tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Babettefr: tom ,, I think falling in love carries with it some small details that both man and woman would wish to improve, but it MUST not be the person itself. I think the problem lies on how open minded are we to accept the reality that certain aspects in us should be changed without going to the extent of destroying the relationship but for the common good.
Changement to become a better person is never harmful,,and we are never better until we accept that we aren't yet. how about that ?
Xian000: do you it's still possible for this time that if someone like you so much they are willing to change..
"As i know the saying that if u like someone accept them for who and what they are"
I think most of us make adjustments for our partners.
That said...
Generally, demands, ultimatums and expectations of change in our partners are about us not about them, or loving them. The first bit of loving someone is accepting them as they are.
Ocee102: I think most of us make adjustments for our partners.
That said...
Generally, demands, ultimatums and expectations of change in our partners are about us not about them, or loving them. The first bit of loving someone is accepting them as they are.
anything and everything is possible in life, the only time when it is not possible is when there are no more tomorrows.. anyone is can change but only IF THEY WANT TO CHANGE.. you cannot change someone only they can change out of their own free will.. nor can you hope and wait someone will change,, there is a point when you have to say enough is enough and move on with your life
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
savingzgrace: anything and everything is possible in life, the only time when it is not possible is when there are no more tomorrows.. anyone is can change but only IF THEY WANT TO CHANGE.. you cannot change someone only they can change out of their own free will.. nor can you hope and wait someone will change,, there is a point when you have to say enough is enough and move on with your life
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