Advice on dating (20)
olaix: Hi, need some advice
I've been seeing a girl, and then I met another and thought "hey, why not".
So seeing the other for a while, yesterday she told me that I already have a girlfriend, because apparently they are friends, or have a mutual friend or something - it is just a matter of time, unless my skills propels to a higher level while "explaining" what is going on - until its clear (and I like both of them a lot, don't want to change them yet).
Anyone have a advice how I can explain my way out of this?
I've been seeing a girl, and then I met another and thought "hey, why not".
So seeing the other for a while, yesterday she told me that I already have a girlfriend, because apparently they are friends, or have a mutual friend or something - it is just a matter of time, unless my skills propels to a higher level while "explaining" what is going on - until its clear (and I like both of them a lot, don't want to change them yet).
Anyone have a advice how I can explain my way out of this?
deny ,deny, deny
or tell them you`re got an twin brother...
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Thanks, but I think they wouldn't believe that :/
The top achievement would be to have them accept each other I think, if I could just figure out how :p
The top achievement would be to have them accept each other I think, if I could just figure out how :p
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Boban1: deny ,deny, deny
or tell them you`re got an twin brother...
or tell them you`re got an twin brother...
Hmm I think its to late for that, they have me on photo :p
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olaix: Hmm I think its to late for that, they have me on photo :p
phone, skype, address etc etc
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In response to: Hi, need some advice
I've been seeing a girl, and then I met another and thought "hey, why not".
So seeing the other for a while, yesterday she told me that I already have a girlfriend, because apparently they are friends, or have a mutual friend or something - it is just a matter of time, unless my skills propels to a higher level while "explaining" what is going on - until its clear (and I like both of them a lot, don't want to change them yet).
Anyone have a advice how I can explain my way out of this?
I've been seeing a girl, and then I met another and thought "hey, why not".
So seeing the other for a while, yesterday she told me that I already have a girlfriend, because apparently they are friends, or have a mutual friend or something - it is just a matter of time, unless my skills propels to a higher level while "explaining" what is going on - until its clear (and I like both of them a lot, don't want to change them yet).
Anyone have a advice how I can explain my way out of this?
Yes, tell the truth. Are you ready to settle down with one girl? That's the question you need to ask yourself. If not, then tell each of them the truth and let them know how much you like them and what you like about them and that you are not ready to commit to one and that you want to date but it's not exclusive. You guys would be surprised how well women respond to the brutal truth! We may have a bit of hurt feelings at first but we do appreciate the honest truth and will accept it. I would bet that you could continue seeing both if you are upfront and honest. Good luck.
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olaix: Hi, need some advice
I've been seeing a girl, and then I met another and thought "hey, why not".
So seeing the other for a while, yesterday she told me that I already have a girlfriend, because apparently they are friends, or have a mutual friend or something - it is just a matter of time, unless my skills propels to a higher level while "explaining" what is going on - until its clear (and I like both of them a lot, don't want to change them yet).
Anyone have a advice how I can explain my way out of this?
There are more drops of water in all the oceans than there are enough explanations of having two girlfriends.I've been seeing a girl, and then I met another and thought "hey, why not".
So seeing the other for a while, yesterday she told me that I already have a girlfriend, because apparently they are friends, or have a mutual friend or something - it is just a matter of time, unless my skills propels to a higher level while "explaining" what is going on - until its clear (and I like both of them a lot, don't want to change them yet).
Anyone have a advice how I can explain my way out of this?
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Effort_less: Yes, tell the truth. Are you ready to settle down with one girl? That's the question you need to ask yourself. If not, then tell each of them the truth and let them know how much you like them and what you like about them and that you are not ready to commit to one and that you want to date but it's not exclusive. You guys would be surprised how well women respond to the brutal truth! We may have a bit of hurt feelings at first but we do appreciate the honest truth and will accept it. I would bet that you could continue seeing both if you are upfront and honest. Good luck.
Thanks! :) This is in the line I've been thinking, although I don't trust that they will continue to give it up in the bedroom if they knew I do that to both (well the second and I didn't get that far yet, but I look forward to it because she is a hottie).
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rohaan: There are more drops of water in all the oceans than there are enough explanations of having two girlfriends.
What do you mean
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olaix: Thanks! :) This is in the line I've been thinking, although I don't trust that they will continue to give it up in the bedroom if they knew I do that to both (well the second and I didn't get that far yet, but I look forward to it because she is a hottie).
Just keep the two seperate and don't mention what you like about the other when you are explaining. Keep the conversations about you and her, especially when you are together with them, treat them as the individuals they are. If she asks what you like about the other girl, then try to explain A SMALL bit about how she makes you feel (differently). It may or may not work, but one thing is for sure, Women don't get the truth from men very often, it at all, so if you are honest to them, it will make their heads spin, and they will take your honesty to heart.
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Effort_less: Just keep the two seperate and don't mention what you like about the other when you are explaining. Keep the conversations about you and her, especially when you are together with them, treat them as the individuals they are. If she asks what you like about the other girl, then try to explain A SMALL bit about how she makes you feel (differently). It may or may not work, but one thing is for sure, Women don't get the truth from men very often, it at all, so if you are honest to them, it will make their heads spin, and they will take your honesty to heart.
Thank you :)
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olaix: What do you mean
A girlfriend who finds out you are seeing another woman will never be satisfied with any answer. Do you know what it means now?
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rohaan: A girlfriend who finds out you are seeing another woman will never be satisfied with any answer. Do you know what it means now?
Yes, once the cucumber language disappeared, I understand.
But you're wrong - one of my best friends are from the Middle East and right now she wants to be a second wife.
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olaix: Yes, once the cucumber language disappeared, I understand.
But you're wrong - one of my best friends are from the Middle East and right now she wants to be a second wife.
Whaddayamean cucumber language?! About your friends--there are always exceptions, you know! now, apologize for saying I talk cucumber smack--But you're wrong - one of my best friends are from the Middle East and right now she wants to be a second wife.
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olaix: No I mean serious, in the real world :o right now it is just dreams, yeah, but I've heard that the one who look will find, I am not sure if that is true or not, but I know it is true that unless you look you wont find.
And don't be so violent, if you were one of those girls, with that attitude, I'd just break up and never see you again, problem fixed for me.
And don't be so violent, if you were one of those girls, with that attitude, I'd just break up and never see you again, problem fixed for me.
Trust me there aren't many girls out there who tolerate a guy seeing someone else - and if you didn't admit it from the start and they have found out - then you deserve everything you get -DON'T LIE!!
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - so if you only lose your knackers you have got off lightly
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22W00: Trust me there aren't many girls out there who tolerate a guy seeing someone else - and if you didn't admit it from the start and they have found out - then you deserve everything you get -DON'T LIE!!
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - so if you only lose your knackers you have got off lightly
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - so if you only lose your knackers you have got off lightly
Can I hide in your place?
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22W00: Hahaha! Bit risky isn't it? - I know your history!
yes of course, but you don't know my future - you know.. eh... ok, I'll cut the crap
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The truth is usually the best way out of it.... where you like them both.....and you are not ready to be exclusive....
nah that does usually sit well with womin folk does it? -
nah that does usually sit well with womin folk does it? -
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I've been seeing a girl, and then I met another and thought "hey, why not".
So seeing the other for a while, yesterday she told me that I already have a girlfriend, because apparently they are friends, or have a mutual friend or something - it is just a matter of time, unless my skills propels to a higher level while "explaining" what is going on - until its clear (and I like both of them a lot, don't want to change them yet).
Anyone have a advice how I can explain my way out of this?