i need some advice on this (16)
butterwingsmontross, Virginia USA21 Threads 186 Postslately i have been thinking that maybe i want to get back together with my husband. but i am not sure if this is because i am just lonely or because i honestly want to seeing as what made us seperate to begin with. im very confused
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sometimes relationships can be fixed and end up stronger than ever. other times...well, they just doomed to fail.
i can't tell you which...cause i don't know you or your husband.
i would suggest counseling if you decide to think seriously about it.
i can't tell you which...cause i don't know you or your husband.
i would suggest counseling if you decide to think seriously about it.
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Best of luck in whichever way you choose :)
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best of luck with your decision...
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i have to agree with Lori here
maybe you should sit down with your husband and talk just talk
let him know how you feel and ask him how he feels
maybe you should sit down with your husband and talk just talk
let him know how you feel and ask him how he feels
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Before you consider getting back together with him, sit down and think hard about why the two of you are no longer together to begin with, then go from there.
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thanks you guys. your the best
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if it was that bad of a situation then dont go back but only you know that and ive found out in alot of relationships that after you split up the love dies off and it usually donsent feel the same or doesnt work but who am i to say 
hope that helps out! charlie
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I felt exactly the same as you some time ago. My ex-husband felt the same way too.
We divorced after 25 years of marriage and a year later we remarried. Less than 2 years later we filed for divorce AGAIN.
Too long a story to go into the whys and wherefores, but the remarriage was doomed from the start and I think we both knew it really.
Happily we have remained friends.
We divorced after 25 years of marriage and a year later we remarried. Less than 2 years later we filed for divorce AGAIN.
Too long a story to go into the whys and wherefores, but the remarriage was doomed from the start and I think we both knew it really.
Happily we have remained friends.
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I would suggest getting some martial counseling either from church or a community agency. Sit down and talk with a third party to help you stay on topic and to help sort out what exactly happened and how things can be different so it won't happen again. Counseling will help you and your husband not to repeat the mistakes and to have a stronger relationship the second time around if you decide to try again.
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What made you leave the first time?
You obvioulsy still feel for him if your even considering it.
You obvioulsy still feel for him if your even considering it.
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i don't know your situation.in my case i'd go back in a second.
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Take your time and really listen to your heart. But also dont forget why it didnt work the first time. Usually things are different the second time around.
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How long seperated?
how long married?
Have you dated yet?
how long married?
Have you dated yet?
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I agree FindMe. A good question would be "How long have you been separated?". If it hasn't been that long, then you are probably just lonely and want to go back to what's familiar. Time will fix that. Find yourself first, what you want in a spouse, and ask yourself whether he has it. The original problem probably hasn't gone away.
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Sometimes when the lonliness of your situation gets you down, you start re-evaluating whether or not it was worth the breakup to be this miserable...and then comes the "devil you know for the devil you don't know"...and it seems that much easier to go back to what you knew....
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