Just be honest and tell the person how you feel and that you do not believe that anything mutually agreeable can come from communicating with each other. If you do not feel comfortable writing to the person, simply say so. If the person does not accept your wishes, then just block their email. That may sound harsh, but acceptance of not getting what we want, is a big part of maturity and living sanity.
xonia420kuala lumpur, Kuala Lumpur Malaysia589 posts
In response to: After had some mails or some chats ....
if you are not interested in her /him .....
you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear or...... you have other best ways ????any comments :
tell the person straight fowardly so he wouldn't have guilt that something wrong with him and he can move on.. and plus he wouldn't hold a grudge against you or your kind....
and you would be free from continuously thinking/worrying about that you didn't tell him what you have to...and there would be no guilt no regret on both sides
Boban1: Aske them for money...they won`t contact you ever again..
LMAO ~ yep, that would work!
It's very tempting to just ignore until they go away.. I know,I know, that makes me sound like a cold hearted witch. Isn't that human nature? Maybe not.. maybe that's cold hearted witch nature.
I've been on the other end of that too.. made first contact, talked a bit, and then POOF! Gone. It didn't break my cold little heart. But maybe that's the witch thing. I dunno
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if you are not interested in her /him .....
you will say goodbye before leaving or keep in silent and disappear
or...... you have other best ways ????
any comments :