Decent_Love: Not every attraction is love. How to recognize the attraction of love?
Generally, attraction is little more than lust.
Love on the other hand is not romantic, as most think, though certainly the all-encompassing nature of complete love would include far more. It is not easy to define, especially in an illusion but when you can imagine that we are all one, even those that you find issues with, then it is possible that you can approach love on a higher more spiritual basis than physicality would allow.
So yeah, most of our attractions are lust and or desire. Not that there's anything wrong with that. There is however an innate condition that leads us to specific people for purposes only our spirit could have arranged and that is done in love.
Decent_Love: Not every attraction is love. How to recognize the attraction of love?
You have to give these things time. Time and maybe a 500 mile walk not because she is new and exciting, but because she's not. Walk 500 miles for someone you've slept with 500 times, then you'll know.
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How to recognize the attraction of love?