Abort or not ( Archived) (64)

But they are married and he would support her during the nine months and then provide for them both?????

This scenario is taken from an actual case.

I believe its the woman's choice, fair enough if she in a relationship, she can discuss it with the father, but ultimately the end choice is her's.

The man might say yes he will be there for her after its born, but often relationships break down and its the mum left holding the baby

It may be a woman's choice.


But from a man's point of view If his wife aborts his child agaist his wishes (with no medical reasons) there must be something terribly wrong with the relationship.

The baby has 50% of his genes and the marriage would certainly be over if she killed the baby.

However what is a woman's point of view on this.??

This issue will have to be addressed legally at some time.

I am not disagreeing with you "but" I have personally seen many times where A Woman gets pregnant and then leaves the man and puts him out of her life with no chance or option to even converse and then demands that he take care of the child yet has no problems in keeping him at bay. The law backs her up and he works or becomes a criminal if he can not find enough work to pay the tab. To make it worse the mother of the child berates him constantly in front of the child and the young boy after 10 plus years starts becoming very unsure of what a man is and loses his own self respect. The Mother spoils her son and sends mixed messages to the point that he feels guilty for Loving his father but is confused because his father does not give him all the presents like his mother. It goes on and on but my point was that yes, the baby is born from the mother but in a natural pregnancy, meaning through the process of a man and woman creating the child together. In that beginning it seems that there are so many people, (on both sides) that do not work together and like it or not the more I think about it I believe that the biggest problem is that the couple is not held responsible for being the parents. OR, if one parent is going to shut out the other...well, how can that be ok. It is such a mess and it is the future, these are the society of tomorrow. personally I have always said though that because the child is in the womans body that the choice should be hers. In some ways though I think that if she is getting abortions like birth control that something should be said. I don't know how but like I said, I see it, I have seen it and I am pretty sure we will see it more in the future.

Beside its a right of the woman it self or the father/man, how's about the child?, can he/she also deserve to life?. Sometimes we just think a view from the woman or man as not the baby that become as human being

I hear you Niko, the law is skewed in favour of women, and the fathers seem to have very few rights