scriobhneoir: Seemingly none of them want me, ouch! I know I said yesterday I'm not going to go ott looking for someone and that's still true, but yesterday for the hell of it I went on Plenty of Fish and sent no fewer than 25, yes 25 messages to women and got not a single reply. That's right, 0. Now I no it's all a bit of fun but talk about striking out.
Don't ever change for anybody Scriobs You will meet your match --someone your equal on so many levels Keep being yourself --and don't get disheartened ,, There's always hope --so keep mailing to those that take your fancy
Serenity4two: Don't ever change for anybody Scriobs You will meet your match --someone your equal on so many levels Keep being yourself --and don't get disheartened ,, There's always hope --so keep mailing to those that take your fancy
yes i agree , shur their loss and be sure to tell them too scriobs, tis like the pub , no different ...nobodys lookin or wanting these days ..
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
jenny68: I put that theory to the test a cpl hrs ago...opened a profile but no pic up and so far over 30 mails, lost count of im pages...I might head over there on the slow nights here to get my ego massaged
jac379: Aaah, you've had the PoF fresh meat experience.
Fresh meat...some of it I recognised from an adult site I used to blog on for yrs a cpl yrs ago...There on that looking for a one nighter and pof looking for a relationship...And they say women cant make up their minds
jac379: No dating site as far as I've seen is designed to get people together in happy, healthy relationships.
They're designed to make money with the least possible effort.
Its up to members to work out how to use the tool to their advantage and satisfaction.
My God!! Haha!! There I was reading this post and nodding heartily to the content several times, only to scroll up the page a little further and see who the author of the wise, and eloquently turned words were - the great JAC!!
Vulpine: I guess you're totally right there HC. Nevertheless, I can't see why they can't send SOME kind of decent response to a decent approach to them? Isn't that why they are THERE in the first place??
Hi Vulpine Well said !
Hope Nessa is keeping well ? and that you had a great Christmas !
Vulpine: I guess you're totally right there HC. Nevertheless, I can't see why they can't send SOME kind of decent response to a decent approach to them? Isn't that why they are THERE in the first place??
when you have loads of different people mailing you and IMing you at the same time it gets very annoying..I know a Girl on that and all she does is block delete mails she doesn't even open them..reason being she has a pain in her head with it all...can't blame her either
chattychick09: u sound some what of an expert on ladies profiles and mails on pof ??????
Here's a hint. Some of us (at least used to) meet women on these sites. And women being women they tell you ALL about their experiences... of course they tell you about the millions of mails they get and all the bad men... just to let us know that we really are special that they picked us to meet.
That bit generally happens right before they tell you how bad of a man the EX was and how badly he treated her, and how such a fluffy little angel she is/was, and how she really really IS over him.
MADDOG69: Here's a hint. Some of us (at least used to) meet women on these sites. And women being women they tell you ALL about their experiences... of course they tell you about the millions of mails they get and all the bad men... just to let us know that we really are special that they picked us to meet.
That bit generally happens right before they tell you how bad of a man the EX was and how badly he treated her, and how such a fluffy little angel she is/was, and how she really really IS over him.
From all the messages I've sent, only one (of the non interested) actually said 'thanks but no thanks', and that was grand, good on her, I respected her for that. Most women however dont reply and I take that 'non reply' as 'not interested' and, I'm fine with that, and thats where I leave it. Equally, if I'm not interested in someone, I dont reply, I'm under no agreement, no contract, I dont have to. (and no point someone saying to me 'would you walk away from someone in a pub/on the street?!!' - very different thing).Now, Jenny when are you gonna reply to me?!!!! There are only so many blood letters I can write!!![/ quote] hahaha
I re-joined the fishy site and tbh I've replied to very few mails at all. I'm too old to be responding to mails that say...Hi, how are you?.....or.....want to chat?
If i ever mail anybody when I would put effort into what I would say, try and be even a little creative. Likewise that is what I would respond to.
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Don't ever change for anybody Scriobs
You will meet your match --someone your equal on so many levels
Keep being yourself --and don't get disheartened ,,
There's always hope --so keep mailing to those that take your fancy