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I understand you wishing to help your friend, but from my perspective as someone looking from the outside, your suggestions were not helping the situation, better to sit back and let them sort out their own problems, they are not children, but being around if the situation becomes a sad one, is one a true friend can then show his support.
I appreciate your experience has led you to believe that age matters in relationships, but one or two failed relationships does not mean all will fail, and certainly a 46 year old woman with a 66 year old guy is just as likely to be successful as one between 65 and 66, in my experience. But that is my experience and not yours. No disrespect intended
No disrespect taken....just that I have know DanielJosh for some time..he tends to jump and rush in..bit like you did in defence of Val but I assure you my intentions are hopefully best for both...yes let them try and sort it out but if no communication ensues then it is best left till both have calmed.