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Sep 16, 2013 5:00 AM CST Says
Keegan213
Keegan213Keegan213Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 Threads 63 Posts
there's no offence taken...when you post, be prepared for varying opinions, sometimes very strong ones. Perhaps it's time to examine your friendships[/quote Well thats the main reason I am on the site I am human and you guys opinions means alot I am still young so each day is a learning process as-well so there is no hard feelings what so ever.peace
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Sep 16, 2013 5:00 AM CST Says
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Keegan213: Come on you guys lets be realistic its a proven fact in society the only people speaking in general that will be happy for you are your parents and rejoice when you mourn meaning people get pleasure when you going thru bad phase in your life and the only people that will stand by you are your parents and if you got no1 else to turn to then God can help you my opinion thanks for the feed back tho much love xoxo.




Listen up anytime I want to be preached to I'll go to church.
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Sep 16, 2013 5:02 AM CST Says
Keegan213
Keegan213Keegan213Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 Threads 63 Posts
unlaoised: there's no offence taken...when you post, be prepared for varying opinions, sometimes very strong ones. Perhaps it's time to examine your friendships
there's no offence taken...when you post, be prepared for varying opinions, sometimes very strong ones. Perhaps it's time to examine your friendships[/quote Well thats the main reason I am on the site I am human and you guys opinions means alot I am still young so each day is a learning process as-well so there is no hard feelings what so ever.peace
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Sep 16, 2013 5:02 AM CST Says
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Keegan213: there's no offence taken...when you post, be prepared for varying opinions, sometimes very strong ones. Perhaps it's time to examine your friendships[/quote Well thats the main reason I am on the site I am human and you guys opinions means alot I am still young so each day is a learning process as-well so there is no hard feelings what so ever.


don't quote "proven facts" when there are no such things on the subject at hand
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Sep 16, 2013 5:06 AM CST Says
Keegan213
Keegan213Keegan213Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 Threads 63 Posts
unlaoised: again, if that were my experience, i'd be re-looking at my "friends"
Well like I said we all have our own opinion you cud rely on your friends I cud turn to my parents we all are not the same that's what make us all unique in our own little world.peace
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Sep 16, 2013 5:08 AM CST Says
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Keegan213: Well like I said we all have our own opinion you cud rely on your friends I cud turn to my parents we all are not the same that's what make us all unique in our own little world.


Precisely the point...we have different experiences but to quote proven facts when there are no such things...makes me scratch my head. Simply not true
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Sep 16, 2013 5:09 AM CST Says
Keegan213
Keegan213Keegan213Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 Threads 63 Posts
I am in a lecture now wish I cud reply to all u guys messengers. No offence to anything I say it is the internet we all are here for alittel fun no hard feelings.peace
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Sep 16, 2013 5:11 AM CST Says
Keegan213
Keegan213Keegan213Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 Threads 63 Posts
unlaoised: Precisely the point...we have different experiences but to quote proven facts when there are no such things...makes me scratch my head. Simply not true
O my God okay whatever makes your day I see no point in debating with you since I no it cud go on for hours and hours I dont have.peace
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Sep 16, 2013 6:53 AM CST Says
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Keegan213: To be honest it was just a random thought in my mind lol and I speak from my mind well taking from my life that's how I feel you guys may disagree well we are all humans and respect what each other have to say and no offence u guys

Its not really a case of taking offense, but have you considered how you might be touching on some people's pain and loss?

Say, some people's parents have died, possibly recently, some people may have been adopted and feel its their non-biological parents who were the reliable ones, or that some people's parents were horribly abusive?

It also doesn't speak well of other relationships which are important to people. If I needed my daughter, she'd be there. Its not just a one way street where I care for her welfare, but she'd laugh her socks off if I were seriously ill.

What does this say about family structure? That parents are isolated in their own worlds being there for their children, with no reliability, or care for themselves from anyone? How is that healthy and how do we learn to be these dependable parents if we view other relationships as being so very different in their regard for others?
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Sep 16, 2013 7:39 AM CST Says
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
Keegan213: Come on you guys lets be realistic its a proven fact in society the only people speaking in general that will be happy for you are your parents and rejoice when you mourn meaning people get pleasure when you going thru bad phase in your life and the only people that will stand by you are your parents and if you got no1 else to turn to then God can help you my opinion thanks for the feed back tho much love xoxo.



You couldn't be more wrong saying my parents stood by me, that I could count on them. They threw me under the bus more then once.

I learned the only person I could and still can count on is myself.


If god is your crutch and it works for you, then that's good but it doesn't fit it my life.
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Sep 16, 2013 8:04 AM CST Says
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
justjim63: Parents and God? Both are absent from my life, Still I do have c/s.
laugh
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Sep 16, 2013 9:16 AM CST Says
Keegan213
Keegan213Keegan213Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 Threads 63 Posts
jac379: Its not really a case of taking offense, but have you considered how you might be touching on some people's pain and loss?

Say, some people's parents have died, possibly recently, some people may have been adopted and feel its their non-biological parents who were the reliable ones, or that some people's parents were horribly abusive?

It also doesn't speak well of other relationships which are important to people. If I needed my daughter, she'd be there. Its not just a one way street where I care for her welfare, but she'd laugh her socks off if I were seriously ill.Agree with you Jac 1 hundread percent you so right haven't thought about it In that way but yeah I guess I am just lucky well we all have our own circumstances some of us go to our parents some of us dont have anyone to turn to but you made a valid point that I cannot argue with or justify thanks for that.

What does this say about family structure? That parents are isolated in their own worlds being there for their children, with no reliability, or care for themselves from anyone? How is that healthy and how do we learn to be these dependable parents if we view other relationships as being so very different in their regard for others?
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Sep 16, 2013 9:30 AM CST Says
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
giggle
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Sep 16, 2013 9:34 AM CST Says
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
rebel2: Count on yourself.Live by your decisions,learn from you mistakes,and take it on the chin.
pat benatar.
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Sep 16, 2013 11:03 AM CST Says
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Keegan213: The only 2 people that you can actually count on is your parents and God the rest will just rejoice when you mourn, and mourn when you rejoice Tru Story fact about life.




I count on myself just in case!







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