If his answers and profile looked too good to be true, it probably wasn't true indeed and it was a scammer or at least someone with a tricked or fake profile.
So don't worry, nothing lost here.
Second option is that he was soooo disappointed by the results he got, he left by himself.
Third and not very likely option is that you were very rude to him and he blocked you.
LovingGirl2013: I'm going to continue with a little more scetptimism from now on....
If a member deletes their profile their emails don't disappear. That only happens when the mods kick someone off the site. Most likely it was a scammer who was sussed out my another member more experienced at spotting a scammer than you and reported him. Whoever that other member was did you a big favor because it sounds like you would have been taken for a ride.
ooby_dooby: If a member deletes their profile their emails don't disappear. That only happens when the mods kick someone off the site. Most likely it was a scammer who was sussed out my another member more experienced at spotting a scammer than you and reported him. Whoever that other member was did you a big favor because it sounds like you would have been taken for a ride.
Are you 100% positive about that Oobs? I recently had a similar experience where someone I was messaging with just disappeared one day. My messages to this person were gone, but this member's message were still there in my inbox. I couldn't message the member and a few days later, the member realized they had accidentally deleted their profile while changing some settings.
A.ha The committee demands to know with whom you messaging with.-
Kaybee50: Are you 100% positive about that Oobs? I recently had a similar experience where someone I was messaging with just disappeared one day. My messages to this person were gone, but this member's message were still there in my inbox. I couldn't message the member and a few days later, the member realized they had accidentally deleted their profile while changing some settings.
Kaybee50: Are you 100% positive about that Oobs? I recently had a similar experience where someone I was messaging with just disappeared one day. My messages to this person were gone, but this member's message were still there in my inbox. I couldn't message the member and a few days later, the member realized they had accidentally deleted their profile while changing some settings.
I'm pretty sure if the mods kick a member off the site everything disappears your & his. I'm not 100% sure ALL emails disappear if they just del their profile.
curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia5,450 posts
LovingGirl2013: I'm fairly new to this site but wondered why someone I've been chatting to has completely disappeared from my mailbox (including their previous messages)? Have I been blocked (embarrassing!) or have they left the site?
Could also be the possibilty his mrs snuck up behind him while he was < mrs > him busted game over DELETE:
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
LovingGirl2013: I'm fairly new to this site but wondered why someone I've been chatting to has completely disappeared from my mailbox (including their previous messages)? Have I been blocked (embarrassing!) or have they left the site?
Perhaps, that person has deleted his/her profile.
Once, I was going to delete my profile and I did but doing that all my contacts were gone but CS gives a 30 days to reverse the deleting so did I but with not more contacts.
Perhaps, your friend has left the CS-town but he might come back.
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