Sampe1967: Met a girl online who said that she just wanted to be loved. we chatted by phone for a short time before she requested a visit to my home. I agreed but after she got there, I can't explain why I wasn't finding the connection with her. I didn't force the issue. she did all I expected but the attachment wasn't found in my gut. so I didn't pretend to love her. I treated her like a regular person on the outside. after she left, I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. This time I was extremely gentle with her. I showered her with affection until she stopped me in an upset tone and said, "why are you doing this?" "doing what?" I asked. and she replied. "You're being nice and sensitive and I am not used to you like that. I want the old you back!" I was stunned. well since she left I have made several attempts to have her come back but I am still waiting
what women really want?- no two women are necessarily exactly the same, but for very few, this:
Receptionist: "How do you write women so well?
Jack Nicholson: "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability. -from As Good As It Gets, 1997
Len05: I consider you an selfish a**hole. " I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. " Did you offer her that option. "hey babe, i don't love you, but we can make it as long as you care? It sure is easier and better for me."
Even showering her with affection because you want something in return. it is good that made her uncomfortable.
This.
You'll probably be waiting a long, long time for her to return. She saw through your pretence. Duh!
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
mollybaby: They obviously didn't
No man writes a thread like this if he did get laid.
No, she saw through his attempts to get into her pants, without being honest about his intentions, and told him where to go. End of.
Most women would prefer a simple "I don't think we are compatible enough for a relationship, but I would like to make love to you, if you would like to with me" than an obvious attempt at sugarcoating.
You may not get laid either way, but above is more honest to both people .
I think you may be right.. I think he liked her more than she liked him & that's probably why he posted this thread. Anyone who has lived or had any regular human contact with women knows what women want ..
allthegoodnamest: I think you may be right.. I think he liked her more than she liked him & that's probably why he posted this thread. Anyone who has lived or had any regular human contact with women knows what women want ..
Sampe1967: OK! now explain the part where she was good to be with when I wasn't being affectionate to her.
Jeeze, you don't understand much, do you?
She felt at ease when you weren't hitting on her. Once you changed your tune and decided she wasn't too bad, she recognised it and the red flags went up. Simples.
KremaP: You will be surprised how many men actually follow this idiotic statement...
these are the pricks that keep good women occupied.
they have no emotional involvement and think they are doing HER a favor. While they genuinely like their own benefits, but simplely don't care who is filling the gap (or occupying the D).
This guy thinks he is a catch on the market and later 'blames' the woman for shouting he is not worth the effort. Saying SHE doesn't know what SHE wants.
Well dude, what SHE wants is a million miles away from what YOU want. You just complain you lost it. and she is happily carrying on looking for better.
my breasts ? in this case i'll just admit they are whatever you want them to be. you want natural, they are. you want 'perfectly sculpted', well .. they are.
you can examine them all night and tell me afterwards what you think or remember.
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what women really want?- no two women are necessarily exactly the same, but for very few, this:
Receptionist: "How do you write women so well?
Jack Nicholson: "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability. -from As Good As It Gets, 1997
running, out of here