We would be waiting a long time for women to hunt us down. It’s always been his job to get amongst it, but not like you’re actually hungry. In spite of doing most of the work he is as hard won as she is, can’t stress enough how important this is. The tables will turn.
ChesneyChrist: We would be waiting a long time for women to hunt us down. It’s always been his job to get amongst it, but not like you’re actually hungry. In spite of doing most of the work he is as hard won as she is, can’t stress enough how important this is. The tables will turn.
raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA5,181 posts
When I was engaged in my twenties and right after I broke up women were coming on to me frequently. After my egagement faile in two months i had dated two knockouts. After six months I was the worlds biggest loser. Zilch,nada. Maybe you could start a fake girlfriend dating service just to get back in action.
Selenite: I read that the 'wanting what she/he has' is connected to the fact we radiate a particular light or energy when we are happy within our couple that makes us more attractive to others... That's why if you feel miserable in your singledom you won't appear as attractive ...
Speak for yourself. I do not 'feel miserable in my singledom' ... yes, being in 'coupledom' is nice, but as we all know too well, it is always a huge compromise.
The single lifestyle has many, great privileges to it. It need not be a permanent status quo, but enjoy the advantages while you have them, comrades-in-arms.
Selenite: I read that the 'wanting what she/he has' is connected to the fact we radiate a particular light or energy when we are happy within our couple that makes us more attractive to others... That's why if you feel miserable in your singledom you won't appear as attractive ...
being with a woman — particularly a beautiful one thought to be the significant other — does increase a man’s appeal in the minds of female evaluators. In a 2018 review, 16 out of 18 studies found adding a presumed romantic partner to a man’s photo made other women score him as more attractive or desirable than the same man solo. Additionally, the studies that varied the beauty of the female partner found that making her more attractive also increased his score.
tomcatty: being with a woman — particularly a beautiful one thought to be the significant other — does increase a man’s appeal in the minds of female evaluators. In a 2018 review, 16 out of 18 studies found adding a presumed romantic partner to a man’s photo made other women score him as more attractive or desirable than the same man solo. Additionally, the studies that varied the beauty of the female partner found that making her more attractive also increased his score.
psychology weekly
Could we possibly have your own personal view on these matters just for a change . After all you are only 57 and must have loads of experience.
tomcatty: being with a woman — particularly a beautiful one thought to be the significant other — does increase a man’s appeal in the minds of female evaluators. In a 2018 review, 16 out of 18 studies found adding a presumed romantic partner to a man’s photo made other women score him as more attractive or desirable than the same man solo. Additionally, the studies that varied the beauty of the female partner found that making her more attractive also increased his score.
psychology weekly
Ergo, present yourself as single and alone, and you only get the truly interested and serious. It's like Darwin's natural selection.
OnlyLiveTwice: Speak for yourself. I do not 'feel miserable in my singledom' ... yes, being in 'coupledom' is nice, but as we all know too well, it is always a huge compromise.
The single lifestyle has many, great privileges to it. It need not be a permanent status quo, but enjoy the advantages while you have them, comrades-in-arms.
I was replying to Tom's comment and my reply is in the context of his post ...
I have been single for a very long time out of choice ... yes singledom is a beautiful experience and such a great way to make friends with oneself... Coupledom has many aspects from being lovers to being in a relationship to living together to getting married ... each choice is valid and has its merit ...
tomcatty: being with a woman — particularly a beautiful one thought to be the significant other — does increase a man’s appeal in the minds of female evaluators. In a 2018 review, 16 out of 18 studies found adding a presumed romantic partner to a man’s photo made other women score him as more attractive or desirable than the same man solo. Additionally, the studies that varied the beauty of the female partner found that making her more attractive also increased his score.
germanspitz: Could we possibly have your own personal view on these matters just for a change . After all you are only 57 and must have loads of experience.
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