Who takes the initiatives,corresponding first,after reading a profile.??? (23)
Cachuchi: I´ve been ignored so many times, I find that very "stupid" ..it´s a matter of manners, I think it is very dissapointed to do no reply, my profile is closed right now but before that I replied every single message I received which had more than a "Hi" or it was not from a scammer.
One Japanese friend of mine says that it's better to ignore someone you don't like than to send a message where you more or less obviously decline them. He says it makes less harm, because if they see your reply in their inbox, they will be happy - just to get disappointed a moment later when they realize you just wrote to say 'no'. It does make some sense...
I also replied to everyone before, even with just one sentence, but I stopped doing it when the age difference is really too big or the profile is obviously fake or the message is just one short sentence, like: 'Hi, how are you?'.
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Maya74: One Japanese friend of mine says that it's better to ignore someone you don't like than to send a message where you more or less obviously decline them. He says it makes less harm, because if they see your reply in their inbox, they will be happy - just to get disappointed a moment later when they realize you just wrote to say 'no'. It does make some sense...
I also replied to everyone before, even with just one sentence, but I stopped doing it when the age difference is really too big or the profile is obviously fake or the message is just one short sentence, like: 'Hi, how are you?'.
I also replied to everyone before, even with just one sentence, but I stopped doing it when the age difference is really too big or the profile is obviously fake or the message is just one short sentence, like: 'Hi, how are you?'.
It makes absolute sense Maya, nice people Japaneses the thing is ..."do I really care if they get hurt for not being able to handle a correct and honest answer from a question they asked and not me?" No.
Understanding is very important for me, I believe in communication, not need to be rude but as much honest as possible....fair rules in my games. Live & learn.
I still receive some messages now but I do not reply any of them, I wrote very clear in my profile that I won´t so I do not see why if anyone wants to be risky and give himself a try I should reply to them....
I said I´ll open and delete all messages and that´s exactly what I do....simple
My game=my rules
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It would seem you're quite particular when it comes to women. Keep playing hard to get.