But if you didn't want to flirt the forums that shouldn't stop you from sending someone an email or even a flower. Just think of what you want to say and just tell them. You can do it! How about some liquid courage?
The flirting will only get you in the door. You have to have something worthwhile to offer after that.....
As for our example...If pal and I were actually flirting...(will anyone ever know?!?! ) who really cares? We may write 2 msgs back and forth and realize we can't stand each other. If you are interested, make an attempt to get to know him (or whoever) if he doesn't respond move on. I wouldn't just move on without trying. though.
If you go to a club bar, or convention. And flirt with a few, its the person you get the number of that counts.. or go home with.. The rest are nothing more then the ones you flirted with the night before. And if you go back same thing, it's where your attention is directed to that count. Same with a circle of friends we all flirt, and flirt with each others half's. Well if the circle of friends is close. But we each know the person that mattes to us. If I have a thing for some one on here, (not telling) I would not mind at all if she flirted. I think its cute.
There is only competition if you want there to be.
Everybody is meant to find someone and there's plenty of us out here. The hard part that i find is not competiting with others it is finding someone i truly gel with. I am not looking for perfection but i do want connection.
So what everyone seems to be telling me is that flirting is done in the forums for fun mostly. Not necessarily because you want to hook up with that person ... correct?
Sheesh I need to brush up on my flirting rules then. I thought it was to show your interest in someone.
And yes James, I read your poem in my thread. I loved it .. thank you!
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