Married Men (209)

Jul 3, 2012 7:03 PM CST Married Men
mcattack: Well you shied away from my questions...what if some bird you loved was riding people behind your back and your mates knew about it...would you care?? would you expect to be told??

Yep. I'd expect to be told. And I'd do the same back. And I'd be thanked for it too. I suppose that's what real friends do, not just beer 'mates'.
Jul 3, 2012 7:04 PM CST Married Men
Theoneucanthate: Stupid or maybe deeply in love lol


Ridiculously stupid for believing him, i'm sure she knows he's lying and could easily prove it but it's like she doesn't want to...ah maybe she'll get a bit of cop-on someday conversing
Jul 3, 2012 7:05 PM CST Married Men
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
@ Uno: Name of the thread: Married man - we were talking about having proof before you went off as usual

@ Macca: If you would have confirmed it, it probably would have gone different. Otherwise I agree with you - stupid woman

I would want to have proof myself if someone I don't know rings me to tell me my boyfriend cheated. But if someone would provide prove it certainly would get me thinking.
Jul 3, 2012 7:06 PM CST Married Men
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
mcattack: Ridiculously stupid for believing him, i'm sure she knows he's lying and could easily prove it but it's like she doesn't want to...ah maybe she'll get a bit of cop-on someday
Maybe wen its to late beer
Jul 3, 2012 7:08 PM CST Married Men
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
KNenagh: @ Uno: Name of the thread: Married man - we were talking about having proof before you went off as usual

@ Macca: If you would have confirmed it, it probably would have gone different. Otherwise I agree with you - stupid woman

I would want to have proof myself if someone I don't know rings me to tell me my boyfriend cheated. But if someone would provide prove it certainly would get me thinking.
why would he confirm it and dob his mate in it? laugh
Jul 3, 2012 7:12 PM CST Married Men
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
mcattack: Ridiculously stupid for believing him, i'm sure she knows he's lying and could easily prove it but it's like she doesn't want to...ah maybe she'll get a bit of cop-on someday


I know a couple that were married for 23 yrs.

After 20 yrs of marriage, she said to him "I finally trust you now".

He had never once cheated on her in those 20 yrs.

Three years later he told her the marriage was over and he was leaving.

She then accused him of cheating, but begged him to stay......

I don't get women confused laugh
Jul 3, 2012 7:16 PM CST Married Men
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
Glengirl: I know a couple that were married for 23 yrs.

After 20 yrs of marriage, she said to him "I finally trust you now".

He had never once cheated on her in those 20 yrs.

Three years later he told her the marriage was over and he was leaving.

She then accused him of cheating, but begged him to stay......

I don't get women
Nobody does laugh
Jul 3, 2012 7:18 PM CST Married Men
chancer_mcgancer
chancer_mcgancerchancer_mcgancerdublin, Dublin Ireland168 Threads 27 Polls 4,219 Posts
Theoneucanthate: Nobody does


You're not supposed to!!!

laugh
Jul 3, 2012 7:19 PM CST Married Men
Theoneucanthate
TheoneucanthateTheoneucanthateDublin, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 1,729 Posts
chancer_mcgancer: You're not supposed to!!!
Ye it's a work in progress which takes a lifetime lol
Jul 3, 2012 7:23 PM CST Married Men
MillerFairy
MillerFairyMillerFairyOffaly, Ireland9 Threads 154 Posts
In response to: Why oh why can't people be honest on this bloody site the truth always comes out in the end very dis hearting for the people trying to meet someone ....honest....


So guys and girls what should i do turn up tell his wife or just forget about him............ what would ye do ...
Jul 3, 2012 7:24 PM CST Married Men
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
MillerFairy: So guys and girls what should i do turn up tell his wife or just forget about him............ what would ye do ...


Eh, there are about 12 pages of peoples opinions on it confused
Jul 3, 2012 7:26 PM CST Married Men
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
MillerFairy: So guys and girls what should i do turn up tell his wife or just forget about him............ what would ye do ...

Decide for yourself - how would you want to be treated if it was your husband? dunno
Jul 3, 2012 7:28 PM CST Married Men
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
MillerFairy: So guys and girls what should i do turn up tell his wife or just forget about him............ what would ye do ...


For what it's worth I wouldn't do anything considering you don't know his wife and what's involved.
Hard call though and there is no right or wrong here imo.

bouquet
Jul 3, 2012 7:30 PM CST Married Men
MillerFairy: So guys and girls what should i do turn up tell his wife or just forget about him............ what would ye do ...


Blackmail him and bleed him dry!! boogie
Jul 3, 2012 7:35 PM CST Married Men
MillerFairy
MillerFairyMillerFairyOffaly, Ireland9 Threads 154 Posts
Glengirl: Eh, there are about 12 pages of peoples opinions on it


Sorry ye i no that just it's here in my face kinda thing and whilst reading it people were kinda chatting about there own experience ... thanks ....
Jul 3, 2012 7:36 PM CST Married Men
MillerFairy
MillerFairyMillerFairyOffaly, Ireland9 Threads 154 Posts
mcattack: Blackmail him and bleed him dry!!


Great idea.............
Jul 3, 2012 7:38 PM CST Married Men
MillerFairy
MillerFairyMillerFairyOffaly, Ireland9 Threads 154 Posts
vinny1967: For what it's worth I wouldn't do anything considering you don't know his wife and what's involved.
Hard call though and there is no right or wrong here imo.


I agree I'm not annoyed with his wife why should she suffer just him but if i was here i'd like to know but not my place to tell her... really is it .. his not that long married which is worse..
Jul 3, 2012 7:39 PM CST Married Men
Green_Sleeves
Green_SleevesGreen_SleevesCarlow, Ireland174 Threads 37 Polls 4,812 Posts
MillerFairy: So guys and girls what should i do turn up tell his wife or just forget about him............ what would ye do ...


Is it safe to come out now? All the testosterone burnt off?? laugh



Anyway, to your question, I'd leave it well enough alone, he's just some dude you met/got to know on a dating site, you have nothing to worry about, you werent to know. He, on the other hand has his conscience to deal with (if he has one) and sooner or later he'll trip himself up, its inevitable handshake
Jul 3, 2012 7:40 PM CST Married Men
MillerFairy
MillerFairyMillerFairyOffaly, Ireland9 Threads 154 Posts
KNenagh: Decide for yourself - how would you want to be treated if it was your husband?


I would love to know but im not breaking this girls heart ... not my place
Jul 3, 2012 7:41 PM CST Married Men
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
MillerFairy: I agree I'm not annoyed with his wife why should she suffer just him but if i was here i'd like to know but not my place to tell her... really is it .. his not that long married which is worse..


As I say there is no black and white here Millieh.
I would leave it and put it behind you.
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