IF YOU LOOSE SOMEONE FOREVER (16)
annamargaret06warsaw, Mazovia Poland2 Threads 4 PostsHERE I WOULD LIKE TO CREATE THE FORUM- HOW CAN WE HELP OUR FRIEND IF THEIR SPOUCE OR GIRL/BOYFRIEND DIES. WHAT KIND OF BEHAVIOURS ARE HELPFUL OR ANNOYING?
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i dont think i can lost, wat in reallity never was mine...
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annamargaret06: HERE I WOULD LIKE TO CREATE THE FORUM- HOW CAN WE HELP OUR FRIEND IF THEIR SPOUCE OR GIRL/BOYFRIEND DIES. WHAT KIND OF BEHAVIOURS ARE HELPFUL OR ANNOYING?
Grieving, and how long one grieves, varies for everyone. Professional group and individual related support stuff exists where I live. Maybe you could hint/recommend something like this to your friend if they're having difficulty with their loss.
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annamargaret06: HERE I WOULD LIKE TO CREATE THE FORUM- HOW CAN WE HELP OUR FRIEND IF THEIR SPOUCE OR GIRL/BOYFRIEND DIES. WHAT KIND OF BEHAVIOURS ARE HELPFUL OR ANNOYING?
Different people react and cope in different ways to grief, so you cannot generalise.
Just be there for your friend as and when they need you, whether it is in person or on the phone (sometimes people need space to cope and sometimes being overcrowded by "helpful family and friends" makes their situation worse)
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22W00: Different people react and cope in different ways to grief, so you cannot generalise.
Just be there for your friend as and when they need you, whether it is in person or on the phone (sometimes people need space to cope and sometimes being overcrowded by "helpful family and friends" makes their situation worse)
Just be there for your friend as and when they need you, whether it is in person or on the phone (sometimes people need space to cope and sometimes being overcrowded by "helpful family and friends" makes their situation worse)
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22W00: Different people react and cope in different ways to grief, so you cannot generalise.
Just be there for your friend as and when they need you, whether it is in person or on the phone (sometimes people need space to cope and sometimes being overcrowded by "helpful family and friends" makes their situation worse)
Just be there for your friend as and when they need you, whether it is in person or on the phone (sometimes people need space to cope and sometimes being overcrowded by "helpful family and friends" makes their situation worse)
Very true.In my case I didn't want to talk about it or dwell on it at all, simply got on with life in public and grieved when alone.
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LadyDiz: Very true.
In my case I didn't want to talk about it or dwell on it at all, simply got on with life in public and grieved when alone.
In my case I didn't want to talk about it or dwell on it at all, simply got on with life in public and grieved when alone.
On CS, we lost someone that just about all of us liked very much.
He was a character at times and other times he was very compassionate to those who needed a hug.
He sent us flowers and cards. He was into photography and would often write a thread showing his beautiful photographs.
We still talk about him in the threads....Buddy would love this or that... or how is Buddy's little dog... and we still say how much we miss him.
We think of his demise as peaceful, floating away on his blue butterfly.
I think the CS members like to talk about him because it gives us the opportunity to remember him fondly the way he was when he was healthy and hell on wheels.
We would rather focus on his heartwarming qualities then to remember how much he suffered through his illness.
CS will never forget Buddy (Jeeepers)
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montemonte: On CS, we lost someone that just about all of us liked very much.
He was a character at times and other times he was very compassionate to those who needed a hug.
He sent us flowers and cards. He was into photography and would often write a thread showing his beautiful photographs.
We still talk about him in the threads....Buddy would love this or that... or how is Buddy's little dog... and we still say how much we miss him.
We think of his demise as peaceful, floating away on his blue butterfly.
I think the CS members like to talk about him because it gives us the opportunity to remember him fondly the way he was when he was healthy and hell on wheels.
We would rather focus on his heartwarming qualities then to remember how much he suffered through his illness.
CS will never forget Buddy (Jeeepers)
He was a character at times and other times he was very compassionate to those who needed a hug.
He sent us flowers and cards. He was into photography and would often write a thread showing his beautiful photographs.
We still talk about him in the threads....Buddy would love this or that... or how is Buddy's little dog... and we still say how much we miss him.
We think of his demise as peaceful, floating away on his blue butterfly.
I think the CS members like to talk about him because it gives us the opportunity to remember him fondly the way he was when he was healthy and hell on wheels.
We would rather focus on his heartwarming qualities then to remember how much he suffered through his illness.
CS will never forget Buddy (Jeeepers)
His beautiful pictures are still alive in the face puzzle section!
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Time , is the only healer.. Memories are always there
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montemonte: On CS, we lost someone that just about all of us liked very much.
He was a character at times and other times he was very compassionate to those who needed a hug.
He sent us flowers and cards. He was into photography and would often write a thread showing his beautiful photographs.
We still talk about him in the threads....Buddy would love this or that... or how is Buddy's little dog... and we still say how much we miss him.
We think of his demise as peaceful, floating away on his blue butterfly.
I think the CS members like to talk about him because it gives us the opportunity to remember him fondly the way he was when he was healthy and hell on wheels.
We would rather focus on his heartwarming qualities then to remember how much he suffered through his illness.
CS will never forget Buddy (Jeeepers)
He was a character at times and other times he was very compassionate to those who needed a hug.
He sent us flowers and cards. He was into photography and would often write a thread showing his beautiful photographs.
We still talk about him in the threads....Buddy would love this or that... or how is Buddy's little dog... and we still say how much we miss him.
We think of his demise as peaceful, floating away on his blue butterfly.
I think the CS members like to talk about him because it gives us the opportunity to remember him fondly the way he was when he was healthy and hell on wheels.
We would rather focus on his heartwarming qualities then to remember how much he suffered through his illness.
CS will never forget Buddy (Jeeepers)
I'M sorry Jeepers Left Us???? I Did not know this, he was a favorite
of CS
But WE have still have life Left! Use it!
The More people we see go Down. The longer Life we have been Given...
Montee, I was off line for close to 2 years....
My Condolences to Jeepers! Shedding tears!
It seem to me I have seen as much Death as Life!
This is why I Keep Hope alive,I may be strong, but My heart is Soft!
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annamargaret06: HERE I WOULD LIKE TO CREATE THE FORUM- HOW CAN WE HELP OUR FRIEND IF THEIR SPOUCE OR GIRL/BOYFRIEND DIES. WHAT KIND OF BEHAVIOURS ARE HELPFUL OR ANNOYING?
Hi, just let them know that you are there 24/7, to talk and just be there beside them if they do not want to talk...just a major support...a hug or just hold their hand, a connectedness
offer to help with home duties, cooking, care of children, etc
talk about the person and let them know that they were and still are meaningful in our lives....certain things they did to make another's life better, happy, worthwhile etc
never let their memory die.............as it lives on in many things
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Count_Me_In: Hi, just let them know that you are there 24/7, to talk and just be there beside them if they do not want to talk...just a major support...a hug or just hold their hand, a connectedness
offer to help with home duties, cooking, care of children, etc
talk about the person and let them know that they were and still are meaningful in our lives....certain things they did to make another's life better, happy, worthwhile etc
never let their memory die.............as it lives on in many things
offer to help with home duties, cooking, care of children, etc
talk about the person and let them know that they were and still are meaningful in our lives....certain things they did to make another's life better, happy, worthwhile etc
never let their memory die.............as it lives on in many things
Love what you wrote here.....
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Let them know that your there for them if they need you but also give them space to hurt and moren their loss! It takes time to heal so just be a friend cry with them laugh with them and hold them close to your heart til the pain fades!
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serena123: Time , is the only healer.. Memories are always there
..and as a friend we can give support more often called, more visit, and let her him to go out for lunch/ dinner, go to other event but do n' t to go to the places which reminds the memories------ This thread is Archived ------
To be on hand when needed but at the very same time be sensitive enough to step away when the bereaved person simply wants to be alone.
Usually just being there and not saying a word is often all that's wanted.Also be a good a listener.
Be available to run errand,daily chores,if they have children offer to babysit.
Usually just being there and not saying a word is often all that's wanted.Also be a good a listener.
Be available to run errand,daily chores,if they have children offer to babysit.
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........its a feeling you don't belong to anything....or to anyone.......its a horrible feeling....I suppose we have to live with..that......griving takes many forms......hard to exsplain....?????
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