've learned from the past is that I'm only hurt when I allow it to happen.

It sounds like you need to take less of a trusting attitude and get to know someone further over a longer period of time before allowing your heart to love. Love can indeed be wonderful - but its also about finding a worthy person to share it with.



Guearding your heart, less trusting, allowing your heart to love?

Aren't we all worthy of love?


dunno
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#39
Dec 26, 2011 11:02 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
YouMeUs
YouMeUsYouMeUsFrakes, Kentucky USA11 Threads 1 Polls 3,271 Posts
YouMeUsFrakes, Kentucky USA3,271 posts
Wineman42: Seen many that flirt and make you believe they
are true then rip your heart out? WHY ????
I think you got off lucky, though your healing has just begun.

I've had my heart ripped out, then spat upon, stomped on, burned to a chard crisp, chopped into tiny little pieces and discarded like an unwanted worn-out shoe.
I picked up the pieces and realized that it was still ticking, still holding love--so I nurtured it, protected it from being harmed like that again, while all the time believing that there is a good woman out there that will loveingly take my heart and cherish it.
I will find her and who knows...Maybe her heart was treated just the same as mine was.

Time may heal the pain--love can make it go away.
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#40
Dec 26, 2011 11:04 PM CST Why do women break mens hearts
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada2,947 posts
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