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Fraya: Yeah I know . Men bare grudges something wicked, don't they? I mean they do appear to have longer memories where "hurt" is concerned.
Grudges are usually a reflection of the horror inflicted so obviously men bear theirs longer.
snowlynx: Memories going back hundreds of years sometimes!
So the old scorn adage supposedly associated to women is taken back generations with ye men 
Whats this I read about you busking for ice-cream? I'll buy the ice-cream to see this
freeman65: Grudges are usually a reflection of the horror inflicted so obviously men bear theirs longer.
Dear jesus, you sound like you need an exorcism
freeman65: Grudges are usually a reflection of the horror inflicted so obviously men bear theirs longer.
Yeah, men don't like being set on fire. Story with that
In my experience men feel hurt to their pride deeper than women.
Fraya: Yeah, men don't like being set on fire. Story with that
In my experience men feel hurt to their pride deeper than women.
In my experience men feel hurt to their pride deeper than women.
I think men are overall more sensitive than women anyway.
I am not saying that in a pejorative way.
I just think it is so.
Fraya: So the old scorn adage supposedly associated to women is taken back generations with ye men
Whats this I read about you busking for ice-cream? I'll buy the ice-cream to see this
Whats this I read about you busking for ice-cream? I'll buy the ice-cream to see this
Don't mind that witty one I don't know what she's on about....she's probably had too much sherry or something, I won't be busking any time soon.
mollybaby: I think men are overall more sensitive than women anyway.
I am not saying that in a pejorative way.
I just think it is so.
I am not saying that in a pejorative way.
I just think it is so.
Agreed. I believe it to be so also. Nor do I state it in negative connotations but wonder why women are deemed as more sensitive when it come to relationship "hurt"
snowlynx: Don't mind that witty one I don't know what she's on about....she's probably had too much sherry or something, I won't be busking any time soon.
Gutted I am
Fraya: Agreed. I believe it to be so also. Nor do I state it in negative connotations but wonder why women are deemed as more sensitive when it come to relationship "hurt"
Because traditionally, men were brought up not to cry, show pain, etc., whereas women were encouraged to do so.
That does not always reflect the reality.
Fraya: Yeah I know . Men bare grudges something wicked, don't they? I mean they do appear to have longer memories where "hurt" is concerned.
ffs are you joking women are like dredges dragging up the past they have memories like an elephant 
mjpd67: ffs are you joking women are like dredges dragging up the past they have memories like an elephant
That's not what we are talking about
freeman65: Who told you that.????
I wasn't told, I have seen for myself. Do you see this as an insult to men?
mollybaby: Because traditionally, men were brought up not to cry, show pain, etc., whereas women were encouraged to do so.
That does not always reflect the reality.
That does not always reflect the reality.
Consequently pain and grief in men is manifested in other ways
mjpd67: ffs are you joking women are like dredges dragging up the past they have memories like an elephant
I suspect you are referring to the little things like "you said my bum looked big in this"
Where I am referring to bigger events like the end of a relationship or the death of a loved one. I find men feel it harder and hang on to it.Fraya: Consequently pain and grief in men is manifested in other ways
Exactly.
I think it is improving overall though.
I see my friends' sons encouraged to express their feelings as much as the girls, which is great.
mollybaby: That's not what we are talking about
dont be twisting it now Fraya said us men hold grudges which is not true in the slightest Fraya: Agreed. I believe it to be so also. Nor do I state it in negative connotations but wonder why women are deemed as more sensitive when it come to relationship "hurt"
Women just demonstrate hurt more and encouraged to talk about it,
Men have a wall to try block emotional pain,
The pain can manifest in different ways,
Rage.anger,lust ,addiction,could be to work,
Men are really very sensitive souls.
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Memories going back hundreds of years sometimes!