Sampe1967: Met a girl online who said that she just wanted to be loved. we chatted by phone for a short time before she requested a visit to my home. I agreed but after she got there, I can't explain why I wasn't finding the connection with her. I didn't force the issue. she did all I expected but the attachment wasn't found in my gut. so I didn't pretend to love her. I treated her like a regular person on the outside. after she left, I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. This time I was extremely gentle with her. I showered her with affection until she stopped me in an upset tone and said, "why are you doing this?" "doing what?" I asked. and she replied. "You're being nice and sensitive and I am not used to you like that. I want the old you back!" I was stunned. well since she left I have made several attempts to have her come back but I am still waiting
Did you sleep with her if you felt nothing for her ? If so then your playing with her emotionally and if you felt nothing for her just be honest . Straightforward best way to be . Women want love , honesty and their best friend .. Good listener :)
Sampe1967: Met a girl online who said that she just wanted to be loved. we chatted by phone for a short time before she requested a visit to my home. I agreed but after she got there, I can't explain why I wasn't finding the connection with her. I didn't force the issue. she did all I expected but the attachment wasn't found in my gut. so I didn't pretend to love her. I treated her like a regular person on the outside. after she left, I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. This time I was extremely gentle with her. I showered her with affection until she stopped me in an upset tone and said, "why are you doing this?" "doing what?" I asked. and she replied. "You're being nice and sensitive and I am not used to you like that. I want the old you back!" I was stunned. well since she left I have made several attempts to have her come back but I am still waiting
and controlling too. everything has to be his way or the way he likes it. HE HAS children but she must NO, HE HAS been married before but she must NOT have never been married. I guess he needs someone to take care of HIS children but not him take care of hers
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