you can't LOVE someone you never MET (43)
My last ex and I fell in love online, and we were together for 14 years. Couples can divorce and still love each other, while realizing that they just can't be married to each other.
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pedro27: lots of people think you can love someone from talking on skype and on the phone, THE HORSE BEFORE THE CART.
Of course you can, love comes in many forms,
Just because you haven't met some one doesn't
mean you can't love them.
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granuaile: Of course you can, love comes in many forms,
Just because you haven't met some one doesn't
mean you can't love them.
Just because you haven't met some one doesn't
mean you can't love them.
Aww... does that mean you could love me still?
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bornagainheretic: we both had cams at various places in our houses going 24/7, .
That... is pretty damn cool, actually.
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MADDOG69: Aww... does that mean you could love me still?
Aw MD you know how much I already love you.
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pedro27: lots of people think you can love someone from talking on skype and on the phone, THE HORSE BEFORE THE CART.
The sooner you tell someone you love them the better.
I often say it on a first date just to get things off to a rolling start.
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Rumple4skin: The sooner you tell someone you love them the better.
I often say it on a first date just to get things off to a rolling start.
I often say it on a first date just to get things off to a rolling start.
You tell them on the first date you love them? That is just weird! It would make me run for the hills! Also demeans the word love.
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pedro27: lots of people think you can love someone from talking on skype and on the phone, THE HORSE BEFORE THE CART.
yes, you can love the person you met online, even though you have never met, now if you were talking about falling in love before meeting then its putting the cart before the horse, you can love some one with out being inlove, then its up to both parties involved to arrange to meet and go from there
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Sunnydaze14: It would make me run for the hills! .
Ah now... you wouldn't hang about to indulge yourself for a short time? 
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Ah now... you wouldn't hang about to indulge yourself for a short time?[/quote
Well, if I was considering indulging myself for a while, if a person who just met me started declaring "love" I would be a wee bit uncomfortable...now if they declared "attraction" or "liking" that would be acceptable...
Well, if I was considering indulging myself for a while, if a person who just met me started declaring "love" I would be a wee bit uncomfortable...now if they declared "attraction" or "liking" that would be acceptable...
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pedro27: lots of people think you can love someone from talking on skype and on the phone, THE HORSE BEFORE THE CART.
In fact, I have many friends who met their love via online or phone...then they get married !!! It depends on the intention and willingness of each party to realize it...!!!
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kidatheart: Why would you think love has limits and/or boundaries?
Too many people seem to think love only exists within certain factors, limits, and outside of those, it's a fantasy, or delusion.
I beg to differ.
Too many people seem to think love only exists within certain factors, limits, and outside of those, it's a fantasy, or delusion.
I beg to differ.
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Rumple4skin: The sooner you tell someone you love them the better.I often say it on a first date just to get things off to a rolling start.
YES! especially if it is blurted out impromptu and exhuberant manner -
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One can have the "feelings" of being inlove without meeting, however the litmus test will only come once having spent RL time in each others company, not cyber time.
If you take a look at what turns people off on first dates, you'll notice how certain things can be hiden through cyber contact, for instance, if the person never washes, that cyber love will turn into repulsion about 50 feet before the first meet.
Love is not simply about the words a person speaks, a still photo or cam chat, it can incorperate the smallest details, even the type of shoes a person wears. It's the whole and not parts that needs to be seen, smelt and felt before one can say they are honestly "inlove".
IMO
If you take a look at what turns people off on first dates, you'll notice how certain things can be hiden through cyber contact, for instance, if the person never washes, that cyber love will turn into repulsion about 50 feet before the first meet.
Love is not simply about the words a person speaks, a still photo or cam chat, it can incorperate the smallest details, even the type of shoes a person wears. It's the whole and not parts that needs to be seen, smelt and felt before one can say they are honestly "inlove".
IMO
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yes, i believe it's possible to love someone you have never met.
because i have.
i fell in love with someone right here on cs, infact two people.
one was a 'with my pants on' kind of love (grin) and we developed a very deep friendship and we definitely loved each other.
the other, weeellll....
different kind of love, (grin)and yes...we later met, and yes..i am still in love with that person.
but i think if you don't believe it's possible...most likely then, it's not gonna happen.
aahhhh.... but ya never know with matters of the heart now do ya...
because i have.
i fell in love with someone right here on cs, infact two people.
one was a 'with my pants on' kind of love (grin) and we developed a very deep friendship and we definitely loved each other.
the other, weeellll....
different kind of love, (grin)and yes...we later met, and yes..i am still in love with that person.
but i think if you don't believe it's possible...most likely then, it's not gonna happen.
aahhhh.... but ya never know with matters of the heart now do ya...
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Yes you can.... It's rare, but it can happen ....
You know almost everyone is so against online dating but we are all here, trying it, looking for love, hoping to find it... Sometimes that special person is not in your city least in your country ... So want do we do if you live a distance from each other and cannot immediately meet, You talk.... You talk probably far more than someone who you would normally date... In depth conversations that gives you the time to learn to love the person from the inside, not from the outer as you usually would.
To me its more of a body, mind, heart & soul connection .... Until our bodies meet
So it's possible, Stranger things have happened yes
You know almost everyone is so against online dating but we are all here, trying it, looking for love, hoping to find it... Sometimes that special person is not in your city least in your country ... So want do we do if you live a distance from each other and cannot immediately meet, You talk.... You talk probably far more than someone who you would normally date... In depth conversations that gives you the time to learn to love the person from the inside, not from the outer as you usually would.
To me its more of a body, mind, heart & soul connection .... Until our bodies meet
So it's possible, Stranger things have happened yes
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kidatheart: Why would you think love has limits and/or boundaries?
Too many people seem to think love only exists within certain factors, limits, and outside of those, it's a fantasy, or delusion.
I beg to differ.
Too many people seem to think love only exists within certain factors, limits, and outside of those, it's a fantasy, or delusion.
I beg to differ.
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It can and does happen. I fell in love with someone 5,000mi away in precisely that way; we both had cams at various places in our houses going 24/7, until we could finally meet. We moved in together for nearly 2 years, and fell apart mostly because of remote family pressures & issues.