I’ve had a date for a couple of years ago, we drunk a couple of glasses of red and talked for a couple of hours. The man was (perhaps still is) a good conversationalist, nothing controversial, nothing disturbing, no sharp edges and … nothing to remember or look forward to.
We agreed to go paddle together, he failed to show (due to excess alcohol consumption a day before that, my guess) and I found myself feeling a relief. I do prefer paddle alone.
We never met again: I said no to all his suggestions. But nonetheless, he took upon himself to make hints in his comments on FB as if he knows more about me, than he really does, as if we are a couple and meet regularly. I seldom react on his comments. I take my time to answer his private messages, if I do it at all. I never return his calls.
Isn’t that obvious that I am not interested in him? What signs of rejection do men understand?
I’ve had a date for a couple of years ago, we drunk a couple of glasses of red and talked for a couple of hours. The man was (perhaps still is) a good conversationalist, nothing controversial, nothing disturbing, no sharp edges and … nothing to remember or look forward to.
We agreed to go paddle together, he failed to show (due to excess alcohol consumption a day before that, my guess) and I found myself feeling a relief. I do prefer paddle alone.
We never met again: I said no to all his suggestions. But nonetheless, he took upon himself to make hints in his comments on FB as if he knows more about me, than he really does, as if we are a couple and meet regularly. I seldom react on his comments. I take my time to answer his private messages, if I do it at all. I never return his calls.
Isn’t that obvious that I am not interested in him? What signs of rejection do men understand?
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I’ve had a date for a couple of years ago, we drunk a couple of glasses of red and talked for a couple of hours. The man was (perhaps still is) a good conversationalist, nothing controversial, nothing disturbing, no sharp edges and … nothing to remember or look forward to.
We agreed to go paddle together, he failed to show (due to excess alcohol consumption a day before that, my guess) and I found myself feeling a relief. I do prefer paddle alone.
We never met again: I said no to all his suggestions. But nonetheless, he took upon himself to make hints in his comments on FB as if he knows more about me, than he really does, as if we are a couple and meet regularly. I seldom react on his comments. I take my time to answer his private messages, if I do it at all. I never return his calls.
Isn’t that obvious that I am not interested in him? What signs of rejection do men understand?