Thanks Larry I wish there were more man like you in this sit I respect man and I want to be respected too . What wrong with that do on to other as you want other to do too you .
It is a paradox reading some post and profiles as they are the end of the spectrum.
First, If we evaluate the bases of online dating, easy to conclude that it is built in favor of women, as we men like to "hunt", and it is simply assumed that men will make the first move. All a woman really has to do is make a profile, post a few nice pictures, and wait. - she will have both crappy /masterpiece messages in her inbox in less than 10 minutes.
Second, Women have more choices on online dating than in real world , as fact. It does not make it easier, as overchoice has to be carefully evaluated. Most people want to live yesterday. - Of course, not in CS, as a some women are "specials" waiting for "ET", but also wanting men to make the first move, serenade and be real.
I don't "hunt" online as it is easier int real world and also I believe women/men have the same obligations - we go for what we want and no more old crap story of “men will make the first move “ or crappy serenade .
If she impress me I will serenade her. And I did.
PS Are we men guilty of the same crap I wrote about "special ET"? Absolutely. I make no delusions of that.
OnlyLiveTwice: Or do they prefer a rational, polite and measured sign of interest? In this modern age, do women really want olde-style Romeo gushing effusive lines of Victorian silliness below a balcony, or do they prefer a more direct, realistic, and contemporary initiation of contact? If you want 'woke' men, don't expect olde-worlde troubadours, would be the issue, no?
Your thoughts?
I don't like any "pushy" attention. Flirting is something 2 people do and it should be reciprocated from the other side, otherwise it's unwelcome.
Simpy talking to each other, get a chance to get an idea about the other person and if there is interest, things might progress.
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57? He can even remember back that far