It is possible, keep the faith! ( Archived) (16)

May 18, 2013 7:00 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
TJ1970
TJ1970TJ1970Paralimni, Famagusta Cyprus2 Threads 11 Posts
I have not been a member on CS for very long and found my dream partner on here. I designed my profile in a very different way so that any reactions could be easily filtered out giving me a better chance to meet Mrs Right.

And that is exactly what happened, she read it and responded in just the right way. This was the start of something wonderful we Skyped for 6 weeks at least 3 hours a day and after the first week I told her I wanted to come and see her and I did, its all about being commited, booked my flight, hotel and rentalcar and just went!

Because of all the talking we did before I travelled we learned a lot about eachother, all the good stuff but also the not so good stuff we were both honest and deep and by the time I got there it felt like I knew her way longer; from the moment we embraced eachother it was just perfect, we both felt relaxed, comfortable and safe.

We had the most amazing time together and both fell in love with eachother, absolutely amazing what happened to us!

She's coming to Holland next month and will stay with me for 4 weeks after that I will go back with her and stay for a few months we're thinking about living together because we match somewhat unbelievable, I'm ready to make the move.

Commitment is what you need, think about what you are willing to do before you start looking. Is travel an option, could you move, is a job keeping you from reallocating etc. Once you weighed the options available to you it will be easier to make a decision and be realistic about it; no use meeting someone who lives on the other side of the globe and you cant make the move due to your personal circumstances.

I'm totally free have no roots here and dont need to work I realize that this is a very luxury situation giving me the abilty to go and chase my dreams many miles from here somewhere under the sun.

So good luck to you all here on CS, this site works if you want to make it work and I'm greatfull that I landed on here...
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May 18, 2013 7:10 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Congrats.
I love hearing about success stories.
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May 18, 2013 7:16 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
Congrates ,Really Nice to hear your Storycheers
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May 18, 2013 7:32 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
grannyluvsu47
grannyluvsu47grannyluvsu47holden, Massachusetts USA26 Posts
i have been on here for over 7 years and i think i might have found my soulmate on here.but we have not met face to face yet.he and my family and his daugther has been thru alot.but he is back here in the states and he keeps telling me to keep the faith,pray.that we are truely meant to be together.but 1 issue is stop[ping us from beinging together.that is the money issue.i have been keeping the faith to see him soon.but it has been 4 years and 2 months and still not together.so good luck with your new life and your dream woman.i have done alot of work on here to help him and his daugther out.so now faith ,pray needs to be answere like yours was.
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May 18, 2013 8:35 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
TJ1970
TJ1970TJ1970Paralimni, Famagusta Cyprus2 Threads 11 Posts
Amazing things can happen to us, I lost the faith after I lost everything and I mean everything had to start all over again.

The one day I woke up and thought to myself I need to change this no matter how bad it gets there is always a way out, it was hard work but found it in the end...once I started to look at life again in a positive way everything became easier, the people around me started to notice the difference and that again feuled me...

Sometimes you need more, a prayer is not always enough, I found myself back and dealt with my demons, once I completed that journey I was able to give love again, you have to love yourself first before you can give.

Wishing you all the best in finding that someone special again, feel
free to talk.
grannyluvsu47: i have been on here for over 7 years and i think i might have found my soulmate on here.but we have not met face to face yet.he and my family and his daugther has been thru alot.but he is back here in the states and he keeps telling me to keep the faith,pray.that we are truely meant to be together.but 1 issue is stop[ping us from beinging together.that is the money issue.i have been keeping the faith to see him soon.but it has been 4 years and 2 months and still not together.so good luck with your new life and your dream woman.i have done alot of work on here to help him and his daugther out.so now faith ,pray needs to be answere like yours was.
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May 18, 2013 8:45 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
I been here four years on and off... and what keeps me here are the
success stories of real people. congrats! and good luck !
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May 18, 2013 9:13 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
emerald888
emerald888emerald888wicklow, Wicklow Ireland2 Threads 1,054 Posts
TJ1970: I have not been a member on CS for very long and found my dream partner on here. I designed my profile in a very different way so that any reactions could be easily filtered out giving me a better chance to meet Mrs Right.

And that is exactly what happened, she read it and responded in just the right way. This was the start of something wonderful we Skyped for 6 weeks at least 3 hours a day and after the first week I told her I wanted to come and see her and I did, its all about being commited, booked my flight, hotel and rentalcar and just went!

Because of all the talking we did before I travelled we learned a lot about eachother, all the good stuff but also the not so good stuff we were both honest and deep and by the time I got there it felt like I knew her way longer; from the moment we embraced eachother it was just perfect, we both felt relaxed, comfortable and safe.

We had the most amazing time together and both fell in love with eachother, absolutely amazing what happened to us!

She's coming to Holland next month and will stay with me for 4 weeks after that I will go back with her and stay for a few months we're thinking about living together because we match somewhat unbelievable, I'm ready to make the move.

Commitment is what you need, think about what you are willing to do before you start looking. Is travel an option, could you move, is a job keeping you from reallocating etc. Once you weighed the options available to you it will be easier to make a decision and be realistic about it; no use meeting someone who lives on the other side of the globe and you cant make the move due to your personal circumstances.

I'm totally free have no roots here and dont need to work I realize that this is a very luxury situation giving me the abilty to go and chase my dreams many miles from here somewhere under the sun.

So good luck to you all here on CS, this site works if you want to make it work and I'm greatfull that I landed on here...


What a lovely story thank you for sharing it with us cheering you are so right one must love themselves before committing to someone else.

A wise budda once told me. ''please let me fall in love when I am ready and not because I am lonely''.

Wishing you and your other half all the happiness you both deserve. cheers
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May 18, 2013 9:20 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
Oh yes it does... :D

Im relocating for love hehe... Plan was me and my kid leaving Chile on December... But now We decided we don't need to wait that long so... we are relocating on September...from Southamerica to Europe

It does happens... and like you said , requires a huge will to commit... wich happens naturally when you find the right person...


Congrats and wish you the very best
handshake hug
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May 18, 2013 9:55 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
romanticman4u
romanticman4uromanticman4ubrainerd, Minnesota USA11 Threads 7 Polls 494 Posts
Congratulations on finding your true love may every day bring you happiness and joy may godbless you bothhandshake yay thumbs up
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May 18, 2013 10:01 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
snagsmoore
snagsmooresnagsmooremelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 411 Posts
Congrats, hope all works out for you and the lucky lady. The guys I manage to attract are only committed to getting their d*ck wet. sigh

Oh well, gotta roll with the punches.dunno
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May 18, 2013 10:09 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
I love success stories and congratulations. applause peace
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May 18, 2013 10:13 AM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
TJ1970
TJ1970TJ1970Paralimni, Famagusta Cyprus2 Threads 11 Posts
emerald888: What a lovely story thank you for sharing it with us you are so right one must love themselves before committing to someone else.

A wise budda once told me. ''please let me fall in love when I am ready and not because I am lonely''.

Wishing you and your other half all the happiness you both deserve.
Youre Budha is right, very wise indeed...I use a lot of these wisdoms in my life nowadays and it works, just worked my way through the wisdoms by the Dalai Lama, very interesting indeed...you become what you give.

Not coming back as a wurm haha...thanks for your lovely reply!
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May 18, 2013 4:33 PM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
Calliopesgirl
CalliopesgirlCalliopesgirlNashville, Tennessee USA2 Threads 374 Posts
I am still waiting.....congrats...glad you found love.
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May 18, 2013 5:21 PM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
What a beautiful story. I'm happy for both of you and I wish you the best of luck!

bouquet
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May 18, 2013 5:27 PM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
grannyluvsu47: i have been on here for over 7 years and i think i might have found my soulmate on here.but we have not met face to face yet.he and my family and his daugther has been thru alot.but he is back here in the states and he keeps telling me to keep the faith,pray.that we are truely meant to be together.but 1 issue is stop[ping us from beinging together.that is the money issue.i have been keeping the faith to see him soon.but it has been 4 years and 2 months and still not together.so good luck with your new life and your dream woman.i have done alot of work on here to help him and his daugther out.so now faith ,pray needs to be answere like yours was.


Good luck to you, I hope it works out and you don't end up heartbroken.

bouquet
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May 18, 2013 10:54 PM CST It is possible, keep the faith!
What can I say; a true love story that blossoms....
Lots of happiness for the years to come!heart wings
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