my advice might be good for me but its not always good for someone else and I keep that in mind by just giving food for thought rather than having expectations of anyone choosing to follow it....
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: my advice might be good for me but its not always good for someone else and I keep that in mind by just giving food for thought rather than having expectations of anyone choosing to follow it....
My advice I give freely, and it's always been said that it is correct...I'm Not bragging...It's just a fact...or the people I give the advice to...think so...
I've always thought completely out of the box...no restrictions what-so-ever...nothing holding you back...just open mind...
what it boils down to for me is allowing the person to be who they are and to choose what works for them even it differs from me or my point of view...we all have lessons to learn and sometimes we have to go through the situation in order to learn from it...so while it may be apparent to us because we may have already learned it....someone else may be still in lesson mode and I choose to respect that....
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: what it boils down to for me is allowing the person to be who they are and to choose what works for them even it differs from me or my point of view...we all have lessons to learn and sometimes we have to go through the situation in order to learn from it...so while it may be apparent to us because we may have already learned it....someone else may be still in lesson mode and I choose to respect that....
I think we all learn, subconsciously all the time, consciously too...You just need an enquiring mind...
its all necessary it just doesn't seem like it at the time....I just had a conversation last night with my besty about a situation she's in and I asked her since the dynamics are being repeated although with a different person...is there anything in that situation that you still need to learn?....
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
M4_Mischief: its all necessary it just doesn't seem like it at the time....I just had a conversation last night with my besty about a situation she's in and I asked her since the dynamics are being repeated although with a different person...is there anything in that situation that you still need to learn?....
Has she also got abilities...as they are very sparsely allocated...
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You are always right...
Do you feel:
a better person,
full of yourself
Makes no difference