Lost (50)
JoeJackson: With all due respect & perhaps you may think the world revolves around you & your incessant blabbing, my comments were aimed at the lady who initiated this particular forum.
Would you like a reaction from me,
You be waiting a long time,
peachmelba: Would you like a reaction from me,You be waiting a long time,
Your world.
shypetitecorkgir: I am very honest. I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. You deserve to hear it, because I genuinely think you seem like a very kind person.
Thanks again.
Thanks again.
To people I like.
Hope all good with you.
sirLarryIII: A suggestion is - start to question things a bit more,yourself and life,explore life/hobbies/philosophy/careers/whatever appears to make sense to you.Sometimes parts of our lives fall into place in their own timing beyond our control,if that makes sense so go easy on yourself,its quite ok to feel the way you are.
You've had the courage to look for advice publicly,therefore you have the courage to go the distance and will find what it is you seek
Learn to trust your own gut instinct in searching/exploring and remember sometimes things we find that can make sense to us may only be temporary stepping stones leading us to something better.
Dont fear change,it is natural and normal part of the process of life.
Be gentle with yourself,taking things at your own pace and doing what feels right for you till you have achieved a bit more clarity on your life and yourself
hope this is of use
You've had the courage to look for advice publicly,therefore you have the courage to go the distance and will find what it is you seek
Learn to trust your own gut instinct in searching/exploring and remember sometimes things we find that can make sense to us may only be temporary stepping stones leading us to something better.
Dont fear change,it is natural and normal part of the process of life.
Be gentle with yourself,taking things at your own pace and doing what feels right for you till you have achieved a bit more clarity on your life and yourself
hope this is of use
It is. Thanks very much Larry. I appreciate it. How are things on the dating-scene for you Larry?
In response to: Does anyone know what I mean? I'm not talking about the tv series! It's a serious question. Genuine replies only please.
I think people offer sdvice the usual move furniture join groups to me its okay but not the real world eas to become isolated and you neen some money as well to do these things .and its not easy to join a club or that with people you don't know myself I have learned what to do when I get fed up or lost whatever way you put it I puts on me runners and walks till I get the head clear or I will play nice music or get in car and just go out even ifs just to Tesco its not a bad place in the night time plenty of kindred spirits around as well you wont be the only one hopes this is some help
Is it anything to do with you feel you should now be settling down with a husband/partner and kids etc...Society has us conditioned to a certain extent that you are somewhat losing out if you haven't done the whole family reproduction thing...I had my first son at 19, my second at 34...I stayed with neither father...I am now happily living with someone I met over 8 yrs ago...I met all you lovely people when we split up for several months back in 2012 and u got me thru some bad nights just taking the piss or whatever..The distraction...There is always light at the end of the tunnel
jenny68: Is it anything to do with you feel you should now be settling down with a husband/partner and kids etc...Society has us conditioned to a certain extent that you are somewhat losing out if you haven't done the whole family reproduction thing...I had my first son at 19, my second at 34...I stayed with neither father...I am now happily living with someone I met over 8 yrs ago...I met all you lovely people when we split up for several months back in 2012 and u got me thru some bad nights just taking the piss or whatever..The distraction...There is always light at the end of the tunnel
You were and are more than welcome Jenny. Now, the question is, who was the loveliest of the lovely people?
pedro27: i was lost for the guts of 10 years the age of 20 up to 30!! a zombie like person...it took 10 years for me regain myself emotionaly... it is only in the past 3 years ive found myself. i was in a spiders web for 10 years, felt like a curse upon me but i never gave up!! i found my way out of the darkness
Thanks, Pedro. You look well in the photo of you holding your son
johnjjm: I think people offer sdvice the usual move furniture join groups to me its okay but not the real world eas to become isolated and you neen some money as well to do these things .and its not easy to join a club or that with people you don't know myself I have learned what to do when I get fed up or lost whatever way you put it I puts on me runners and walks till I get the head clear or I will play nice music or get in car and just go out even ifs just to Tesco its not a bad place in the night time plenty of kindred spirits around as well you wont be the only one hopes this is some help
Thanks Johnjim. I did join a few groups, but haven't gone to anything in a while. I lived in Dublin for a while and used to go to Tesco etc. It's not s bad idea at all.
johnjjm: I think people offer sdvice the usual move furniture join groups to me its okay but not the real world eas to become isolated and you neen some money as well to do these things .and its not easy to join a club or that with people you don't know myself I have learned what to do when I get fed up or lost whatever way you put it I puts on me runners and walks till I get the head clear or I will play nice music or get in car and just go out even ifs just to Tesco its not a bad place in the night time plenty of kindred spirits around as well you wont be the only one hopes this is some help
Omg jim do you think that is good advice to go to tescos if your feeling lost and just browse around for a couple of hours acknowledging others with just a passing glance knowing that they could be feeling lost too,
I have to say everytime I go to tescos I end up stressed,,one time I spent an hour looking for my sister who I had lost as I move away from the veggie isle to the makeup section,
.I went up and down the escerlaters looking but she had gone home,
I much prefer lidals late at night ,
About_Blank: The smarts on here have made it into words...
Sense of purpose, do stuff, dont wonder, 'what if'....
When i was young, i had a 'woe is me' outlook on life, thinking 'nobody is interested in me', and they weren't, cos i was the problem with my own unremitting negativity....Im not giving out to you, but, nobody else can find you if you cant find yourself....
Take everything good about yourself and absolutely 'milk the hell out of it', if it worked for me, id nearly say it can work for you.... Good Luck...
Sense of purpose, do stuff, dont wonder, 'what if'....
When i was young, i had a 'woe is me' outlook on life, thinking 'nobody is interested in me', and they weren't, cos i was the problem with my own unremitting negativity....Im not giving out to you, but, nobody else can find you if you cant find yourself....
Take everything good about yourself and absolutely 'milk the hell out of it', if it worked for me, id nearly say it can work for you.... Good Luck...
Thanks. I hot your dog isn't still wearing that.
shypetitecorkgir: Thanks Johnjim. I did join a few groups, but haven't gone to anything in a while. I lived in Dublin for a while and used to go to Tesco etc. It's not s bad idea at all.
Just make sure you wear comfortable shoes if going to tescos ,s one could spend a few hours browsing around there,
It is good to break from routine and try a different supermarket,maybe introduce different varieties of food,fruit,makeup,
Thete are courses always starting , maybe a club, crafts,knitting,painting,drama group that might be fun and you get to express yourself,
Gym,swimming,belly dancing,gaa,
As an old lady used to say to me in work ,'
If you can do it then go and do it bit of what you fancy.
peachmelba: Omg jim do you think that is good advice to go to tescos if your feeling lost and just browse around for a couple of hours acknowledging others with just a passing glance knowing that they could be feeling lost too,
I have to say everytime I go to tescos I end up stressed,,one time I spent an hour looking for my sister who I had lost as I move away from the veggie isle to the makeup section,
.
I went up and down the escerlaters looking but she had gone home,
I much prefer lidals late at night ,
well peach lidl is no good sure they close early I go in about 11 see whats happening it gets me out for a while sounds terrible its this or sit alone in me castle and im not readfy to do this now and just to make clear its not cosmetics im after sure the women workers are great crack I do just be annoying them with stupid questions im alone but im always up for a bit of fun of any kind never expected to be alone at my age but cant change this and there does be plenty of souls wounded souls aroundI have to say everytime I go to tescos I end up stressed,,one time I spent an hour looking for my sister who I had lost as I move away from the veggie isle to the makeup section,
.
I went up and down the escerlaters looking but she had gone home,
I much prefer lidals late at night ,
johnjjm: well peach lidl is no good sure they close early I go in about 11 see whats happening it gets me out for a while sounds terrible its this or sit alone in me castle and im not readfy to do this now and just to make clear its not cosmetics im after sure the women workers are great crack I do just be annoying them with stupid questions im alone but im always up for a bit of fun of any kind never expected to be alone at my age but cant change this and there does be plenty of souls wounded souls around
Always look your best when going to supermarket as one dosnt know who one could bump into.
I have spent ages in supermarkets when bumping into people I haven't seen in ages,
And even people I have and try to hide from,haha,
Thete is no doubt that sometimes a visit to the shops ,supermarket can be a very thereupitic business,
Requires good concentration too deciphering what to buy,I could go in for few things frm a list change my mind and select things at random,
It's great.
,oh yea sometimes it's nice to just wander around and maybe just get one of those cappochino s ,And a big sticky bun.
peachmelba: Always look your best when going to supermarket as one dosnt know who one could bump into.
I have spent ages in supermarkets when bumping into people I haven't seen in ages,
And even people I have and try to hide from,haha,
Thete is no doubt that sometimes a visit to the shops ,supermarket can be a very thereupitic business,
Requires good concentration too deciphering what to buy,I could go in for few things frm a list change my mind and select things at random,
your mad its not a sticky bun im after its a woman you know two legs a brain and talkative I don't be shooping well window shopping I tell you I have a better chance in Tesco thannon this site
It's great. ,oh yea sometimes it's nice to just wander around and maybe just get one of those cappochino s ,
And a big sticky bun.
I have spent ages in supermarkets when bumping into people I haven't seen in ages,
And even people I have and try to hide from,haha,
Thete is no doubt that sometimes a visit to the shops ,supermarket can be a very thereupitic business,
Requires good concentration too deciphering what to buy,I could go in for few things frm a list change my mind and select things at random,
your mad its not a sticky bun im after its a woman you know two legs a brain and talkative I don't be shooping well window shopping I tell you I have a better chance in Tesco thannon this site
It's great. ,oh yea sometimes it's nice to just wander around and maybe just get one of those cappochino s ,
And a big sticky bun.
peachmelba: Always look your best when going to supermarket as one dosnt know who one could bump into.
I have spent ages in supermarkets when bumping into people I haven't seen in ages,
And even people I have and try to hide from,haha,
Thete is no doubt that sometimes a visit to the shops ,supermarket can be a very thereupitic business,
Requires good concentration too deciphering what to buy,I could go in for few things frm a list change my mind and select things at random,
It's great. ,oh yea sometimes it's nice to just wander around and maybe just get one of those cappochino s ,
And a big sticky bun.
I have spent ages in supermarkets when bumping into people I haven't seen in ages,
And even people I have and try to hide from,haha,
Thete is no doubt that sometimes a visit to the shops ,supermarket can be a very thereupitic business,
Requires good concentration too deciphering what to buy,I could go in for few things frm a list change my mind and select things at random,
It's great. ,oh yea sometimes it's nice to just wander around and maybe just get one of those cappochino s ,
And a big sticky bun.
Lol JJ..I will have to give you lessons in quoting and posting!
mollybaby: Lol JJ..I will have to give you lessons in quoting and posting!
yeah come here anytime I could do with a few lessons itsworse im getting sometimes its going to appear upside down its the computer u thinks and peach shes sends big long answers and there is no room to fit in thinks I should retirejohnjjm: yeah come here anytime I could do with a few lessons itsworse im getting sometimes its going to appear upside down its the computer u thinks and peach shes sends big long answers and there is no room to fit in thinks I should retire
Ah, don't retire at all, we'd miss you!
If you want to reply to somebody, and don't want to quote a long post, just write the name of the person you are replying to, at the start of your post.
Simples
Yes jim I know why you go to tesco 
,
I think I saw you by the lady's underwear department,,,,but John it's okay I appreciate the thought at Xmas,
You might catch me in the sock isle at penny's at Xmas,actually ill be at loads of men's underwear departments.
,
Oh yes DIY stores ,,great place to stalk men, so John that's a hint for you to go thete too because us ladies getting fed up of the sock departments and turning to DIY departments,
,I think I saw you by the lady's underwear department,,,,but John it's okay I appreciate the thought at Xmas,
You might catch me in the sock isle at penny's at Xmas,actually ill be at loads of men's underwear departments.
,Oh yes DIY stores ,,great place to stalk men, so John that's a hint for you to go thete too because us ladies getting fed up of the sock departments and turning to DIY departments,
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Haha,and that's okay too,Thankyou for that,sometimes I say too much.Ah that's sweet of you to say thanking you I will,
,nite and sleep well all will be well.
I am very honest. I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. You deserve to hear it, because I genuinely think you seem like a very kind person.
Thanks again.