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Dec 12, 2012 7:42 AM CST Is it normal?
Victory9
Victory9Victory9Vilnius, Aukštaitija Lithuania2 Threads 25 Posts
My boyfriend is chating, phoning and meeting other girls... :) I don't know who are they and what they are doing together. Is it normal or can I name it "cheating" on me?
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Dec 12, 2012 7:46 AM CST Is it normal?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
No,it isnt normal:-)he is not taking u seriously,if hes already contented having u as his gf he doesnt need to do those stupid stuffs:-)
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Dec 12, 2012 7:46 AM CST Is it normal?
Victory9: My boyfriend is chating, phoning and meeting other girls... :) I don't know who are they and what they are doing together. Is it normal or can I name it "cheating" on me?
Spy him ,Fix a Spy Cam in his Coat wink grin laugh
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Dec 12, 2012 7:49 AM CST Is it normal?
Victory9: My boyfriend is chating, phoning and meeting other girls... :) I don't know who are they and what they are doing together. Is it normal or can I name it "cheating" on me?


It is completely "normal" for people of your age to chat, phone and meet other people -
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Dec 12, 2012 7:59 AM CST Is it normal?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
JeanKimberley: It is completely "normal" for people of your age to chat, phone and meet other people -



Has he committed himself to you in any way?? If not then you cannot stop him chatting other girls, maybe they are just friends.

If he has, then he is cheating on you, smack his bum hard.
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Dec 12, 2012 8:00 AM CST Is it normal?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
Is he the 29years old guy?hahaha
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Dec 12, 2012 8:04 AM CST Is it normal?
Victory9
Victory9Victory9Vilnius, Aukštaitija Lithuania2 Threads 25 Posts
He hasn't committed himself to me :)
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Dec 12, 2012 8:06 AM CST Is it normal?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Victory9: He hasn't committed himself to me :)



Then he is free to do as he wishes, I hope you aren't playing games with us, your posts don't really correlate, ant way good luck, you must sort it out with him.
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Dec 12, 2012 8:06 AM CST Is it normal?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Victory9: He hasn't committed himself to me :)

Then you have to decide whether you're happy with this arrangement, or not.

If you're not, talk to him calmly and if he doesn't want to make the changes in your relationship status that you need, move on and find someone more compatible to have a relationship with.
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Dec 12, 2012 8:07 AM CST Is it normal?
Victory9
Victory9Victory9Vilnius, Aukštaitija Lithuania2 Threads 25 Posts
Migsy: Is he the 29years old guy?hahaha


He is 28 :P
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Dec 12, 2012 8:08 AM CST Is it normal?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
Ooops,then u have no problem easy said u have no right:-)just saying
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Dec 12, 2012 8:10 AM CST Is it normal?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
Youre still young,impulsive and confuse dont take everything seriously,enjoy your life,studies and family,:-)
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Dec 12, 2012 8:15 AM CST Is it normal?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Victory9: He is 28 :P

Remember on you other thread that many of us made comments about age differences sometimes leading to power differences?

It sounds like your older man there is doing as he pleases and you're neither getting your needs met, nor do you know how to ask for those needs to be met from him.

If you would like an exclusive relationship with him, you need to ask him for that. If he says he doesn't want an exclusive relationship, then stop seeing him.

Its really quite simple. You can't make someone do something they don't want to do, you can only decide about the things you want.
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Dec 12, 2012 8:15 AM CST Is it normal?
Victory9
Victory9Victory9Vilnius, Aukštaitija Lithuania2 Threads 25 Posts
Migsy: Youre still young,impulsive and confuse dont take everything seriously,enjoy your life,studies and family,:-)


Thanks Migsy :)
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Dec 12, 2012 9:35 AM CST Is it normal?
jt3jo
jt3jojt3jodublin, Dublin Ireland2 Threads 389 Posts
Victory9: My boyfriend is chating, phoning and meeting other girls... :) I don't know who are they and what they are doing together. Is it normal or can I name it "cheating" on me?
Dump him now.
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Dec 12, 2012 9:43 AM CST Is it normal?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
It is NOT normal.

Well, I have heard cheating guys say that "all guys do that", "they just hide it better" etc., but that is simply not true.

What is he doing with these other girls? work? shop? discuss philosophy?
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Dec 12, 2012 9:51 AM CST Is it normal?
Victory9
Victory9Victory9Vilnius, Aukštaitija Lithuania2 Threads 25 Posts
Scubadiva: It is NOT normal.

Well, I have heard cheating guys say that "all guys do that", "they just hide it better" etc., but that is simply not true.

What is he doing with these other girls? work? shop? discuss philosophy?


I have no idea What is He doing with them
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Dec 12, 2012 10:46 AM CST Is it normal?
Solamente
SolamenteSolamenteAdeje, Tenerife, Canary Islands Spain28 Threads 21 Polls 215 Posts
Apart from saying that your Bf has not committed to you we are unaware as to the seriousness of your relationship with this guy.

If what you have is a mutual friendship then I would say its ok for him to see other girls, however if it is more than that then I would suggest you need to consider what is acceptable behavior on his behalf.
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Dec 12, 2012 10:51 AM CST Is it normal?
Rumple4skin
Rumple4skinRumple4skinStoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, England UK4 Threads 1 Polls 980 Posts
In response to: My boyfriend is chating, phoning and meeting other girls... :) I don't know who are they and what they are doing together. Is it normal or can I name it "cheating" on me?


Sounds like you're on the back burner.
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Dec 12, 2012 12:38 PM CST Is it normal?
teddybeerke88
teddybeerke88teddybeerke88assenede, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium1 Threads 305 Posts
he is still playing the field.. if he can't find anyone better he'll keep playing you as long as you'll let him.
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