KarloradoFL: It means they do not want to give birth to children but welcome your children if you have them from a previous marriage or girlfriend or adoption.
ali110: So many people specialty women write on their profiles in : wants kids: section , No but welcome yours What does that mean ?
I believe it is frequently lip service. People often say things just to make themselves appear to be nice, friendly, etc...This happens when someone is ill or bereaved--people say "if you need anything, ANYTHING--just call me, ANYTIME". Try it, and see where it lands you. It creates an awkward situation for everybody. Stop saying things you can't or don't want to back up. If you really don't want to be around someone elses' kids, don't say you do. If you really can't, or don't want to help out someone, stop saying you will. It's unfair. JMO
rohaan: I believe it is frequently lip service. People often say things just to make themselves appear to be nice, friendly, etc...This happens when someone is ill or bereaved--people say "if you need anything, ANYTHING--just call me, ANYTIME". Try it, and see where it lands you. It creates an awkward situation for everybody. Stop saying things you can't or don't want to back up. If you really don't want to be around someone elses' kids, don't say you do. If you really can't, or don't want to help out someone, stop saying you will. It's unfair. JMO
Hi rohaan I know about the "Anytime"/ "Anytime" thingy.
rohaan: I believe it is frequently lip service. People often say things just to make themselves appear to be nice, friendly, etc...This happens when someone is ill or bereaved--people say "if you need anything, ANYTHING--just call me, ANYTIME". Try it, and see where it lands you. It creates an awkward situation for everybody. Stop saying things you can't or don't want to back up. If you really don't want to be around someone elses' kids, don't say you do. If you really can't, or don't want to help out someone, stop saying you will. It's unfair. JMO
rohaan: I believe it is frequently lip service. People often say things just to make themselves appear to be nice, friendly, etc...This happens when someone is ill or bereaved--people say "if you need anything, ANYTHING--just call me, ANYTIME". Try it, and see where it lands you. It creates an awkward situation for everybody. Stop saying things you can't or don't want to back up. If you really don't want to be around someone elses' kids, don't say you do. If you really can't, or don't want to help out someone, stop saying you will. It's unfair. JMO
[size=6]Rohann - I'm sorry people have disappointed you in the past by not following through on their words. I absolutely say what I mean and follow through with my words and actions. I am a firm believer in always being nice and lending a helping hand whenever necessary.
I'll even go the extra mile and call the person and see how they are, and ask if they need anything, and will also call and ask if they are up for a visit and surprise them with some homemade treats.
I sincerely hope you come across some nicer people who go the extra mile and actually do what they say, and follow through with their actions.
Time means that people don't follow through with their words and actions. It is a shame that people can't back up their words and actions. It does not cost anyone anything to be a friend and nice to someone in a bad situation, whether sick or someone dying, just be the better person and follow through with your words. I know I am honest and truthful and will always call and check up on that person.
1April: Time means that people don't follow through with their words and actions. It is a shame that people can't back up their words and actions. It does not cost anyone anything to be a friend and nice to someone in a bad situation, whether sick or someone dying, just be the better person and follow through with your words. I know I am honest and truthful and will always call and check up on that person.
Very good post sensible post April , i wish if all could know and understamd that
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What does that mean ?