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Jun 24, 2015 9:58 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
florilove
florilovefloriloveKlagenfurt, Carinthia Austria1 Threads 10 Posts
It sounds ridiculous but it's true.
My former girlfriend (52) invents faked dating profiles of young women (around 30) again and again and sends me mails in which she expresses her interest to come in contact with me. I am 59.
How would you react in such a situation?
(I am always sending her such a reply: "Sorry but you are too old for me.")

What do you think about the reasons of such a behavior?
(I would never do this with my former girlfriend ;)

Thanks for your advices
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Jun 24, 2015 10:07 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Why would you say they are too old for you when the fake profiles were of 30 year olds?
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Jun 24, 2015 10:14 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
If the former girlfriend is 52 and you are 59 wouldn't that make you obviously older then her?


Why would you continue to reply back to her?

Just delete and block.It's not really that complicated but some people do make things more difficult then they really are.
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Jun 24, 2015 10:19 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Cc.
I think he was talking about replying to fake profiles.. Get your reading glasses on!
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Jun 24, 2015 10:23 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Cc.
I think he was talking about replying to fake profiles.. Get your reading glasses on!




Nasty much.Please don't reply to my posts anymore.
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Jun 24, 2015 10:29 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Cc.
Ok . I can see humour is not your strong point !
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Jun 24, 2015 10:35 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
A fake profile collector.!!!!
Maybe,there is money,with your fake collection!!!
Ever thought of it????
florilove: It sounds ridiculous but it's true.
My former girlfriend (52) invents faked dating profiles of young women (around 30) again and again and sends me mails in which she expresses her interest to come in contact with me. I am 59.
How would you react in such a situation?
(I am always sending her such a reply: "Sorry but you are too old for me.")

What do you think about the reasons of such a behavior?
(I would never do this with my former girlfriend ;)

Thanks for your advices
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Jun 24, 2015 10:37 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
florilove: It sounds ridiculous but it's true.
My former girlfriend (52) invents faked dating profiles of young women (around 30) again and again and sends me mails in which she expresses her interest to come in contact with me. I am 59.
How would you react in such a situation?
(I am always sending her such a reply: "Sorry but you are too old for me.")

What do you think about the reasons of such a behavior?
(I would never do this with my former girlfriend ;)

Thanks for your advices



How do you know it is your former girlfriend,?


If it is I wonder why she would be using fake profile as a 3o year old,


Does she think you would be into 30 year olds perhaps,

dunno
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Jun 24, 2015 10:56 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
florilove
florilovefloriloveKlagenfurt, Carinthia Austria1 Threads 10 Posts
peachmelba: How do you know it is your former girlfriend,?If it is I wonder why she would be using fake profile as a 3o year old,Does she think you would be into 30 year olds perhaps,


Good question. Because I know her vocabulary (she is not a native English speaker, good command of English but not perfect, she is using certain phrases very often).

Maybe she thinks that I am fond of younger women but 30 is much too young for me, I am not a Lolita-type.

I am interested in the motives someone does such a fake thing.
Inventing several faked profiles and sending them to the former boyfriend.
It makes no sense for me. Maybe it is only some kind of pastime. I have no clue.
Thx for your smart reply.
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Jun 24, 2015 10:57 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Your former girlfriend is only 52 and your nearly 60

You really have dine her a favour because she could get much younger guys ,more energy ,more virile,


laugh
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Jun 24, 2015 11:18 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
florilove
florilovefloriloveKlagenfurt, Carinthia Austria1 Threads 10 Posts
I am sure you don't have a boyfriend, not even a senior bcause you're a cynic.

laugh
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Jun 24, 2015 11:36 AM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
You question his verility at 60 ??? Middle age is between 40+60.
By rights,at his age,acting like a young bull,is very commom.
laugh laugh
peachmelba: Your former girlfriend is only 52 and your nearly 60

You really have dine her a favour because she could get much younger guys ,more energy ,more virile,
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Jun 24, 2015 12:12 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
florilove
florilovefloriloveKlagenfurt, Carinthia Austria1 Threads 10 Posts
chris27292729: You question his verility at 60 ??? Middle age is between 40+60.
By rights,at his age,acting like a young bull,is very commom.


It's true, in bed I am more a dud than a bomb but that has nothing to do with the issue here.
I am really upset why a mature 52 yrs old women behaves in such a way.
We parted amicably. It was a fair separation.
For me it is some kind of cybermobbing.
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Jun 24, 2015 2:05 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
florilove: I am sure you don't have a boyfriend, not even a senior bcause you're a cynic.




Haha,

I'm only joking with you,

wine
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Jun 24, 2015 2:10 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
chris27292729: You question his verility at 60 ??? Middle age is between 40+60.
By rights,at his age,acting like a young bull,is very commom.




Laws only testing you guys to see what your reaction would be,


My old grandad who I never met was very virile ,

He fathered my dad at age of 58 .

He ate alot of pomegranates .

laugh
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Jun 24, 2015 2:11 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: Laws only testing you guys to see what your reaction would be,My old grandad who I never met was very virile ,

He fathered my dad at age of 58 .

He ate alot of pomegranates .




I was only testing you guys to see how you s would react,


innocent
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Jun 24, 2015 2:12 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
florilove: It sounds ridiculous but it's true.
My former girlfriend (52) invents faked dating profiles of young women (around 30) again and again and sends me mails in which she expresses her interest to come in contact with me. I am 59.
How would you react in such a situation?
(I am always sending her such a reply: "Sorry but you are too old for me.")

What do you think about the reasons of such a behavior?
(I would never do this with my former girlfriend ;)

Thanks for your advices


How would I react? Very simple...not engage in email conversation and use the block button. If you know for certain this is the individual you think it is and it becomes a stalking issue, report it to site admin.

The reasons for such behavior? Your guess is as good as mine.
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Jun 24, 2015 2:32 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
Len05
Len05Len05Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium33 Threads 11 Polls 972 Posts
haha she won; you are getting paranoid.
next will be having an itch in bed.
weird she can follow you around that easily.
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Jun 24, 2015 3:14 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
florilove
florilovefloriloveKlagenfurt, Carinthia Austria1 Threads 10 Posts
Len05: haha she won; you are getting paranoid.
next will be having an itch in bed.
weird she can follow you around that easily.


not getting paranoid.
there is clear evidence that it is my ex who sends me these emails.
I asked her why she is doing such a thing - she denies everything.
i suppose it is some kind of revenge for the breakup.
some slap in the face for the failure of the relationship.
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Jun 24, 2015 3:21 PM CST Help me! My former girlfriend pursues me on dating sites
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
You both are posting threads about each other in the forum - that probably won't help peace.

It happens, several people with multiple profiles etc. Ignoring them works best.
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