To be very precise it is two souls who are in love with each other for decades over but are committed towards their families as well and their no letup in their relation in spite of that. They do meet occasionally without hurting sentiments or ego of their respective families.
Tiger1974: To be very precise it is two souls who are in love with each other for decades over but are committed towards their families as well and their no letup in their relation in spite of that. They do meet occasionally without hurting sentiments or ego of their respective families.
I am not sure what you are saying but it sounds to me that you are looking to have a 3rd party present
when my ex wife and i were married we never new a life with out kids so once they were grown and left the nest we found we had nothing in common that we had grown apart years before I think if we had spent more time to gether just the two of us things would have turned out different
A_Non_A_Moose: Whatever happened to the time when people tried to "fix" things instead of discarding them? We live in a disposable society. Marriages are thrown away in the same fashion one would toss an old pair of shoes. We are looking for a quick fix, something that can satisfy our needs and if those needs aren’t satisfied some feel it is easier to toss the spouse and move on to the next relationship. If the marriage becomes hard and requires a little attention and work it is easier for some to discard the marriage than to hunker down, roll their sleeves up and go to work. Then again, each and every relationship is unique, and generalizations should not be assigned....
if you love the person you marry, you will work things out (aside from extreme circumstances).
Thanks for the members for their reply to the thread in their own way and manner. I am however of the opinion that correct theme of the thread or blog is always ignored here. It could also be lack of expression on my part or way of my narration that I am unable to make my point. Thanks
Tiger1974: Thanks for the members for their reply to the thread in their own way and manner. I am however of the opinion that correct theme of the thread or blog is always ignored here. It could also be lack of expression on my part or way of my narration that I am unable to make my point. Thanks
Ignored? I don't agree with you as many people asked for clarification and unfortunately I think its partly due to the way that you've tried to express yourself that has caused confusion. Perhaps the language barrier but I think as well, you've tried to cloak your topic instead of being more forthright.
Tiger1974: If a couple in late fifties is attached to each other for long time having their individual domestic life, grown up children and still feel uneasiness for each other. Should they continue with this state of affair or they should abstain now?
Do both people feel the same way ? Or has the love gone from just one of them ?
Regarding the advice you ask in your profile .....
langleygirl: Ignored? I don't agree with you as many people asked for clarification and unfortunately I think its partly due to the way that you've tried to express yourself that has caused confusion. Perhaps the language barrier but I think as well, you've tried to cloak your topic instead of being more forthright.
Hi there LL ..... my belated congrats to you and Moose at finding Love at a Mature Age .....
Welcome and thanks. Certainly the man loves his wife and his beloved equally and with proper balance. Similarly the lady(beloved) maintain balance between her family and lover.
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