Being in the forums affords the opportunity to see members interact with others. But after getting a chance to see who they flirt with openly, do you find you back off from contacting them because perhaps you aren't in their age interest or are not as verbally aggressive as your competition?
I think there is alot of flirting on this site yes, but I also think alot of it is innocent. I say if you like them, go ahead and send them an email or flower!
I completely agree with Pal on this one. People flirt innocently. SOmetimes they may be flirting with people they know are natural flirts just for a little attention or comic relief. I would definitely flower them anyhow. Can't hurt!!!
PeachesandCreamConcord, North Carolina USA675 posts
I second this suggestion...wanna know what competition looks like...all you lovely NH ladies up there near my feller...course he knows all you and could play the field...(that is if he doesn't value his life ) So, go for it! If you see a feller you think is available and still flirting around...give it a chance Never know, he might have been waiting on you to make the move cause even guys hate setting themselves up for rejection all the time Hey at our age...we should be confident enough to go after what we want...in a Lady Like..convincing way Take care Assets...you're a beautiful lady...wish we could trade the states we're living in..I would love to be closer to Earl
I hear where your coming from.However I dont feel anyone is competition,just people Id like to get to know.I think the flirting part is harder when you are older.I can flirt with the best of them in real life but worry a bit on this site.Like it or not that age gap does rear its ugly head.Also according to their profiles men around my age only want women 18-40.There are some people here though who are younger and I email because they are beautiful people. Just hang in there and good luck
Competition? I do not, have not, and will never "compete" with another woman to get a man. If my looks, body, mind and soul are not enough to get and hold a man's attention, then he's free to move on to someone he'd prefer over me. I figure, he's not the only pebble on the beach; there's a Little Rock in Arkansas...
Hey this is a perfect example. So I start this thread, and if I liked Pal but he flirts with XStacy instead of me, there is no way in hell I would flirt with him or email him.
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Being in the forums affords the opportunity to see members interact with others. But after getting a chance to see who they flirt with openly, do you find you back off from contacting them because perhaps you aren't in their age interest or are not as verbally aggressive as your competition?