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Sep 27, 2018 5:57 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
After going down through the communist party USA thread, I was thinking, 'how long till it goes off topic'...it didn't take long before the mud slinging and calling foul...
Interesting sub topic, 'use yer own forum' 'don't be spouting yer own parish politics'...in my earlier CS incarnation, Irish didn't jump the inters, Irish did Irish, people visited IF, it was mental, you couldn't keep up with the speed of thought, and now, its' nuffin but a ghost town'...in the words of Fred Willard "wha 'append"...
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Sep 27, 2018 6:36 AM CST Shall we go home?...
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: After going down through the communist party USA thread, I was thinking, 'how long till it goes off topic'...it didn't take long before the mud slinging and calling foul...
Interesting sub topic, 'use yer own forum' 'don't be spouting yer own parish politics'...in my earlier CS incarnation, Irish didn't jump the inters, Irish did Irish, people visited IF, it was mental, you couldn't keep up with the speed of thought, and now, its' nuffin but a ghost town'...in the words of Fred Willard "wha 'append"...
You are quite right, it always happens, a little diversion, is acceptable, then back on track.
But that's not what happens, and as you clearly said, the mud slinging and name calling starts.
Its unfair on those who want a good discussion.

Personally i don'r read the copy &paste long winded posts
I do like a good fun and informative one though.

People should leave personal stuff out of it when it comes to arguing, but
one will start and so it goes on.

I have decided since last night that i am going to ignore the negative,, life is too short
to let anyone invade my peaceful space!
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Sep 27, 2018 6:59 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
annaroach: You are quite right, it always happens, a little diversion, is acceptable, then back on track.
But that's not what happens, and as you clearly said, the mud slinging and name calling starts.
Its unfair on those who want a good discussion.

Personally i don'r read the copy &paste long winded posts
I do like a good fun and informative one though.

People should leave personal stuff out of it when it comes to arguing, but
one will start and so it goes on.

I have decided since last night that i am going to ignore the negative,, life is too short
to let anyone invade my peaceful space!
I think we might be of the same mind Anna... I'm not putting myself up as saintly, but I enter a topic not my own creating in a spirit of discussion, since that's what the OP had planned, notwithstanding the inane guff that some people put up and of course the abrasive subjects calculated to cause descent among those just spoiling for a bit of brinkmanship, which I avoid through either lack of interest or lack of an informed opinion...
I wonder if those of us who post in the inters could rejuvenate the IF and bring it back to former glory....we used to talk the hind legs off donkeys...
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Sep 27, 2018 7:51 AM CST Shall we go home?...
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: I think we might be of the same mind Anna... I'm not putting myself up as saintly, but I enter a topic not my own creating in a spirit of discussion, since that's what the OP had planned, notwithstanding the inane guff that some people put up and of course the abrasive subjects calculated to cause descent among those just spoiling for a bit of brinkmanship, which I avoid through either lack of interest or lack of an informed opinion...
I wonder if those of us who post in the inters could rejuvenate the IF and bring it back to former glory....we used to talk the hind legs off donkeys...
Just been out in the garden,, so peaceful !

I go on the IF occasionally, and lately i have seen a bit of movement on there,
so you never know how that might work out.

Too much aggro on the Inter, forums,, insults being the order of the day, most days.

Don't get me wrong, there are some very nice people on there, its just the few
that seem to have a self distruct button that they press daily.peace
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Sep 27, 2018 8:49 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: I think we might be of the same mind Anna... I'm not putting myself up as saintly, but I enter a topic not my own creating in a spirit of discussion, since that's what the OP had planned, notwithstanding the inane guff that some people put up and of course the abrasive subjects calculated to cause descent among those just spoiling for a bit of brinkmanship, which I avoid through either lack of interest or lack of an informed opinion...
I wonder if those of us who post in the inters could rejuvenate the IF and bring it back to former glory....we used to talk the hind legs off donkeys...
See ,you and many others , when creating a thread or purely as a participant in one , prefer uniformity but ,since we`re not pringles from the box and most are out of elementary school...so some prefer the freedom of expressing our thought
I know, you`re gonna say,`` Hey if you have nothing constructive to say on the given topic stay the hell away from it ``
But there's the other side -If you cant deal with opinions, no matter how irrelevant they are from the subject ... well if you cant stand the heat, get out of the kitchen
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Sep 27, 2018 8:51 AM CST Shall we go home?...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Limun: See ,you and many others , when creating a thread or purely as a participant in one , prefer uniformity but ,since we`re not pringles from the box and most are out of elementary school...so some prefer the freedom of expressing our thought
I know, you`re gonna say,`` Hey if you have nothing constructive to say on the given topic stay the hell away from it ``
But there's the other side -If you cant deal with opinions, no matter how irrelevant they are from the subject ... well if you cant stand the heat, get out of the kitchen
Lim, I would miss your opinions, wit, and pure devilment...so I'm not moving snooty
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Sep 27, 2018 9:06 AM CST Shall we go home?...
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
Limun: See ,you and many others , when creating a thread or purely as a participant in one , prefer uniformity but ,since we`re not pringles from the box and most are out of elementary school...so some prefer the freedom of expressing our thought
I know, you`re gonna say,`` Hey if you have nothing constructive to say on the given topic stay the hell away from it ``
But there's the other side -If you cant deal with opinions, no matter how irrelevant they are from the subject ... well if you cant stand the heat, get out of the kitchen


Thankfully I’m not in the kitchen always being such a terrible + horrible + miserable cook grin
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Sep 27, 2018 9:08 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
mollybaby: Lim, I would miss your opinions, wit, and pure devilment...so I'm not moving
just imagine a world where all people had the same mood and the same opinion ,more or less the same interests and education uh oh
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Sep 27, 2018 9:25 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
Limun: See ,you and many others , when creating a thread or purely as a participant in one , prefer uniformity but ,since we`re not pringles from the box and most are out of elementary school...so some prefer the freedom of expressing our thought
I know, you`re gonna say,`` Hey if you have nothing constructive to say on the given topic stay the hell away from it ``
But there's the other side -If you cant deal with opinions, no matter how irrelevant they are from the subject ... well if you cant stand the heat, get out of the kitchen
You don't know me, we have never spoken, you've no idea what I'm going to say...but you're right about one thing, if the subject/topic is better served by uniformity, then that's what I offer up, whether participant or OP...
Consider any discussion or debate in the real world, and whether it would pass muster if people just started spouting things completely off subject, there is a call to order... I'm not suggesting an internet police state for being staid and predictable, I am suggesting courtesy in a public forum, the likes of which you would hope to find in your daily dealings with others...
So far as getting out the kitchen is concerned, I'll stick around for the while, cover myself in goose fat and baste till golden brown....
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Sep 27, 2018 9:52 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
MiMiArt: Thankfully I’m not in the kitchen always being such a terrible + horrible + miserable cook
Im sure Art enjoys seeing you in just an short apron tho laugh
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Sep 27, 2018 10:06 AM CST Shall we go home?...
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
Limun: Im sure Art enjoys seeing you in just an short apron tho
Ewwwwwww!!! MiMi got short and stubby snooker-table legs!!! help barf
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Sep 27, 2018 10:10 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Quite so often the topic is covered in the first few comments. It's not like a symposium of few thousand specialists in the same line of science who can discuss their subjects ad infinitum every time from a different angle. Our private, rather uninformed and seldom original opinion is all we can offer. Would you prefer people repeat the very same thing time and again or live the thread or continue to interact with each other ignoring the topic?

We are here for social reasons first, ne?
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Sep 27, 2018 10:33 AM CST Shall we go home?...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
annaroach:

I have decided since last night that i am going to ignore the negative,, life is too short
to let anyone invade my peaceful space!
""Your peaceful space"" will be invaded however you like it or not.
You addressing a public forum,not personal friends.
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Sep 27, 2018 10:34 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
Tulefell: Quite so often the topic is covered in the first few comments. It's not like a symposium of few thousand specialists in the same line of science who can discuss their subjects ad infinitum every time from a different angle. Our private, rather uninformed and seldom original opinion is all we can offer. Would you prefer people repeat the very same thing time and again or live the thread or continue to interact with each other ignoring the topic?

We are here for social reasons first, ne?
Isn't conversation socialization?...
In Ireland we have Boards.IE, it's a discussion group, open to all to view, but you would subscribe to comment, there is also Bock the Robber, another group fronted by one very well read and strict founder / moderator...
This is an international group, with thousands of members looking in, and I'm sure, we'd get more participation if the subjects of substance were allowed to be just that... There's more room than enough for light hearted banter, word games, say what your thinking, what are you eating now etc etc...
I know there's a small pool of respondents, what, about 30 or so regulars, but it wasn't ever thus... I came here in 2011 and have been and gone a couple of times, the conversations I've had have been many and varied, and have been irreverent to full out war, and it was brilliant....
Maybe it was a thing of its time, but really, with all the options available, isn't a difference of approach something to grateful for, or am I that out of touch with things....
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Sep 27, 2018 10:38 AM CST Shall we go home?...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: Yep, fair comments there...
We do what we do, but I'm up for an experiment....
"In the fullness of time, all will be revealed " - Todd Rundgren...
Any compensation to your experiment????

laugh
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Sep 27, 2018 10:43 AM CST Shall we go home?...
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
chris27292729: ""Your peaceful space"" will be invaded however you like it or not.
You addressing a public forum,not personal friends.
My peaceful space, won't be invaded if i don't want it to be,
Which basically means, i won't let man woman or child (in some cases)
Upset me , which is within my control,,,,,,,, dear Chris!!peace hug
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Sep 27, 2018 10:50 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence:
Maybe it was a thing of its time, but really, with all the options available, isn't a difference of approach something to grateful for, or am I that out of touch with things....
Quite possible. Many switched from stationary machines with a proper keyboard to smaller devices and there's only so many words you can type with one finger, as I'm doing now. Requires a lot of patience. I have an experience of a forum that died when significant number of participants acquired smartphones.

Technical progress :)
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Sep 27, 2018 10:59 AM CST Shall we go home?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
I also used to keep to EU forum, but some time ago there appeared a rat, who snitches people to mods. Spoilt the place for me. Before we never reported anything.

Then for a forum to live you need quite a few intelligent and engaged participants. There are some, but perhaps not enough to satisfy your idea of glory :)
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Sep 27, 2018 11:01 AM CST Shall we go home?...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
annaroach: My peaceful space, won't be invaded if i don't want it to be,
Which basically means, i won't let man woman or child (in some cases)
Upset me , which is within my control,,,,,,,, dear Chris!!
You might be under attack in this forum,and you might be forced to reply.
Sometimes we regret,not able to control ourselves,especially on a public forum.
In other words is easier to control oneself on a "face to face" approach
than in a public forum.-
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Sep 27, 2018 11:08 AM CST Shall we go home?...
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
chris27292729: You might be under attack in this forum,and you might be forced to reply.
Sometimes we regret,not able to control ourselves,especially on a public forum.
In other words is easier to control oneself on a "face to face" approach
than in a public forum.-
No Chris i won't be forced to reply at all,
If i don't want aggro, in my life, then i will just ignore anyone looking for it
Otherwise it is an ongoing insult fest who needs it !!
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