What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country? ( Archived) (57)

Dec 21, 2012 2:41 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Llllypoo
LlllypooLlllypooHialeah, Florida USA1 Threads 17 Posts
I finally met a man in here that I would actually love to date. He is attractive sweet funny witty and the only guy Ive actually enjoyed conversing with in a while.. But he lives in another country? Is it silly to even persue anything with him? What would you do? Help please..
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Dec 21, 2012 2:47 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
violetav
violetavvioletavLondon, Mexico1 Posts
I don't think it's silly. Love can be everywhere. If you both are really in love no matter distance you will be together anyway if that is what you want from the bottom of your heart
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Dec 21, 2012 2:53 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
barebum61
barebum61barebum61adelaide, South Australia Australia2 Threads 292 Posts
i would travel if i thought love was there
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Dec 21, 2012 2:54 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Llllypoo
LlllypooLlllypooHialeah, Florida USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Thank you,. Its not love. I just enjoy his company. Ive never been in this situation before and am curious as to what people do... thanks for your input applause
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Dec 21, 2012 2:56 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
barebum61
barebum61barebum61adelaide, South Australia Australia2 Threads 292 Posts
well if you need a holiday ....do it
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Dec 21, 2012 2:57 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
Llllypoo: Thank you,. Its not love. I just enjoy his company. Ive never been in this situation before and am curious as to what people do... thanks for your input


May I suggest Skype and then perhaps a holiday for one of you to visit the other if things are going well? If you don't click, I'm sure you can still do the tourist thing together. conversing
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Dec 21, 2012 2:59 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Llllypoo: I finally met a man in here that I would actually love to date. He is attractive sweet funny witty and the only guy Ive actually enjoyed conversing with in a while.. But he lives in another country? Is it silly to even persue anything with him? What would you do? Help please..


Depends on lots of things...
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Dec 21, 2012 3:00 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Llllypoo
LlllypooLlllypooHialeah, Florida USA1 Threads 17 Posts
I really just met him, im just saying i can see myself falling for someone like him, and it made me think what if we did fall in love. i can imagine this must happen a lot in here.
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Dec 21, 2012 3:01 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Llllypoo
LlllypooLlllypooHialeah, Florida USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Yes skype is the next move..lol..maybe tonight. now im nervous..doh
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Dec 21, 2012 3:03 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
barebum61
barebum61barebum61adelaide, South Australia Australia2 Threads 292 Posts
if he lives in australia ...drop in and see me toolaugh
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Dec 21, 2012 3:04 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
Llllypoo: I finally met a man in here that I would actually love to date. He is attractive sweet funny witty and the only guy Ive actually enjoyed conversing with in a while.. But he lives in another country? Is it silly to even persue anything with him? What would you do? Help please..


For me long distance has always been a big no no, I think you have to spend time, in reality , with someone to fall in love and do not believe you can fall for someone online.
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Dec 21, 2012 3:13 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Llllypoo
LlllypooLlllypooHialeah, Florida USA1 Threads 17 Posts
barebum61: if he lives in australia ...drop in and see me too



as a matter of facvt he does! laugh
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Dec 21, 2012 3:14 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Llllypoo
LlllypooLlllypooHialeah, Florida USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Glatlol: For me long distance has always been a big no no, I think you have to spend time, in reality , with someone to fall in love and do not believe you can fall for someone online.


thats what ive always believed. its never happened to me, fall in love online. Ive liked people yes but always from my state or close enough to visit. wine
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Dec 21, 2012 3:15 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Llllypoo
LlllypooLlllypooHialeah, Florida USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Boban1: Depends on lots of things...


what does it depend on? help
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Dec 21, 2012 3:24 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
barebum61
barebum61barebum61adelaide, South Australia Australia2 Threads 292 Posts
Llllypoo: as a matter of facvt he does!
well lilly its a nice country ..plenty to see ...its worth your while then
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Dec 21, 2012 3:29 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Llllypoo: what does it depend on?

As I said, on lots of things
distance , financial situation , what country ,travel arrangement's , will she or he be staying at my place or at some hotel ..or where will I stay If Im about to do the travel ... pets , allergic or not ... food

okay I guess Im gonna stay single forever ... grin
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Dec 21, 2012 3:52 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
santa waving santa waving
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Dec 21, 2012 4:22 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
nayodumisup
nayodumisupnayodumisupJakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 92 Posts
According to my financial,what I can only...
Online dating,online talk and may be Skype
handshake hug peace grin
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Dec 21, 2012 4:29 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
Llllypoo: I really just met him, im just saying i can see myself falling for someone like him, and it made me think what if we did fall in love. i can imagine this must happen a lot in here.
It has happened a lot in here with several of them ending in marriage. Was a guy in here once from our state that fell for a woman from Spain. They skyped a lot, then finally got together. Now they are married and living in Spain. Take it slow and let it flow.

Good Luck!
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Dec 21, 2012 5:03 PM CST What do you do if you like someone but they live in another country?
Solamente
SolamenteSolamenteAdeje, Tenerife, Canary Islands Spain28 Threads 21 Polls 215 Posts
In response to: I finally met a man in here that I would actually love to date. He is attractive sweet funny witty and the only guy Ive actually enjoyed conversing with in a while.. But he lives in another country? Is it silly to even persue anything with him? What would you do? Help please..


Men should always visit first.
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