goodtimespr: I'd like to agree, but here's the thing: A) he/she makes an statement B) You belive in that statement C) he/she does not deliver what stated before...
Of course is an issue of mine, since i was the one who believed...
I'm neither ignoring the truth or the process, what i'm trying to tell is that i actually believe in the person whom made that statement, when all the signs indicated the contrary...
And by the way: 1. she didn´t got a divorce 2. she didn't change 3. he couldn't manage his addiction ......
but that's my own experience...
Sometimes people aren't ready, but they're getting ready, or on the way.
It doesn't mean they're lying.
It just means they're in a different place from where they want to be and where you'd like them to be.
It doesn't mean things are going to work out, just maybe have a little less anger/disappointment and a little more empathy and humility.
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