Honesty versus Trust (40)
Maus19: A while back I came across the following somewhere on a profile,
Honesty is a must.
I tend to disagree with this.
I think trust is a must.
I don't think we are honest by nature and find it demanding something that we are incapable of ourself.
What are your views?
No, you can't have a slice of both cakes here.
Anyway, see you around or not.
Honesty is a must.
I tend to disagree with this.
I think trust is a must.
I don't think we are honest by nature and find it demanding something that we are incapable of ourself.
What are your views?
No, you can't have a slice of both cakes here.
Anyway, see you around or not.
Honesty is what Trust is built from!
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With out honesty you don,t have trust!
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Here's what I do (obviously been doing it wrong or I wouldn't be here) I go head into a relationship with total trust...only to, well you know the rest of the story 
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HotrodLarrys: Honesty is what Trust is built from!
Other way around Rod
Integrity/honesty is what the person needs to have in order to build trust in them
You can't trust someone unless you know they are honest
The first step is integrity then trust and then maybe love
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The profiler probably got burnt by someone they trusted who was dishonest with them. Hence why they say "honesty is a must"
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montemonte: Other way around Rod
Integrity/honesty is what the person needs to have in order to build trust in them
You can't trust someone unless you know they are honest
The first step is integrity then trust and then maybe love
Integrity/honesty is what the person needs to have in order to build trust in them
You can't trust someone unless you know they are honest
The first step is integrity then trust and then maybe love
This is just what I said! To Have Honesty, You will have Integrity!
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Honesty is given, Trust is Earned!
Dishonesty given, Trust is Broken!
Dishonesty given, Trust is Broken!
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HotrodLarrys: This is just what I said! To Have Honesty, You will have Integrity!
Recently, I've been absolutely furious with a colleague, but I didn't tell her. She's been aware of my emotions bubbling under the surface and has been prodding away at me to express those feelings and I've deflected to avoid telling her how angry I felt towards her.
Dishonest? Lacking in integrity?
The thing is, I was aware my level of anger was disproportionate to anything she'd done. I was aware that the vast majority of my anger was to do with a bereavement. It was only yesterday that I worked out the person I'm really, really angry with is me. The moment I worked that out and acknowledge it the anger began to fade.
I can now start to look at the issue with her and work towards a point where I can tell her what she's done that I haven't liked, without projecting anger from elsewhere on her.
Should I have been honest with her and told her what I didn't like in a projected rage?
Or am I right in thinking that I should tell her when I'm able to be fair and realistic?
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HotrodLarrys: Honesty is given, Trust is Earned!Dishonesty given, Trust is Broken!
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jac379: Recently, I've been absolutely furious with a colleague, but I didn't tell her. She's been aware of my emotions bubbling under the surface and has been prodding away at me to express those feelings and I've deflected to avoid telling her how angry I felt towards her.
Dishonest? Lacking in integrity?
The thing is, I was aware my level of anger was disproportionate to anything she'd done. I was aware that the vast majority of my anger was to do with a bereavement. It was only yesterday that I worked out the person I'm really, really angry with is me. The moment I worked that out and acknowledge it the anger began to fade.
I can now start to look at the issue with her and work towards a point where I can tell her what she's done that I haven't liked, without projecting anger from elsewhere on her.
Should I have been honest with her and told her what I didn't like in a projected rage?
Or am I right in thinking that I should tell her when I'm able to be fair and realistic?
Can I answerDishonest? Lacking in integrity?
The thing is, I was aware my level of anger was disproportionate to anything she'd done. I was aware that the vast majority of my anger was to do with a bereavement. It was only yesterday that I worked out the person I'm really, really angry with is me. The moment I worked that out and acknowledge it the anger began to fade.
I can now start to look at the issue with her and work towards a point where I can tell her what she's done that I haven't liked, without projecting anger from elsewhere on her.
Should I have been honest with her and told her what I didn't like in a projected rage?
Or am I right in thinking that I should tell her when I'm able to be fair and realistic?
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HotrodLarrys: This is just what I said! To Have Honesty, You will have Integrity!
I don't think that's what you said but if you want to believe that it's okey dokey with me
The way I read your original post you said that trust comes before honesty
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jac379: Recently, I've been absolutely furious with a colleague, but I didn't tell her. She's been aware of my emotions bubbling under the surface and has been prodding away at me to express those feelings and I've deflected to avoid telling her how angry I felt towards her.
Dishonest? Lacking in integrity?
The thing is, I was aware my level of anger was disproportionate to anything she'd done. I was aware that the vast majority of my anger was to do with a bereavement. It was only yesterday that I worked out the person I'm really, really angry with is me. The moment I worked that out and acknowledge it the anger began to fade.
I can now start to look at the issue with her and work towards a point where I can tell her what she's done that I haven't liked, without projecting anger from elsewhere on her.
Should I have been honest with her and told her what I didn't like in a projected rage?
Or am I right in thinking that I should tell her when I'm able to be fair and realistic?
Dishonest? Lacking in integrity?
The thing is, I was aware my level of anger was disproportionate to anything she'd done. I was aware that the vast majority of my anger was to do with a bereavement. It was only yesterday that I worked out the person I'm really, really angry with is me. The moment I worked that out and acknowledge it the anger began to fade.
I can now start to look at the issue with her and work towards a point where I can tell her what she's done that I haven't liked, without projecting anger from elsewhere on her.
Should I have been honest with her and told her what I didn't like in a projected rage?
Or am I right in thinking that I should tell her when I'm able to be fair and realistic?
The first thing is that You admitted that it was more of a problem within You! Raging out would have only made it grow even worst, and yes, You should approach her in a fair and realistic Manner, and you may even find a new friend! The Approach is critical to the outcome!
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I think that having trust for someone is important.
How far do you trust someone and how honest should you be with someone.
How far do you trust someone and how honest should you be with someone.
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montemonte: I don't think that's what you said but if you want to believe that it's okey dokey with me The way I read your original post you said that trust comes before honesty
No Problem Maybe you read too fast, Go Read it again please!
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Maus19: A while back I came across the following somewhere on a profile,
Honesty is a must.
I tend to disagree with this.
I think trust is a must.
I don't think we are honest by nature and find it demanding something that we are incapable of ourself.
What are your views?
No, you can't have a slice of both cakes here.
Anyway, see you around or not.
Honesty is a must.
I tend to disagree with this.
I think trust is a must.
I don't think we are honest by nature and find it demanding something that we are incapable of ourself.
What are your views?
No, you can't have a slice of both cakes here.
Anyway, see you around or not.
When someone writes "honesty is a must" in a profile, I interpret it as someone who might be very trusting at the outset and had that trust broken too often by people who were dishonest. We all know this happens quite a lot on dating sites and in the real world. Speaking for myself, I have written in my profile that I choose to be honest and open but I have also written that I want someone who is honest. I suppose these things should be a given. Bottom line....honesty and trust are synonymous. Without one there is no other.
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honestly, If you have spinach in your teeth, trust that I will tell you....
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Ccincy: I think that having trust for someone is important.How far do you trust someone and how honest should you be with someone.
You hit the nail... again.
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chatonlyman2: You hit the nail... again.
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chatonlyman2: On second thought you hit part of the nail
No cliff hanger tonight. soon to bed but.Honesty has a friendship evolution. Friendship has the honesty. Decide from there
(women only)
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Honesty is a must.
I tend to disagree with this.
I think trust is a must.
I don't think we are honest by nature and find it demanding something that we are incapable of ourself.
What are your views?
No, you can't have a slice of both cakes here.
Anyway, see you around or not.