Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: Hope dies last... We damn need something to believe in...
Krem, I've been looking since 1992, well at first not really seriously, but now I am, and my eyes r wide open too, so I first believe the person has possibilities, then find out that I'm dreaming, and attributing all sorts of impossibilities, to this said person, so it's all just a dream, that will never come true, wake-up call.....
aries1234: AS you know i had a three year, online relationship, the strain was too much for her, she thourgt i was cheating and dumped me.
Ah well such is life.
Trust is an essential part of a long distance relationship Tom... I've been in almost 3 year LDR myself, and my trust was betrayed... But we were meeting every few months...for longer time not just few days... I woke up one morning to a text message sent by his new girlfriend...asking me who I was...text sent from his phone... He said nothing at all, blanked me like nothing ever was between us... Ah, I can't lose hope just because of this unfortunate event... May be I am stupid...
pKrema: Trust is an essential part of a long distance relationship Tom... I've been in almost 3 year LDR myself, and my trust was betrayed... But we were meeting every few months...for longer time not just few days... I woke up one morning to a text message sent by his new girlfriend...asking me who I was...text sent from his phone... He said nothing at all, blanked me like nothing ever was between us... Ah, I can't lose hope just because of this unfortunate event... May be I am stupid...
No your not, i didn't cheat i was faithful to my mental image of her, and wouldnt have hurt her, then i was hospitalised, and did,t contact har for a wihile, shr didn't give me a chance to explain. I was ready to travel to her , when i came out of hospital, I miss her but i'm not going to die of her, i still keep searching for that feeling of empathy with someone, but this time it's on the plaine and to her. . No your not stupid just human like the rest of us, and one of the bettr ones.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
aries1234: No your not, i didn't cheat i was faithful to my mental image of her, and wouldnt have hurt her, then i was hospitalised, and did,t contact har for a wihile, shr didn't give me a chance to explain. I was ready to travel to her , when i came out of hospital, I miss her but i'm not going to die of her, i still keep searching for that feeling of empathy with someone, but this time it's on the plaine and to her. . No your not stupid just human like the rest of us, and one of the bettr ones.
aries1234: No your not, i didn't cheat i was faithful to my mental image of her, and wouldnt have hurt her, then i was hospitalised, and did,t contact har for a wihile, shr didn't give me a chance to explain. I was ready to travel to her , when i came out of hospital, I miss her but i'm not going to die of her, i still keep searching for that feeling of empathy with someone, but this time it's on the plaine and to her. . No your not stupid just human like the rest of us, and one of the bettr ones.
Communication and patience are the other very, very important ingredients... But you are right, meet as soon as possible, that's the only way... If one fears the distance, they should make that clear from the start... Before someone gets hurt... Hope you find that special person Tom
I'm not looking but I've always believed that if there's someone out there and if they really want to be in your life they will be if not then it wasn't meant to be.JMO
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: I'm not looking but I've always believed that if there's someone out there and if they really want to be in your life they will be if not then it wasn't meant to be.JMO
I've never experienced any love, except mother and sons, and the animal.
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