My recent break up !!! (132)
felixis99: I don;t think it would much matter here try as you may to flip things around, I think most know quite well what is meant without you attempting to bait an argument. I prefer how we do things here. We marry for love. I have read in the news what happens to women in your culture who TRY to marry for love. scary.
still I am curious to know your idea of love !!
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unlaoised: and patronising, IMO
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inn0cent_soul: still I am curious to know your idea of love !!
I still want to know what a "womanist" is
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jac_the_gripper: If somebody's cultural outlook doesn't appear logical, it's because you're reading it from your own value framework.
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felixis99: I agree. It sounds argumentative. Oh well. must have touched a nerve there
what ever :)
what ever :)
I believe it may be cultural and possible more a term of warmth and respect, as in 'you are dear to me as a fellow human being'.
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Nidifugous: I agree.
I agree to the extent that a responsible person will want to marry another responsible person, but the lack of the mention for love is disquieting to me. I also think responsibilities and expenses should be shared without "demands."
We have acknowledged that there cultural differences at play here. So I am not sure that calling names like golddigger really means anything. But certainly we can criticize a cultural practice (our own or another) in a forum of free speech?
What una said earlier about the difference between a couple managing finances and looking only at a man for his wallet, those being different things (I can;t remember exactly how she said it)
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jac_the_gripper: I believe it may be cultural and possible more a term of warmth and respect, as in 'you are dear to me as a fellow human being'.
I don;t necessarily agree in the context here
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unlaoised: I still want to know what a "womanist" is
I would love to share it with you, in another thread, pretty soon !!
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inn0cent_soul: I would love to share it with you, in another thread, pretty soon !!
Why not just say it here?
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felixis99: I agree to the extent that a responsible person will want to marry another responsible person, but the lack of the mention for love is disquieting to me. I also think responsibilities and expenses should be shared without "demands."
We have acknowledged that there cultural differences at play here. So I am not sure that calling names like golddigger really means anything. But certainly we can criticize a cultural practice (our own or another) in a forum of free speech?What una said earlier about the difference between a couple managing finances and looking only at a man for his wallet, those being different things (I can;t remember exactly how she said it)
We have acknowledged that there cultural differences at play here. So I am not sure that calling names like golddigger really means anything. But certainly we can criticize a cultural practice (our own or another) in a forum of free speech?What una said earlier about the difference between a couple managing finances and looking only at a man for his wallet, those being different things (I can;t remember exactly how she said it)
You are most welcome to express your opinions !!!
I agree that responsibilities and expenses should be shared without demands ... but what you will do if your partner is not ready to share responsibilities?
would you walk out instantly ?
would you make demand ?
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inn0cent_soul: You are most welcome to express your opinions !!!
I agree that responsibilities and expenses should be shared without demands ... but what you will do if your partner is not ready to share responsibilities?
would you walk out instantly ?
would you make demand ?
I agree that responsibilities and expenses should be shared without demands ... but what you will do if your partner is not ready to share responsibilities?
would you walk out instantly ?
would you make demand ?
But you're making the demands before you're even committed to this guy
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unlaoised: Gawd, you have a derogatory name for everyone...except your generation
He has one: i.e. OBSTINANCE ... that doesn't work everywhere unfortunately and he keeps vomiting words
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inn0cent_soul: He has one: i.e. OBSTINANCE ... that doesn't work everywhere unfortunately and he keeps vomiting words
He comes up with a gem once in a while but yea
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felixis99: I don;t necessarily agree in the context here
at least it did not come across that way in the context here, but it's no big deal. I am not offended or anything.
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unlaoised: But you're making the demands before you're even committed to this guy
again my dear! cultural difference!
there are courtships where demands are made before getting committed !!!
Life exist in various forms
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inn0cent_soul: again my dear! cultural difference!
there are courtships where demands are made before getting committed !!!
Life exist in various forms
there are courtships where demands are made before getting committed !!!
Life exist in various forms
I'd love to hear from a few men in your country...and how they feel about it
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inn0cent_soul: again my dear! cultural difference!
there are courtships where demands are made before getting committed !!!
Life exist in various forms
there are courtships where demands are made before getting committed !!!
Life exist in various forms
Lady, why don't you join the human race?
That, if you're for real.
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unlaoised: I'd love to hear from a few men in your country...and how they feel about it
I would love to hear and share their opinions too
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inn0cent_soul: You are most welcome to express your opinions !!!
I agree that responsibilities and expenses should be shared without demands ... but what you will do if your partner is not ready to share responsibilities?
would you walk out instantly ?
would you make demand ?
I agree that responsibilities and expenses should be shared without demands ... but what you will do if your partner is not ready to share responsibilities?
would you walk out instantly ?
would you make demand ?
Probably I would not have become involved in the first place, to answer the question.
making demands seldom accomplishes anything. not many people will want a partner who makes demands. Perhaps a gentle discussion about attitudes toward divison of household chores and finances would be an idea
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what ever :)
and patronising, IMO