Would you tell her/him the truth? (66)
ysabeljhen: If a friend of youurs told you why she/he is still single and I
you think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you
If she is my friend she must be likeable, so other people should like her as well, would carry on as we always do, ok budzyou think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you
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No . I mind my own business
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aries1234: If she is my friend she must be likeable, so other people should like her as well, would carry on as we always do, ok budz
okay budz
gotcha .What if I would say "Why am I single buddy?" but u knew I have bad personality.How would you respond ?
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Hope_1969: No . I mind my own business
Hope I love having hope in lifegets me going
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ysabeljhen: If a friend of youurs told you why she/he is still single and I
you think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you
Anybody's who's personality is right enough to know what's wrong with it is worth having a word with. You are only lost if you are not aware of yourself.you think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you
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My besty and I talk very frankly and I might point out when I see her doing things out of fear etc...she has a very good personality but she has low self esteem.....no I would not say that....she has her own lessons to learn and its not up to me to learn those for her....however I am always there to listen and support her.....besides what am I the personality police now?.....
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ysabeljhen: If a friend of youurs told you why she/he is still single and I
you think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you
They cannot or are not going to change their personality, so what is the point in telling them you believe that is the reason. you think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you
There are personalities I may find repulsive, but people of similar beliefs or personalities may find a common bond with them, and even find them attractive.
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ChesneyChrist: Anybody's who's personality is right enough to know what's wrong with it is worth having a word with. You are only lost if you are not aware of yourself.
Gotcha Chesney but there is question mark from the topic.
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mollybaby: They cannot or are not going to change their personality, so what is the point in telling them you believe that is the reason.
There are personalities I may find repulsive, but people of similar beliefs or personalities may find a common bond with them, and even find them attractive.
hey Molly There are personalities I may find repulsive, but people of similar beliefs or personalities may find a common bond with them, and even find them attractive.
but having said that you have the bond together what if she/he looks depressed and ask you "Molly why am I still single?" knowing that she/he has personality problem?------ This thread is Archived ------
M4_Mischief: My besty and I talk very frankly and I might point out when I see her doing things out of fear etc...she has a very good personality but she has low self esteem.....no I would not say that....she has her own lessons to learn and its not up to me to learn those for her....however I am always there to listen and support her.....besides what am I the personality police now?.....
M4 u seem a good friend.keep it up policewoman ------ This thread is Archived ------
ysabeljhen: hey Molly but having said that you have the bond together what if she/he looks depressed and ask you "Molly why am I still single?" knowing that she/he has personality problem?
You ask them why do they think they are. Often it is changeable things like attitude, weight, etc.
People know the answers themselves. It is then up to them to change what they can, if they are willing to.
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ysabeljhen: okay budz gotcha .What if I would say "Why am I single buddy?" but u knew I have bad personality.
How would you respond ?
I'd give you a big hug and kiss ?? How would you respond ?
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mollybaby: You ask them why do they think they are.
Often it is changeable things like attitude, weight, etc.
People know the answers themselves. It is then up to them to change what they can, if they are willing to.
okay but how will they change if they themselves asked you whyOften it is changeable things like attitude, weight, etc.
People know the answers themselves. It is then up to them to change what they can, if they are willing to.
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aries1234: I'd give you a big hug and kiss ??
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ysabeljhen: okay but how will they change if they themselves asked you why
I said, turn the question back on them. They already know the answers.
If they then ask for your help and support in changing what they can change, that is where you can be a friend.
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mollybaby: I said, turn the question back on them.
They already know the answers.
If they then ask for your help and support in changing what they can change, that is where you can be a friend.
Just like telling them "u answer your question with question..."They already know the answers.
If they then ask for your help and support in changing what they can change, that is where you can be a friend.
Ok now I know ur called Dr. Molly
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ysabeljhen: If a friend of youurs told you why she/he is still single and I
you think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you
Depends, would I like to keep her as a friend or get rid of heryou think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you
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Limun: Depends, would I like to keep her as a friend or get rid of her
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ysabeljhen: Limun ....it takes time for you to know him/her then .Wanted: Real friends
Lim is correct though.If a person doesn't like the answer you give, and they won't, they wil resent you for giving it, even though they asked.
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you think her personality is the reason. Should you tell her /him this?
How would be your approach?
warning: No Personal Attacking.Thank you