What do women really want? ( Archived) (210)

Jul 29, 2016 12:19 PM CST What do women really want?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
Sampe1967: Met a girl online who said that she just wanted to be loved. we chatted by phone for a short time before she requested a visit to my home. I agreed but after she got there, I can't explain why I wasn't finding the connection with her. I didn't force the issue. she did all I expected but the attachment wasn't found in my gut. so I didn't pretend to love her. I treated her like a regular person on the outside. after she left, I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. This time I was extremely gentle with her. I showered her with affection until she stopped me in an upset tone and said, "why are you doing this?" "doing what?" I asked. and she replied. "You're being nice and sensitive and I am not used to you like that. I want the old you back!" I was stunned. well since she left I have made several attempts to have her come back but I am still waiting


what women really want?- no two women are necessarily exactly the same, but for very few, this:

Receptionist: "How do you write women so well?

Jack Nicholson: "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability. -from As Good As It Gets, 1997


running, out of here laugh super
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Jul 29, 2016 12:26 PM CST What do women really want?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Len05: I consider you an selfish a**hole.
" I thought it best to have some one who loves me more than I love them so I invited her back. "
Did you offer her that option.
"hey babe, i don't love you, but we can make it as long as you care? It sure is easier and better for me."

Even showering her with affection because you want something in return.
it is good that made her uncomfortable.


This.

You'll probably be waiting a long, long time for her to return. She saw through your pretence. Duh!

doh
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Jul 29, 2016 12:29 PM CST What do women really want?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
mollybaby: They obviously didn't

No man writes a thread like this if he did get laid.

No, she saw through his attempts to get into her pants, without being honest about his intentions, and told him where to go. End of.

Most women would prefer a simple "I don't think we are compatible enough for a relationship, but I would like to make love to you, if you would like to with me" than an obvious attempt at sugarcoating.

You may not get laid either way, but above is more honest to both people .


I think you may be right..
I think he liked her more than she liked him & that's probably why he posted this thread.thumbs up
Anyone who has lived or had any regular human contact with women knows what women want .. professor wave
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Jul 29, 2016 12:33 PM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
unlaoised: This.

You'll probably be waiting a long, long time for her to return. She saw through your pretence. Duh!
OK! now explain the part where she was good to be with when I wasn't being affectionate to her.
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Jul 29, 2016 12:34 PM CST What do women really want?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
allthegoodnamest: I think you may be right..
I think he liked her more than she liked him & that's probably why he posted this thread.
Anyone who has lived or had any regular human contact with women knows what women want ..


And that is? wow

writing writing writing writing writing writing writing writing writing writing



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Jul 29, 2016 12:40 PM CST What do women really want?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
mollybaby: And that is?


Security, love, companionship, independence , good looks, loyalty.... And the rest I'm about to find out tonight..wink I hope.
dunno laugh
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Jul 29, 2016 12:40 PM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
mollybaby: And that is?
yeah! I wanna hear this
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Jul 29, 2016 12:43 PM CST What do women really want?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Security, love, companionship, independence , good looks, loyalty.... And the rest I'm about to find out tonight.. I hope.


You forgot a necessary one


Honesty
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Jul 29, 2016 12:44 PM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Security, love, companionship, independence , good looks, loyalty.... And the rest I'm about to find out tonight.. I hope.
wake up pal. I offered these to many except the luxury and it failed.
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Jul 29, 2016 12:46 PM CST What do women really want?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
mollybaby: You forgot a necessary oneHonesty
you're right that they asked for it and I will always be giving that but it is the biggest reason for my being alone this long.
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Jul 29, 2016 12:49 PM CST What do women really want?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Sampe1967: you're right that they asked for it and I will always be giving that but it is the biggest reason for my being alone this long.


But you didn't give that.

You tried to camouflage your lack of feelings for her by outward gestures.

That is not honesty
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Jul 29, 2016 12:53 PM CST What do women really want?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Sampe1967: OK! now explain the part where she was good to be with when I wasn't being affectionate to her.


Jeeze, you don't understand much, do you?

She felt at ease when you weren't hitting on her. Once you changed your tune and decided she wasn't too bad, she recognised it and the red flags went up. Simples.
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Jul 29, 2016 12:56 PM CST What do women really want?
allthegoodnamest: Security, love, companionship, independence , good looks, loyalty.... And the rest I'm about to find out tonight.. I hope.
glad you brought that mirror....my budgie loves he,s.....sad flower sad flower gift pointing bird seed.handshake rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 29, 2016 1:02 PM CST What do women really want?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
Len05: WTF i don't wear make up. I have natural long eyelashes.
and thanks for complementing my breasts




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 29, 2016 1:04 PM CST What do women really want?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Len05: WTF i don't wear make up. I have natural long eyelashes.
and thanks for complementing my breasts


But are they natural? professor
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Jul 29, 2016 1:07 PM CST What do women really want?
Len05
Len05Len05Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium33 Threads 11 Polls 972 Posts
KremaP: You will be surprised how many men actually follow this idiotic statement...


these are the pricks that keep good women occupied.

they have no emotional involvement and think they are doing HER a favor.
While they genuinely like their own benefits, but simplely don't care who is filling the gap (or occupying the D).

This guy thinks he is a catch on the market and later 'blames' the woman for shouting he is not worth the effort.
Saying SHE doesn't know what SHE wants.

Well dude, what SHE wants is a million miles away from what YOU want.
You just complain you lost it. and she is happily carrying on looking for better.

(i feel me a bit jeremy Kyle here)
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Jul 29, 2016 1:10 PM CST What do women really want?
Len05
Len05Len05Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium33 Threads 11 Polls 972 Posts
mollybaby: But are they natural?

my breasts ?
in this case i'll just admit they are whatever you want them to be.
you want natural, they are.
you want 'perfectly sculpted', well .. they are.

you can examine them all night and tell me afterwards what you think or remember.
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Jul 29, 2016 1:19 PM CST What do women really want?
This is better than one of AlltheGoodNames threads laugh

popcorn
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Jul 29, 2016 1:22 PM CST What do women really want?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Aragorn11: This is better than one of AlltheGoodNames threads



Car crash TV?

Pass the popcorn please
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Jul 29, 2016 1:26 PM CST What do women really want?
mollybaby: Car crash TV?

Pass the popcorn please


Here ya go, but there's no room on my bench for participants, just interested onlookers popcorn

popcorn
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