Which one is better way ?? ( Archived) (28)

Jan 8, 2012 12:51 AM CST Which one is better way ??
mistravel
mistravelmistravelbangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 78 Posts
After had some mails or some chats ....

if you are not interested in her /him .....

you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear
or...... you have other best ways ????


any comments :

professor doh confused dunno wine
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Jan 8, 2012 12:56 AM CST Which one is better way ??
presuming_m
presuming_mpresuming_mHaslett, Michigan USA2 Threads 1 Polls 111 Posts
mistravel: After had some mails or some chats ....

if you are not interested in her /him .....

you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear
or...... you have other best ways ????any comments :


Excellent question! I personally am terrible at endings. I wish I had an answer for you...perhaps someone will show us the way. wave
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Jan 8, 2012 12:59 AM CST Which one is better way ??
mistravel
mistravelmistravelbangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 78 Posts
@ presume ;

thanks ,

that's why we need the best answers from them !!!
hehehe , wait and see cheering teddybear
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Jan 8, 2012 3:44 AM CST Which one is better way ??
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
mistravel: After had some mails or some chats ....

if you are not interested in her /him .....

you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear
or...... you have other best ways ????any comments :

Aske them for money...they won`t contact you ever again..grin
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Jan 8, 2012 4:20 AM CST Which one is better way ??
myfisrt
myfisrtmyfisrtWest Jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia4 Threads 980 Posts
Boban1: Aske them for money...they won`t contact you ever again..

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 8, 2012 4:29 AM CST Which one is better way ??
The13thWarrior
The13thWarriorThe13thWarriorMelksham, Wiltshire, England UK15 Threads 1,707 Posts
mistravel: After had some mails or some chats ....

if you are not interested in her /him .....

you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear
or...... you have other best ways ????any comments :



It may be uncomfortable. But it's better to say/write something. After all.. Good manners cost nothing. wave
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Jan 8, 2012 4:38 AM CST Which one is better way ??
marijo70
marijo70marijo70Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK6 Threads 4 Polls 1,433 Posts
Boban1: Aske them for money...they won`t contact you ever again..


laugh

The13thWarrior: It may be uncomfortable. But it's better to say/write something. After all.. Good manners cost nothing.


I 100% agree.
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Jan 8, 2012 4:47 AM CST Which one is better way ??
Springlark
SpringlarkSpringlarkHalifax, Nova Scotia Canada37 Posts
Just be honest and tell the person how you feel and that you do not believe that anything mutually agreeable can come from communicating with each other. If you do not feel comfortable writing to the person, simply say so. If the person does not accept your wishes, then just block their email. That may sound harsh, but acceptance of not getting what we want, is a big part of maturity and living sanity.
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Jan 8, 2012 7:38 AM CST Which one is better way ??
mistravel
mistravelmistravelbangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 78 Posts
head banger head banger rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 8, 2012 7:39 AM CST Which one is better way ??
mistravel
mistravelmistravelbangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 78 Posts
professor wine
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Jan 8, 2012 7:43 AM CST Which one is better way ??
Hunter_of_Food
Hunter_of_FoodHunter_of_FoodLynchburg, Tennessee USA2 Threads 126 Posts
mistravel: After had some mails or some chats ....

if you are not interested in her /him .....

you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear
or...... you have other best ways ????any comments :


I had a feeling you were gonna do this to me. blues rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

In all seriousness though. Just tell them up front. Be polite and it should all be fine.
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Jan 8, 2012 8:12 AM CST Which one is better way ??
mistravel
mistravelmistravelbangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 78 Posts
hi hunter :

thanks for comment
i dont know which ways i will do for you
which way do u prefer ???doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 8, 2012 9:54 AM CST Which one is better way ??
Hunter_of_Food
Hunter_of_FoodHunter_of_FoodLynchburg, Tennessee USA2 Threads 126 Posts
mistravel: hi hunter :

thanks for comment
i dont know which ways i will do for you
which way do u prefer ???


Rough and crushing. Pain is good. moping rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tip hat
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Jan 8, 2012 11:29 AM CST Which one is better way ??
Yash124g
Yash124gYash124gEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK9 Threads 1 Polls 1,237 Posts
Best to inform, especially if they post on the forums as both are more likely to remain civil to one another wine cool
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Jan 8, 2012 11:39 AM CST Which one is better way ??
xonia420
xonia420xonia420kuala lumpur, Kuala Lumpur Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 589 Posts
In response to: After had some mails or some chats ....

if you are not interested in her /him .....

you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear
or...... you have other best ways ????any comments :


tell the person straight fowardly so he wouldn't have guilt that something wrong with him and he can move on.. and plus he wouldn't hold a grudge against you or your kind....

and you would be free from continuously thinking/worrying about that you didn't tell him what you have to...and there would be no guilt no regret on both sides
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Jan 8, 2012 1:27 PM CST Which one is better way ??
NeWildflower
NeWildflowerNeWildflowerScottsbluff, Nebraska USA15 Threads 2 Polls 754 Posts
Boban1: Aske them for money...they won`t contact you ever again..


LMAO ~ yep, that would work!

It's very tempting to just ignore until they go away.. I know,I know, that makes me sound like a cold hearted witch. Isn't that human nature? Maybe not.. maybe that's cold hearted witch nature.

I've been on the other end of that too.. made first contact, talked a bit, and then POOF! Gone. It didn't break my cold little heart. But maybe that's the witch thing. I dunno

confused
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Jan 8, 2012 7:49 PM CST Which one is better way ??
mistravel
mistravelmistravelbangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 78 Posts
@ hunter : oh , u love painrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wine

@ yash , Xonia and newild :
thank u very much for coments
handshake hug wine
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Jan 8, 2012 8:01 PM CST Which one is better way ??
Hunter_of_Food
Hunter_of_FoodHunter_of_FoodLynchburg, Tennessee USA2 Threads 126 Posts
mistravel: @ hunter : oh , u love pain


Nope I'm allergic to pain. But that's how they dump me so I'm used to it. rolling on the floor laughing bouquet
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Jan 8, 2012 8:42 PM CST Which one is better way ??
Sunrise2010
Sunrise2010Sunrise2010Port Moresby, National Capital Papua New Guinea2 Threads 2 Polls 45 Posts
pay all the billsteddybear
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Jan 28, 2012 2:36 AM CST Which one is better way ??
shay28
shay28shay28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia468 Posts
mistravel: After had some mails or some chats ....

if you are not interested in her /him .....

you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear
or...... you have other best ways ????any comments :


Tell him directly at first. I don't want to hurt anybody by giving him false hope.
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