Insecurity Issues (34)
well said
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Cris this is from my own experience i was and still sometimes very insecure about myself hell i have a hard time taking complimants from anyone
i have learned alot being here and seeing how we (on CS) have given alittle security to eachother
its funny how i can give advice to others about insecurites and not take my own advice
i have learned alot being here and seeing how we (on CS) have given alittle security to eachother
its funny how i can give advice to others about insecurites and not take my own advice
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I've wondered this myself. One has to be kool with themselves and secure with what they are before they can even begin to consider someone elses security.
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Gotta agree with you Cris one must have self love and be secure with whom they are 
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Just a thought here but maybe their not aware of their insecurities and believe themselves to be ready. Sometimes when you are on the inside the blinders are on so very thick that one can not see anything even if infront of him/her but an outsider can see the insecurities a mile away.
Or the insecurities do not surfs until one is in a relationship
Either way, it may just be an honest misconception of ones
Or the insecurities do not surfs until one is in a relationship
Either way, it may just be an honest misconception of ones
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Perhaps to cover up the insecurites? I myself feel they are the ones who will fail, always needing reasurance. Taking whatever they can, leaving broken hearts behind. I know for a fact I am secure in who I am, and love myself. Love means putting your mate first. I have no worries as when the time is right, I will find him, and know how to keep him. And be ever so ready to give my all, love is Gods greatest gift. I plan on treasuring him forever, nurturing our love. 
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You're right Laurie. I was always everyones relationship counselor and life counselor, but for MANY years I never took my own advice 
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I think it is a rare (or nonexistent) individual who doesn't have SOME kind of security "issue." That's just one of our human frailties or foibles. People who want "totally secure" people are fooling themselves. I don't believe such a person exists. Everyone has something about themselves they are insecure about, to one degree or another. And if they don't? They're too "perfect" for me.
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TA TAT DAAAAAAA TAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!
i have no security issues.... i am perfect!!
i have no security issues.... i am perfect!!
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Yes you are perfect Alex
Don't ever change
Don't ever change
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I have been thinking...
I would grade your question as a philosophical one. The fact that a person is in a certain state of mind, viz. knowing, can never guarantee that anything is in fact true.
It is very easy to come to think that "I believe" and "I know" simply express different degrees of confidence in what follows them. Thus, we might think that people with a great deal of self-confidence might say that they knew, while those with somewhat less confidence, might say only that they believed.
And yet there is always a very fine border line, between self-confidence and arrogance.Isn’t there? I do not wish anyone to cross it.
Once john Stuart Mill said
"Better to be Socrates dissatisfied than a fool satisfied."
Personaly I do not know anything ... there is no universal moral standarts and an accurate answers.
I learn! I am not perfect, nobody is ...even Alex
I would grade your question as a philosophical one. The fact that a person is in a certain state of mind, viz. knowing, can never guarantee that anything is in fact true.
It is very easy to come to think that "I believe" and "I know" simply express different degrees of confidence in what follows them. Thus, we might think that people with a great deal of self-confidence might say that they knew, while those with somewhat less confidence, might say only that they believed.
And yet there is always a very fine border line, between self-confidence and arrogance.Isn’t there? I do not wish anyone to cross it.
Once john Stuart Mill said
"Better to be Socrates dissatisfied than a fool satisfied."
Personaly I do not know anything ... there is no universal moral standarts and an accurate answers.
I learn! I am not perfect, nobody is ...even Alex
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Maybe they want the other to make them feel secure!
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sometimes you have to say $uck it and go for it.no one is perfect we all have our Insecurity Issues,we all have our strength and weaknessthe thing is to find someone who is your other half the one that completes you.not the one who you can live with,but the one who you cannot live without.the one who puts a song in your heart.the one who fills your dreams and the one who is always in your thoughts
no matter how many insecurity issues they have.the thing about true love is they learn how to depend on each other.they learn how to lean on each other.they learn how to be there for each other,no matter what tomorrow brings
they learn how to overlook each other's shortcoming and be thankfull they was allow to find each other
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I am not that secure but I have had practice in making do with what I have. It is like what choice do I have? One day at a time and some days are better than others has been my days lately. I keep borrowing from Peter to pay Paul but am working through it. Every day I step out the front door it is a risk of what kind of day is it going to be this day? I just keep on keeping on.
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I'm with you on this one, Roy ... 
Mistery of everyday living ... you never know what is waiting for you out there. That's why emotional and rational have to go hand in hand
Mistery of everyday living ... you never know what is waiting for you out there. That's why emotional and rational have to go hand in hand
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You have to truly love thee shelf,inside and out before your able to love another............
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well said
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You are learning. VERY slowly, but learning..
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I'd love to see some other opinions on this....
Why would someone that is insecure about themselves proclaim themselves to be a well rounded individual?
How can someone honestly be ready to get involved in a relationship with another person when they don't have a relationship with themselves?