Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........ (109)

Dec 27, 2012 8:54 AM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
Serenity4two
Serenity4twoSerenity4twoDonegal, Ireland22 Threads 4,645 Posts
scriobhneoir: Seemingly none of them want me, ouch! I know I said yesterday I'm not going to go ott looking for someone and that's still true, but yesterday for the hell of it I went on Plenty of Fish and sent no fewer than 25, yes 25 messages to women and got not a single reply. That's right, 0. Now I no it's all a bit of fun but talk about striking out.


Don't ever change for anybody Scriobs thumbs up
You will meet your match --someone your equal on so many levels thumbs up
Keep being yourself --and don't get disheartened ,,
There's always hope --so keep mailing to those that take your fancy thumbs up
Dec 27, 2012 9:40 AM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
Serenity4two: Don't ever change for anybody Scriobs
You will meet your match --someone your equal on so many levels
Keep being yourself --and don't get disheartened ,,
There's always hope --so keep mailing to those that take your fancy
yes i agree , shur their loss and be sure to tell them too scriobs, tis like the pub , no different ...nobodys lookin or wanting these days ..
Dec 27, 2012 10:09 AM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
33 all out now. Taxi for scribs!rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 27, 2012 10:13 AM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
scriobhneoir: 33 all out now. Taxi for scribs!

If the tool isn't doing the job you want, perhaps you need to look at how you're using the tool?
Dec 27, 2012 10:56 AM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
jac379: If the tool isn't doing the job you want, perhaps you need to look at how you're using the tool?
famous line from lady chatterlys , i think it was the gardener.."ive got a tool and no where to use it " laugh
Dec 27, 2012 11:06 AM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
jenny68: I put that theory to the test a cpl hrs ago...opened a profile but no pic up and so far over 30 mails, lost count of im pages...I might head over there on the slow nights here to get my ego massaged

Aaah, you've had the PoF fresh meat experience. laugh
Dec 27, 2012 11:11 AM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
jenny68
jenny68jenny68Kildare, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 1,375 Posts
jac379: Aaah, you've had the PoF fresh meat experience.


rolling on the floor laughing Fresh meat...some of it I recognised from an adult site I used to blog on for yrs a cpl yrs ago...There on that looking for a one nighter and pof looking for a relationship...And they say women cant make up their minds rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 27, 2012 12:27 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
markus's cult you mean ? designed to hurt good people like you scriobhneoir.i dont mean that in a bad way towards you handshake *
Dec 27, 2012 12:47 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
WESTERNSTAR1: markus's cult you mean ? designed to hurt good people like you scriobhneoir.i dont mean that in a bad way towards you *

No dating site as far as I've seen is designed to get people together in happy, healthy relationships.

They're designed to make money with the least possible effort.

Its up to members to work out how to use the tool to their advantage and satisfaction.
Dec 27, 2012 1:22 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
Vulpine
VulpineVulpineNessa's heart ;), Cork Ireland1 Threads 180 Posts
jac379: No dating site as far as I've seen is designed to get people together in happy, healthy relationships.

They're designed to make money with the least possible effort.

Its up to members to work out how to use the tool to their advantage and satisfaction.


My God!! Haha!! laugh There I was reading this post and nodding heartily to the content several times, only to scroll up the page a little further and see who the author of the wise, and eloquently turned words were - the great JAC!!

Shur how are ya?!! hug

Fancy meeting you in my neck of the woods huh?! laugh hug
Dec 27, 2012 1:49 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
Vulpine
VulpineVulpineNessa's heart ;), Cork Ireland1 Threads 180 Posts
chattychick09: u sound some what of an expert on ladies profiles and mails on pof ??????



Yes hmmm hmmm hmmmm hmmm yessss......
The "plot thickens" doens't it??? hmmm laugh
Dec 27, 2012 1:51 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
Serenity4two
Serenity4twoSerenity4twoDonegal, Ireland22 Threads 4,645 Posts
Vulpine: I guess you're totally right there HC. Nevertheless, I can't see why they can't send SOME kind of decent response to a decent approach to them?
Isn't that why they are THERE in the first place??


Hi Vulpine wave
Well said !

Hope Nessa is keeping well ? and that you had a great Christmas !

Serenity

wave
Dec 27, 2012 1:51 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
chattychick09
chattychick09chattychick09clonmel, Tipperary Ireland12 Threads 147 Posts
Vulpine: Yes hmmm hmmmm yessss......
The "plot thickens" doens't it???

yup i thought so too lol
Dec 27, 2012 1:54 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
Vulpine: I guess you're totally right there HC. Nevertheless, I can't see why they can't send SOME kind of decent response to a decent approach to them?
Isn't that why they are THERE in the first place??


when you have loads of different people mailing you and IMing you at the same time it gets very annoying..I know a Girl on that and all she does is block delete mails she doesn't even open them..reason being she has a pain in her head with it all...can't blame her eitherireland
Dec 27, 2012 1:55 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
chattychick09: u sound some what of an expert on ladies profiles and mails on pof ??????

Here's a hint. Some of us (at least used to) meet women on these sites. And women being women they tell you ALL about their experiences... of course they tell you about the millions of mails they get and all the bad men... just to let us know that we really are special that they picked us to meet.

That bit generally happens right before they tell you how bad of a man the EX was and how badly he treated her, and how such a fluffy little angel she is/was, and how she really really IS over him.
Dec 27, 2012 1:55 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
chattychick09: u sound some what of an expert on ladies profiles and mails on pof ??????


no I'm not ..like I said I know a girl on it ireland
Dec 27, 2012 2:00 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
MADDOG69: Here's a hint. Some of us (at least used to) meet women on these sites. And women being women they tell you ALL about their experiences... of course they tell you about the millions of mails they get and all the bad men... just to let us know that we really are special that they picked us to meet.

That bit generally happens right before they tell you how bad of a man the EX was and how badly he treated her, and how such a fluffy little angel she is/was, and how she really really IS over him.


Thats pretty much itlaugh
Dec 27, 2012 2:01 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
chattychick09
chattychick09chattychick09clonmel, Tipperary Ireland12 Threads 147 Posts
From all the messages I've sent, only one (of the non interested) actually said 'thanks but no thanks', and that was grand, good on her, I respected her for that. Most women however dont reply and I take that 'non reply' as 'not interested' and, I'm fine with that, and thats where I leave it. Equally, if I'm not interested in someone, I dont reply, I'm under no agreement, no contract, I dont have to. (and no point someone saying to me 'would you walk away from someone in a pub/on the street?!!' - very different thing).Now, Jenny when are you gonna reply to me?!!!! There are only so many blood letters I can write!!![/
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Dec 27, 2012 2:03 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
I re-joined the fishy site and tbh I've replied to very few mails at all.
I'm too old to be responding to mails that say...Hi, how are you?.....or.....want to chat?

If i ever mail anybody when I would put effort into what I would say, try and be even a little creative. Likewise that is what I would respond to.
Dec 27, 2012 2:05 PM CST Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........
jenny68
jenny68jenny68Kildare, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 1,375 Posts
Now, Jenny when are you gonna reply to me?!!!! There are only so many blood letters I can write!!!

I told you when you cut off your finger and send it to me...How else will I~ know you want me and only me and are not trying to add me to you harem uh oh
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