some people are embarrised to be using this site, it feels like a weakness. You know. But the truth is if your carefull on here and you think you can meet some real awesome people.
In my defense(not having a photo) many of the female profiles are fake. Generally how I start is a request to have a face to face skype chat. This way if its a scammer all the excuses come out and you will never get one.
Most genuine people will have a face to face skype chat after a few messages if you nice about it. But a scammer will never show their face because it does not match the photo.
popey: hi happy i was going to see if CS would put a mustache on my picture but if i were to meet someone thy would be looking for someone with a mustache so i guess i wont do that heehe
Awww do it anyways just tell the person before you meet you are shaving
gem77: You`re interesting woman.....philosophical. And your story...quite fun. Both are at risk .... with or without photo. However, I prefer with photo Age, tall, education, occupation - these things almost always could be with + and -. I seem, more with -. No one is perfect. Yes, but of it don`t must afraid. True is best than lie or concealment. Isn`t disappointment. Thanks for your story.
I feel the truth is the best road also. Twould be nice if all felt that way. It is like a meal we call here "pot luck" everyone brings a dish so you never know what your getting till you remove the cover. Best wishes on your searching
SirZippy....yes it is so, but is one thing - through skype scammer access your computer and all information what it contains. It is a big risk. Nothing is safe. However - who don`t take a risk don`t drink fizz....sometimes Who knows how is better... maybe only God and fate
Happygolucky4u....thanks again for your nice reply. Obviously it is only way how to get true friendship. It is most important to start by yourself with the truth....at least, must say later...but before meeting
gem77: ....especially I can say it about Irishmen...every second messages sender has no photo... Why it is so??!! It is normally if I want to see with who I talk. Of course, it doesn`t protect against scammer and false....but it becomes clear quite fast. And I can say that about 50 and up - it is scammer favorite age too. What are your thoughts about it?
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