The Gift Or Power Of Charisma (99)

Mar 18, 2019 11:28 AM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
Charisma is a special power that some people have naturally that makes them able to influence people and attract their attention and admiration.

Many Charismatic people are popular and beloved: they are full of charm and magnetism.
Being charismatic is the opposite of being boring or dull. Often, the term is applied to people in politics, or to religious leaders, but there are charismatic people everywhere.


False Abusee

A person falsely claims – or highly exaggerates - that they are the victim of abuse (physical or verbal) as a way of gaining attention to themselves, being talked about and others feeling sorry for them as a means of perpetuating their story.

The internet is a true paradise for them where they can gain a large audience for their “poor me” story and, at the same time, keep their anonymity.


Manipulator

May exploit family, workplace or social relationships, manipulating others with guilt and distorting perceptions.

Vulnerable and gullible people are their common targets.

A common attention-seeking ploy is to claim he or she is being persecuted, victimised etc. In other words they use “emotional blackmail” as a tool for their own end.


The Need for Attention

Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, positive feedback and validation of their worth.

Some people need excessive attention – positive or negative - “Bad intention is better than NO attention!” – so they may sometimes behave outrageously to get it.
This could be due to lowered self-esteem, a lack of self-confidence, low levels of self-worth or self-love or feeling insecure.


"Internet Trolling" is a good example of persistent, abnormal behaviour.

This is the often anonymous use of forums to post irrelevant, disruptive, insulting or abusive messages, designed to infuriate or upset members, leading to replies, counter criticism, and arguments and taking the forum way off topic.

The troll gets a "kick" from moving others to spend their time and emotional energy on him or her, and even on each other.

The best way to deal with this behaviour is:
Do not respond, do not engage and do not take the bait, thus deny the person the attention they seek.


Discuss to your heart´s content. conversing teddybear
Mar 18, 2019 11:32 AM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
daniela777: Charisma is a special power that some people have naturally that makes them able to influence people and attract their attention and admiration.

Many Charismatic people are popular and beloved: they are full of charm and magnetism.
Being charismatic is the opposite of being boring or dull. Often, the term is applied to people in politics, or to religious leaders, but there are charismatic people everywhere.


False Abusee

A person falsely claims – or highly exaggerates - that they are the victim of abuse (physical or verbal) as a way of gaining attention to themselves, being talked about and others feeling sorry for them as a means of perpetuating their story.

The internet is a true paradise for them where they can gain a large audience for their “poor me” story and, at the same time, keep their anonymity.


Manipulator

May exploit family, workplace or social relationships, manipulating others with guilt and distorting perceptions.

Vulnerable and gullible people are their common targets.

A common attention-seeking ploy is to claim he or she is being persecuted, victimised etc. In other words they use “emotional blackmail” as a tool for their own end.


The Need for Attention

Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, positive feedback and validation of their worth.

Some people need excessive attention – positive or negative - “Bad intention is better than NO attention!” – so they may sometimes behave outrageously to get it.
This could be due to lowered self-esteem, a lack of self-confidence, low levels of self-worth or self-love or feeling insecure.


"Internet Trolling" is a good example of persistent, abnormal behaviour.

This is the often anonymous use of forums to post irrelevant, disruptive, insulting or abusive messages, designed to infuriate or upset members, leading to replies, counter criticism, and arguments and taking the forum way off topic.

The troll gets a "kick" from moving others to spend their time and emotional energy on him or her, and even on each other.

The best way to deal with this behaviour is:
Do not respond, do not engage and do not take the bait, thus deny the person the attention they seek.


Discuss to your heart´s content.
Have you written this just to get attention?boxing
Mar 18, 2019 11:43 AM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
Bnaughty: Have you written this just to get attention?
Maybe? In fact this was one of my older blogs. wink
Mar 18, 2019 11:54 AM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
daniela777: Charisma is a special power that some people have naturally that makes them able to influence people and attract their attention and admiration.

Many Charismatic people are popular and beloved: they are full of charm and magnetism.
Being charismatic is the opposite of being boring or dull. Often, the term is applied to people in politics, or to religious leaders, but there are charismatic people everywhere.


False Abusee

A person falsely claims – or highly exaggerates - that they are the victim of abuse (physical or verbal) as a way of gaining attention to themselves, being talked about and others feeling sorry for them as a means of perpetuating their story.

The internet is a true paradise for them where they can gain a large audience for their “poor me” story and, at the same time, keep their anonymity.


Manipulator

May exploit family, workplace or social relationships, manipulating others with guilt and distorting perceptions.

Vulnerable and gullible people are their common targets.

A common attention-seeking ploy is to claim he or she is being persecuted, victimised etc. In other words they use “emotional blackmail” as a tool for their own end.


The Need for Attention

Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, positive feedback and validation of their worth.

Some people need excessive attention – positive or negative - “Bad intention is better than NO attention!” – so they may sometimes behave outrageously to get it.
This could be due to lowered self-esteem, a lack of self-confidence, low levels of self-worth or self-love or feeling insecure.


"Internet Trolling" is a good example of persistent, abnormal behaviour.

This is the often anonymous use of forums to post irrelevant, disruptive, insulting or abusive messages, designed to infuriate or upset members, leading to replies, counter criticism, and arguments and taking the forum way off topic.

The troll gets a "kick" from moving others to spend their time and emotional energy on him or her, and even on each other.

The best way to deal with this behaviour is:
Do not respond, do not engage and do not take the bait, thus deny the person the attention they seek.


Discuss to your heart´s content.
ok Dani, i take the baitlaugh laugh laugh hug teddybear
Mar 18, 2019 1:13 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
aries1234: ok Dani, i take the bait
Was the bait a big p*nis?
Mar 18, 2019 1:15 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
aries1234: ok Dani, i take the bait
I

Meaning ? wink
Mar 18, 2019 1:16 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
Bnaughty: Was the bait a big p*nis?
scold
Mar 18, 2019 1:17 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
Bnaughty: Was the bait a big p*nis?
Stop salivating Bngrin
Mar 18, 2019 1:19 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
daniela777: I

Meaning ?
I was just waiting for some good old fashioned female molestationgrin
Mar 18, 2019 1:24 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
aries1234: Stop salivating Bn
May be he should go and have some pig on Pedro's thread?dunno
Mar 18, 2019 1:25 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
aries1234: I was just waiting for some good old fashioned female molestation
Well...don't hold your breath!!

Are you sure you're in the right place for this?dunno
Mar 18, 2019 1:29 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
daniela777: Well...don't hold your breath!!

Are you sure you're in the right place for this?
Oh sorry i thought i was on Smeley's threadrolling on the floor laughing
Mar 18, 2019 1:35 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
aries1234: Oh sorry i thought i was on Smeley's thread
Charisma is not a Gift, but a manipulation tool!!!!!
Mar 18, 2019 1:38 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
smiley963: Charisma is not a Gift, but a manipulation tool!!!!!
Will you stop following me around like a love sick schoolgirl
blues
Mar 18, 2019 1:39 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
aries1234: Will you stop following me around like a love sick schoolgirl
LOL LOL LOL...You have your moments LOL!!!!!
Mar 18, 2019 1:43 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
smiley963: LOL LOL LOL...You have your moments LOL!!!!!
Jaysus i can't shake her off my legblushing
Mar 18, 2019 1:45 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
smiley963: Charisma is not a Gift, but a manipulation tool!!!!!
It is a power, used to negatively influence, pretending it's positive!!!!!
Mar 18, 2019 1:49 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
smiley963: Charisma is not a Gift, but a manipulation tool!!!!!
Yes..in a way it is!

Only some people misuse it!
Mar 18, 2019 1:49 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
daniela777: May be he should go and have some pig on Pedro's thread?
Excuse you?
Mar 18, 2019 1:51 PM CST The Gift Or Power Of Charisma
daniela777: Yes..in a way it is!

Only some people misuse it!
Come on Daniela:
Everybody with Charisma capitalize on it, 500% and more!!!!
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