Mind over body - the DNA of love. ( Archived) (46)

Jan 24, 2020 9:22 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
Selenite: For me emtional intelligence and kindness have become super important. Academic intelligence and knowledge that have not been processed into human significance are of no interest to me. Reference material can be found all over the net, I don't need 'a walking dictionnary, thesaurus or reference book' to hug and share my life with.
And then there's the eyes and the story they tell...
And then there's the sense of humour and how life's little frustrations are handled...
And then there's do we have similar lifestyles and are they compatible ...
And then there's enjoying one another's company...
And then there's that spark ...
And then physically, the one thing I find difficult to imagine myself with is a man who is physically flabby... how could he dance flamenco or tango with me if he's flabby?
I prefer the wiry look to the chubby boyish look. But what I like most is an attractive mind and personality
Wow, that's a tall order! My list is virtually identical, but at my age I think I will be forced to make major compromises. Of course, there is always the old tried-and-tested option - stay single. laugh
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Jan 24, 2020 9:27 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Wow, that's a tall order! My list is virtually identical, but at my age I think I will be forced to make major compromises. Of course, there is always the old tried-and-tested option - stay single.
I'm single doh laugh laugh
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Jan 24, 2020 9:30 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
Selenite: I'm single
Well, yes. And comfortably so I'm sure. thumbs up
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Jan 24, 2020 9:38 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Well, yes. And comfortably so I'm sure.
Yeah! My own company is way more pleasant than the company of someone I've had to 'dumb myself down' in order to 'not offend' ...as in I'd rather be with myself than with someone who thinks I'm too this and too that blah blah ....laugh rolling on the floor laughing
On the other hand, I m ready to meet someone. Someone who already is who he is and of course can see I already am who I am
He's out there... we shall meet... cool
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Jan 24, 2020 9:45 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: I have just received a message from a stranger on CS. The message was so intellectually fascinating, all other parameters immediately fell by the wayside. Can one fall in love with a mind, instead of a face or a body?

I wrote back, "You're more than a pretty face."
She wrote back, "I am that too."
A person can 'fall in love' with anyone, it's only temporary after all. The real love may come later, for that the 'package' is much less important than the mind....just ask a blind couple.
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Jan 24, 2020 9:45 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
Selenite: Yeah! My own company is way more pleasant than the company of someone I've had to 'dumb myself down' in order to 'not offend' ...as in I'd rather be with myself than with someone who thinks I'm too this and too that blah blah ....
On the other hand, I m ready to meet someone. Someone who already is who he is and of course can see I already am who I am
He's out there... we shall meet...
Well, do let us all know when you finally hit pay dirt, the mother lode, or the white knight on a prancing stallion. We all live in hope. cheers
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Jan 24, 2020 9:46 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
bodleing2: A person can 'fall in love' with anyone, it's only temporary after all. The real love may come later, for that the 'package' is much less important than the mind....just ask a blind couple.
Tally ho, roger wilco. thumbs up
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Jan 24, 2020 9:59 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Well, do let us all know when you finally hit pay dirt, the mother lode, or the white knight on a prancing stallion. We all live in hope.
Sarcasm?
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Jan 24, 2020 10:01 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
Selenite: Sarcasm?
Is that your impression?
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Jan 24, 2020 10:04 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Is that your impression?
The prince on his stallion made me wonder ....

You tell me ... I'd rather not make assumptions ...
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Jan 24, 2020 10:06 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
Selenite: The prince on his stallion made me wonder ....

You tell me ... I'd rather not make assumptions ...
Think about it this way - when last did you read about a success story here of a well-liked member meeting their match and living happily ever after? We all need a success story to keep us motivated. Yours would be a welcome respite.
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Jan 24, 2020 10:11 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Think about it this way - when last did you read about a success story here of a well-liked member meeting their match and living happily ever after? We all need a success story to keep us motivated. Yours would be a welcome respite.
I can think of a few, in fact there's a member who has posted on this thread who would fit into that category.
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Jan 24, 2020 10:13 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
bodleing2: I can think of a few, in fact there's a member who has posted on this thread who would fit into that category.
They must be few and far between. There should be some sort of award system in place. Brownie points, or a weekend at a romantic hotel. Or chocolates. Something, at least.
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Jan 24, 2020 10:18 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Think about it this way - when last did you read about a success story here of a well-liked member meeting their match and living happily ever after? We all need a success story to keep us motivated. Yours would be a welcome respite.
I think I know of a few ... One couple I believe they are still blissfully happy!

With 2 other couples their love story was a success but unfortunately one of the people within the couple passed away blues

It was a few years ago...
Don't know of any recent ones as I've not been here long.
But, it doesn't metter where you meet the person, here or elsewhere. What matters is that someone who was a member met someone and they're happy!

It would be great if people would share thst they have met someone before disappearing conversing


Many years ago I met someone here. It didn't work out but thanks to that meeting I now live in the particular area where I am. My plan had been to settle in a different part of Andalucia. But I like it here and stayed on. He decided to move on. Not all things that don't work out are bad cool
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Jan 24, 2020 10:21 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
Selenite: I think I know of a few ... One couple I believe they are still blissfully happy!
Many years ago I met someone here. It didn't work out but thanks to that meeting I now live in the particular area where I am. My plan had been to settle in a different part of Andalucia. But I like it here and stayed on. He decided to move on. Not all things that don't work out are bad
A great story! Yours sounds almost like a movie script.....'Eat, Pray, Spain'...lol. thumbs up
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Jan 24, 2020 10:25 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: A great story! Yours sounds almost like a movie script.....'Eat, Pray, Spain'...lol.
rolling on the floor laughing laugh The Spaniard who grew up abroad and finally returned to her roots! yay
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Jan 24, 2020 10:27 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Selenite: The Spaniard who grew up abroad and finally returned to her roots!
The 'love story' only lasted 8 months and that was 12 years ago wow
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Jan 24, 2020 10:44 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Think about it this way - when last did you read about a success story here of a well-liked member meeting their match and living happily ever after? We all need a success story to keep us motivated. Yours would be a welcome respite.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=RkYcD-Kh78o#menu
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Jan 24, 2020 10:55 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: I have just received a message from a stranger on CS. The message was so intellectually fascinating, all other parameters immediately fell by the wayside. Can one fall in love with a mind, instead of a face or a body?

I wrote back, "You're more than a pretty face."
She wrote back, "I am that too."
Oh wow! That's nice. Keep communicating with her until you feel more comfortable enough to fully trust her or until she drops the ball (shows her true colors). I wouldn't give out any personal info yet, i.e. email, phone number, etc

I hope it works out for you. So far she seems very nice and intelligent as you mentioned.

Best wisheswine
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Jan 24, 2020 11:30 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
bodleing2: I can think of a few, in fact there's a member who has posted on this thread who would fit into that category.
I can think of a few too.

Hi Bod wave
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