CirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
Youcannow: I’m sure you do know what “taking care of their men “ means .
I've got an idea, but I don't want to put words in anyone's mouth, or jump to a conclusion, make a criticism on the basis of it and turn out to have jumped to the wrong conclusion.
Besides, I am only looking at the issue from my own perspective, at my time of life. I don't need looking after, or taking care of; I would only want a relationship with a woman for the sheer pleasure of being in their company.
Youcannow: Refer to post 144. Regarding stereotyping.
You’ve yet to give me a reason as to the advantages western women have over their eastern counterparts .
A woman who really loves you can exceed the higher rate of usury that can be drawn from sweating the east instead of loving the west. She can try harder than any cheap and easy labour.
Circlip: I lived in Rotherham for a long time, as it happens, but I didn't see that documentary. I think there are people like that to be found all over the country; all over the world, in fact. You have to realise that "documentaries" of that sort will be very selective in who they choose to put on the screen. Anyway, what does that have to do with the topic in hand?
You previously asked how an eastern woman would take care of her man & I'm just giving examples of women who can’t even do basic domestic duties like cooking for example.
Even in third world countries, women keep their houses clean & make sure there is a home cooked meal for her family to look forward to , rather than take the easy option of the local chippy. I say this because the Jamie Oliver campaign transformed the way school meals were served. I was part of that movement when I was brought in by local authorities to help change the eating habit from frozen meals to using fresh ingredients.
ChesneyChrist: A woman who really loves you can exceed the higher rate of usury that can be drawn from sweating the east instead of loving the west. She can try harder than any cheap and easy labour.
What has love got to do with anything. Most people don’t know what real love is . I would go as far as to say that money is the incentive for most western women .
CirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
Youcannow: You previously asked how an eastern woman would take care of her man & I'm just giving examples of women who can’t even do basic domestic duties like cooking for example.
Even in third world countries, women keep their houses clean & make sure there is a home cooked meal for her family to look forward to , rather than take the easy option of the local chippy. I say this because the Jamie Oliver campaign transformed the way school meals were served. I was part of that movement when I was brought in by local authorities to help change the eating habit from frozen meals to using fresh ingredients.
I think we are straying way off track here, Youcan.
CirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
Youcannow: I’m not sure I am . As far as I’m concerned, it’s all relevant.
So some Western women can't cook, or look after their kids properly. Maybe some Eastern European women fall into that category as well, who knows?
What exactly do you require of a woman? I have said that I don't want or need someone to "take care of me", I would just want someone whose company I valued and enjoyed. They don't need to cook for me or clean my home for me or wash my clothes. The question of looking after children would not even arise.
So what would you expect of a woman in order for her to meet with your satisfaction? And please don't say something vague like, "to look after me properly".
Circlip: So some Western women can't cook, or look after their kids properly. Maybe some Eastern European women fall into that category as well, who knows?
What exactly do you require of a woman? I have said that I don't want or need someone to "take care of me", I would just want someone whose company I valued and enjoyed. They don't need to cook for me or clean my home for me or wash my clothes. The question of looking after children would not even arise.
So what would you expect of a woman in order for her to meet with your satisfaction? And please don't say something vague like, "to look after me properly".
To have peace of mind . The domestic duties are irrelevant. I find it easier to connect with non western women , but then again , I may not be as passive as yourself .
Youcannow: To have peace of mind . The domestic duties are irrelevant. I find it easier to connect with non western women , but then again , I may not be as passive as yourself .
I don't connect with women! It can be a problem or not a problem it depends on the day.
CirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
Youcannow: To have peace of mind . The domestic duties are irrelevant. I find it easier to connect with non western women , but then again , I may not be as passive as yourself .
You didn't answer what I asked, but I kind of knew you wouldn't.
Circlip: You didn't answer what I asked, but I kind of knew you wouldn't.
Why would I answer the question when you already know the answer . As I kind of mentioned earlier , but not in so many words . I don’t believe in equality in a relationship, but that doesn’t mean a woman’s role is less important than a mans . In fact , I would say it’s the opposite.
CirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK826 posts
Youcannow: I don’t believe in equality in a relationship, but that doesn’t mean a woman’s role is less important than a mans .
So you want to be the one who determines who plays what role in a relationship? Well perhaps there are women who think they should be the one who assigns the roles. Unfortunately, who gets to call the shots isn't written in the stars, although I suspect that you think it is.
I suppose partners need to agree on how the partnership should be conducted for it to be successful. If you need to go east in order to find an agreeable partner, then bon voyage.
Circlip: So you want to be the one who determines who plays what role in a relationship? Well perhaps there are women who think they should be the one who assigns the roles. Unfortunately, who gets to call the shots isn't written in the stars, although I suspect that you think it is.
I suppose partners need to agree on how the partnership should be conducted for it to be successful. If you need to go east in order to find an agreeable partner, then bon voyage.
Actually, I will head south to my native Cyprus when I retire & you will still be dreaming of finding your western unicorn.
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Besides, I am only looking at the issue from my own perspective, at my time of life. I don't need looking after, or taking care of; I would only want a relationship with a woman for the sheer pleasure of being in their company.