What's your excuse? ( Archived) (306)

Jan 11, 2012 1:57 PM CST What's your excuse?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
amahlala: I've said I am not looking, just here to keep up with friends that I have made...does not mean that I have or have not found someone.....



I see that mischeivious smile of your's. cool

bouquet
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Jan 11, 2012 2:04 PM CST What's your excuse?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Because you havent picked me up for Timmy's lately blues
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Jan 11, 2012 2:06 PM CST What's your excuse?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,959 Posts
popcorn
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Jan 11, 2012 2:06 PM CST What's your excuse?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Glatlol: No invitations to date, simples lol.



You can always do the inviting too, you're not that shy and reserved.wink laugh

I'll bet you have an eye on someone you'd like to know more. grin

bouquet
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Jan 11, 2012 2:07 PM CST What's your excuse?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
The reality is, I do all the time. Date I mean, men I meet online and RL ...Right now Im having fun dating. Ive been single for a long time and I havent died from it yet. For right now, until I get somethings sorted I think I will keep it to dating....And how about you H? Whats your story? Do you plan to be a heartbreaker for the rest of your days or do you have plans to let some lady make an honest man of you someday?? grin
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Jan 11, 2012 2:10 PM CST What's your excuse?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
nevica: yes, when was he the last time on a plane for a date?
it's not as simple as it sounds, distance is a big problem even in the same country


I know, the distance things sucks.sigh

Try living in Canada, where everywhere seems to be in the middle of nowhere.laugh I've lived in places where it was a 4 hour round trip just to go grocery shopping.uh oh

bouquet
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Jan 11, 2012 2:10 PM CST What's your excuse?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
kidatheart: You can always do the inviting too, you're not that shy and reserved.

I'll bet you have an eye on someone you'd like to know more.


Ah you know me so well hun lol.

I have never had a problem making the first move either here or in real life, just find on here I never get a response.
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Jan 11, 2012 2:10 PM CST What's your excuse?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
kidatheart: You can always do the inviting too, you're not that shy and reserved.

I'll bet you have an eye on someone you'd like to know more.


Ah you know me so well hun lol.

I have never had a problem making the first move either here or in real life, just find on here I never get a response.
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Jan 11, 2012 2:12 PM CST What's your excuse?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
What about you Allis, you live in a heavily populated area, I've been to Tenn. before, I've seen some of the lovely women that live there.smitten

Some women are ok with hunting and fishing, and love the rural lifestyle.cowboy

bouquet cheers
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Jan 11, 2012 2:17 PM CST What's your excuse?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
lifeisadream: Not excuses, I just have not find my Romeo.



Maybe you've been looking for Romeo for so long that you've failed to notice Mercutio in the sidelines. He may be what you're after, just don't realise it. cool

Besides, Romeo is a drama queen.laugh


bouquet
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Jan 11, 2012 2:17 PM CST What's your excuse?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
kidatheart: You bring up two good points, not seeing what's in front of you, and being too independent.

I've had that happen, where someone is interested, but I had no clue, only to find out later, too late. Makes you wonder why people don't/won't/can't express their interest a bit easier, men and women alike. I see all too many women say that they would NEVER ask a man out, or let them know they have an interest. Fear of rejection is only a part of it, wonder what the rest of the issues are.

Independence, a tough one, for me it's a requirement that I can't bend on too much. I like the fact that women are able to take care of themselves and look after their own interests, but many seem to put forth the image that "they don't need anyone" in their lives. Is that what you mean by too independent?

Self sufficiency is great, but we all need attention, love, and occasionally a human's touch.
Hhm .... not totally ... I can look after myself, but there are those moments when a man is good to have around. I frankly have no interest in fixing the kitchen sink. I'm thinking of independence in the sense that I sometimes like to simply enjoy my own space, don't answer the phone etc. without someone worrying about me. Sometimes when people are too needy it drives me insane because I feel like I can't breathe.
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Jan 11, 2012 2:19 PM CST What's your excuse?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
uh oh Long story .....but if I found someone I was interested in and they asked I would go to see if there was anything there dunno Now people that know me could give you a hundred reasons they think I don't datelaugh

uncertain
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Jan 11, 2012 2:24 PM CST What's your excuse?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Singlelisious: None, I am dating and meeting men,just don't ready to committ yet. Not from this site, the ones I like are too far or don't like me. Few nice friends here.



Enjoying life as it comes, nice way to be. cool

Knowing what you want is also a good thing, keeps one from making rash decisions. thumbs up

bouquet
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Jan 11, 2012 2:32 PM CST What's your excuse?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
drbombay: I'm not trying to be difficult-just very selective but if I really liked one, I would give it a shot & let them have their way with me-what a guy!



Picky isn't a bad thing, but playing hard to get is.tongue

Maybe one of these days one will sneak up on you, and then you're in trouble, but I suspect you'd enjoy it.cool


bouquet cheers
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Jan 11, 2012 2:37 PM CST What's your excuse?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
I have not got an excuse, i am just a tart grin ...but a lovable one blushing
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Jan 11, 2012 2:41 PM CST What's your excuse?
ReadyToTryAgain
ReadyToTryAgainReadyToTryAgainCromwell, Connecticut USA1 Threads 733 Posts
Glatlol: No invitations to date, simples lol.
No invitations? I find THAT hard to believe smitten
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Jan 11, 2012 2:43 PM CST What's your excuse?
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
time4fun4u: I have not got an excuse, i am just a tart ...but a lovable one


Yes, I have heard that. laugh
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Jan 11, 2012 2:44 PM CST What's your excuse?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
single4ever: Yes, I have heard that.
Shhhhhhh....i am trying to keep it a secret! laugh wave bouquet
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Jan 11, 2012 2:45 PM CST What's your excuse?
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
time4fun4u: Shhhhhhh....i am trying to keep it a secret!


Oh my, I think that secret has been out for a while; well at least since last year. rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 11, 2012 2:45 PM CST What's your excuse?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
time4fun4u: Shhhhhhh....i am trying to keep it a secret!


psssttt T...it's not working...grin
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