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It happens.
Would i get married again, or would i put another person off marriage- absolutely not. My father met my mother in Venice in 1964 & it was love at first sight & they spent over 40 years with each other until he passed away. Its all about being in the right place at the right time in order to find the one. Very lucky indeed if you find a partner who is right for you on many levels. There are so many damaged people about nowadays with much baggage, they look for others to make them happy when they are clearly at war with themselves- or like many on date sites looking for a partner to fill a temporary void in their sad lives.Get to know this person, dont rush anything, be kind and considerate, communicate and if it leads to marriage then cool. But when you do finally get wed i believe that its only the beginning because you have to work on staying married- never take your spouse for granted like my ex wife did with me. And love isnt about control either. Love is when you want the best for your partner even if it isnt the best thing for you. As for arguing, well, my grandmother used to say: 'never let the sunset on bad feelings- clear the air and start anew.
Great post!
My parents have been happily married for 52 years, and still adore each other.
They love, respect, care for, and do little things all the time to make the other person happy.
Personally,I think Respect is the main key to a healthy, loving sustainable relationship.
Without that, the relationship, and the couple, is doomed .