Differences in Being Love (123)
the most important thing is that one person is not trying to be controlling by telling the other person they have to change and no matter how fancy the words are that is often the end result
and it usually is a disaster. no one should be telling another person that they have to change, but supporting the changes they choose - whether it is together or not
and it usually is a disaster. no one should be telling another person that they have to change, but supporting the changes they choose - whether it is together or not
------ This thread is Archived ------
Kaybee50: I would like to find someone who challenges me and inspires me. I don't mind at all having my eyes opened to different ways of thinking, ideas, and adventures.
Hope you find what you're looking for KB. Open minded is a great thing ... and you can be picky, selective and open minded at the same time. Picky and closed minded is quite something else, so me thinks you have the appropriate mind set.
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
wanting beyond need
s*xual skills
The weird and the random facts around the world
Kultur-multur
Ladies
men's perspective towards women
The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
your favorite topic?
the way you look
Would you hire this guy - for any job?
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
i also think how one perceives things has a lot to do with it all..
i can choose to focus on the negative, the positive, the sameness or the differences...it's my choice how to perceive things.
and yup...love repeating myself...
ya get what ya dwell on....
when i focus on the 'us', and i mean in any relationship, i am involved in, in the moment..it helps me to remember that other person has feelings, desires, fears...the whole shebang...and when i remember that..i tend to act with more kindness.
so i love being on an adventure...
if i don't like how's it's turning out, i can always
change my mind and choose something else.
I think it's great when two people embrace change for an 'us'. I think it signifies a desire to move on or to expand on what one knows about themselves and I think better results lie in substantial core challenges.
Some people dwell on what they get and it becomes a vicious determinant circle.