The reality is, I do all the time. Date I mean, men I meet online and RL ...Right now Im having fun dating. Ive been single for a long time and I havent died from it yet. For right now, until I get somethings sorted I think I will keep it to dating....And how about you H? Whats your story? Do you plan to be a heartbreaker for the rest of your days or do you have plans to let some lady make an honest man of you someday??
nevica: yes, when was he the last time on a plane for a date? it's not as simple as it sounds, distance is a big problem even in the same country
I know, the distance things sucks.
Try living in Canada, where everywhere seems to be in the middle of nowhere. I've lived in places where it was a 4 hour round trip just to go grocery shopping.
lifeisadream: Not excuses, I just have not find my Romeo.
Maybe you've been looking for Romeo for so long that you've failed to notice Mercutio in the sidelines. He may be what you're after, just don't realise it.
kidatheart: You bring up two good points, not seeing what's in front of you, and being too independent.
I've had that happen, where someone is interested, but I had no clue, only to find out later, too late. Makes you wonder why people don't/won't/can't express their interest a bit easier, men and women alike. I see all too many women say that they would NEVER ask a man out, or let them know they have an interest. Fear of rejection is only a part of it, wonder what the rest of the issues are.
Independence, a tough one, for me it's a requirement that I can't bend on too much. I like the fact that women are able to take care of themselves and look after their own interests, but many seem to put forth the image that "they don't need anyone" in their lives. Is that what you mean by too independent?
Self sufficiency is great, but we all need attention, love, and occasionally a human's touch.
Hhm .... not totally ... I can look after myself, but there are those moments when a man is good to have around. I frankly have no interest in fixing the kitchen sink. I'm thinking of independence in the sense that I sometimes like to simply enjoy my own space, don't answer the phone etc. without someone worrying about me. Sometimes when people are too needy it drives me insane because I feel like I can't breathe.
Long story .....but if I found someone I was interested in and they asked I would go to see if there was anything there Now people that know me could give you a hundred reasons they think I don't date
Singlelisious: None, I am dating and meeting men,just don't ready to committ yet. Not from this site, the ones I like are too far or don't like me. Few nice friends here.
Enjoying life as it comes, nice way to be.
Knowing what you want is also a good thing, keeps one from making rash decisions.
drbombay: I'm not trying to be difficult-just very selective but if I really liked one, I would give it a shot & let them have their way with me-what a guy!
Picky isn't a bad thing, but playing hard to get is.
Maybe one of these days one will sneak up on you, and then you're in trouble, but I suspect you'd enjoy it.
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I see that mischeivious smile of your's.